3yr old daughter is touched by her classmates sexually how to deal with it?

[Anonymous]

This is the second week , 4th time my daughter has come home from preschool with a red vagina she says the kids she even called their names have been touching her private parts. She humps on the doll, bed, chair, table. I don't know how to deal with this I told her not to allow Ito scold her it isn't working. I am a single parent me and her live alone do I take her counseling tell her teachers take her out from school I am so sad I don't know what to so please gve me advice on how to deal with it. I don't date, watch any smut telivision and I have been celibate for 2.5yrs. I have been busy with work and then baking goods to sell to provide for us two

[Anonymous]

Your daughter is a treasure that has been given to you, and she is your responsibility. Right now, her safety is far more important than anything else. Please, go to the School Principal and talk to them. Nobody should be touching her private parts, and if she is giving their names is easier but you need to file an official claim. Maybe she is not the only one who is going through this and the other girls have not talked about it with anyone. The ball is in your court now, and if you have to change her schools you do, but her well being is far more important. I was sexually molested since I was 8 years old, and never talked about it. The abused continue until I was a teenager. It has taken me several years to forgive that man and to forgive myself. But it is very painful, I never told anyone until I was 30 years old that I shared it to my boyfriend. In that moment, I was released. Please do something for her,

[Asker]

thank you I was thinking about switching schools or having her home school but tomorrow I will be speaking to both her class teacher and principal. its funny because she is claiming to she loves the little boy and the little girl and that the allows her to sit on him. I keep asking myself why me. I work so hard and I try my best. Her dad abandoned us and when I was pregnant I did everything on my own. I hope I don't lose it

[Opinion Owner]

Take good care of her. She is just innocent and pure right now. Don?t let them ruin her childhood. You are a fantastic mother, and I am sure that when she grows up, she will appreciate everything you are doing for her. Keeping you and your girl in my prayers for certain,

[Asker]

Thank you we went to the pediatrician today, she has an infection. we are using the doctors paper along with what she's said to propose the matter to the teacher and principal thanks

[theshewolf]

Please go to the school and regulate ,thats the first thing you should of done, go up there let the principal, teacher whoever you have to tell, know that your daughter said so and so was touching her vagina, protect your daughter , she's only gonna get older and have more problems out of other students, teach her that its not okay for people to touch her private parts . Your the only person she can look to for protection , protect her and don't let this go on. Personally if this was my child id be up there the first time it happended.

[theshewolf]

and if nothing is done about it , contact the school board the super intendent, who ever till something gets done about it , don't allow for her to go back to school till someone does something, if nothing is done I smell a lawsuit .

[Asker]

thank you I have been crying so hysterically I did not know how to handle it thank u

[theshewolf]

i know how you feel , I have a 4 year old sister I'm 21, she feels like she's my child sometimes. Id be upset as well, I even tell her to let me know if anybody bothers you or hurts you at school , even little things such as other kids shoving her makes me mad, my dad and my little sisters mom definently go up to the school and regulate when wrong has been done to my sister by teacher or another child. Your baby girl is 3 , she's just a baby , she can't stand up for herself like you can for her.

[caligirl3]

talk to the principal and demand that they keep a close look at the kids. They are still so young so talking to them about it won't do much good.

[justincider]

As a single parent of a little girl, you have to get CPS (child protective services) involved immediately. This isn't just about your daughtger, what ever kids are doing this at school most likely are being abused sexually at home. Not your fault, but is your issue. You can help her heal this behavior once the root influence is addressed. Please call right now. Thank you

[justincider]

And I agree with going to the principal and teachers, but obviously they aren't regulating that behavior in their school. CPS will get their attention real quick

[MorbidPrincess94]

Go to her school to find out who is doing this to her. Then you tell the principal to call their parents to have a talk with them.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Go to the police. Period.

[Anonymous]

Talk to the teacher..principal..the district the cops someone who can make it stop if she's allowed it til now she will keep allowing it wherever she goes..and take her to counseling

[Anonymous]

Talk to the teacher and the principle