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What does it feel like ? (Facesitting)

Sooo I've been seeing all types of posts in my blog and hearing a lot of people who have been trying this. I want to know for a girl would you sit on a guys face and let him eat you out ? If you have done this, did you enjoy it? And men would you want a girl to sit on your face? Does it turn you on? I'm really just very curious on others people's opinions on this (:
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It isn't literally with all of your weight sitting on a mans face, the man would be laying down and your nani would be over his mouth as he eats you out
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I certainly don't think it's degrading. On the contrary think it's great so terribly stimulating. But I do think there's a little submissiveness on the guy's part but that's OK because he's going down on her and he needs to bring her an enjoyable experience including an orgasm she won't soon forget. He needs to finish her. My girlfriend has certainly sat on my face more than once and when she does she straddles my waist and then sits down backwards on my face facing my feet. This gives her easy access to my stuff down there to play with or give me a hj once she orgasms if she wants to. One thing I like about that is while I'm eating her out my nose is literally up her a*s so that the combination of the two makes me rock hard and more energetic in my pursuit of pleasuring her. This is especially so whenever she sits back a little more to tease me with her a*s. So yes, I would want a girl to sit on my face and it does turn me on immensely, as well as her. One friends with benefits I had for a short time before did that to me the first time and it was like WOW, it doesn't get any hotter than this! We did it a few more time and let me tell you that this can get very sexy. I don't doubt for a second that a lot of people have been trying this because once you do it's like wow I want more. Facesitting is so stimulating. I was the one that eventually introduced it to my girlfriend and she went for it right off!

  • Actually having a woman sit on your face is degrading and humiliating for the guy – but that’s OK – it’s all part of the sadomasochistic appeal of this position.

    Much of the joy from the male perspective is experiencing sheer female ruthlessness in pursuit of pleasure. The fact that she is getting off whilst forcing you into such an inescapable and demeaning position with little or no concern for your welfare - is highly erotic!

    Facesitting is a perfectly natural position and it's an opportunity for girls to explore their dominant side. I’ve always been pleasantly surprised at how little persuasion was needed for various girlfriends to give it a try.

    From an ergonomic perspective, it's a far more effective way for a man to give oral pleasure to a woman. You should not worry too much about suffocating him - It is perfectly safe to sit on his face with your full weight as long as you allow him some air every now and then by briefly lifting yourself up. For safety, you should agree a signal beforehand for when he's at his limit. You may not feel comfortable initially, but one thing is for sure, the orgasms you’ll experience will be out of this world….and you could well become addicted…

Most Helpful Girls

  • You have to be in the mood for it, and decently comfortable with your body to enjoy this. If he knows what he's doing and knows the right spots, it feels pretty damn good. the more sensitive spots he can get to at once the more you'll enjoy it. I actually only enjoy it when he's licking my clit and stimulating my g spot at the same time. That's the only way I'll orgasm from face sitting, but my boyfriend said it's kinda hard to finger me while I'm sitting on his face, so we don't do it often cause it kinda doesn't do enough for me when other things could. You might love it though, some people get off by different kinds of stimulation. My one friend only can come whilst having her clit stimulated and I am the oposite and have to have my g-spot stimulated :) it does feel nice though, you can slide yourself at your own pace against his tongue and it kind of gives you more control- which is what I prefer !

  • Isn't it kind of degrading to guys, kinda like a less extreme version of throat gagging for girls. It seems scary for someone to sit on your face, especially a woman that is over 5 lbs...

    • I don't see how it's degrading.. ?

    • Throat gagging or face sitting? IT seems degrading because it looks like the guys face is a toilet, and it seems scary like you are being suffocated. It just doesn't seem appealing to have someone's genitals forcibly in your face. Whether someone is sitting on your face, or slapping you with a penis. It just seems rude, if I were the guy I would feel claustrophobic if I were in that position. If you are into that, go ahead do what you wanna do, my perception of this is that it's degrading.

    • While I wouldn't personally find it particularly degrading, facesitting seems to be very common in the femdom genre of p*rn where a woman completely dominates a man so I absolutely see where you're coming from with this.

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  • I like it, we'll finish that way if I want to come in his mouth...

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  • To me, it's just another position in which to give (or receive) oral sex. I do it and I like it, but it's not a fetish I have or anything. It's just fun to change things up once on a while and keep it interesting.

    As one of the other folks pointed out, it's often much more difficult to use your fingers at the same time, due to the angles involved, so I tend not to do this one as much as other positions that provide better hand/finger access.

  • I love facesitting on my boyfriend :) We both love it and it is such a huge turn on!

  • I already wrote it in another similar topic. I LOVE the imagination of a girl sitting on me! The problem with that is that women dont understand what makes submissive guys exited about it. We love the idea of the woman not caring at all about the man, when its for her pleasure. So if she sits fullweight on my face, that is what I expect! I dont want her to adjust the weight, this is uncomfortable for both of us, just sit! I won't die! Also she doesn't need to stand up or worry about me getting air, all you have to do is to just dont care, we ALWAYS find a way to get air somehow, and only if the Girl fights against it, it gets exiting. Because there can't be a more turn off for me and a lot of other men, if the women lets us breath even tho we still could have hold it for 30 more seconds. Me for example: I can hold it for around 1 min. and 30 sec. but if the woman stands up already after 30 sec. there Is nothing exiting about it. I and only I know when I need air. And when she manages to still hold my air past 1:30 for 1 more minute so I get this burning feel, and my face gets all red and she just giggles, then its the right girl with the right way to do it.

    • So true. The problem there is that most girls are conditioned to be sexually passive rather than sexually aggressive. I think there is a latent desire in a lot of women to sexually dominate men - but few allow it to come to the fore - it is awesome when they do though!!! I agree, there is something intensely erotic about a woman's will forcefully overpowering yours. A woman sitting on a man's face quite literally has the power of life and death over him...

    • I agree 110%!!! Please all sexy ladies with big asses do not be afraid to sit on someone's face fullwight and smother the manhood out of them. Just try it or do it for the vine lbs.

  • I've always thought of facesitting as the woman literally sitting on the guy, completely smothering his face with her ass and p****. There's plenty of videos of this type of thing on p*rn sites.

    Personally, I prefer it when a woman straddles over me just above my face so I can wrap my arms around her thighs while I go down (or up!) on her.

    For what it's worth, almost all of the women I've been with prefer to receive oral when they're lying on their back.

  • Wish i could get a girlfriend with hairy vagina sit on my face

  • all your weight is fine. you control the pressure his tongue his breathing where he licks you etc...personally I love it. being covered under a hot kitty and ass. let him lick you everywhere! I you may just explode

  • I HATE receiving oral sex, tell people this often but sometimes "tolerate" them trying to "let me change your mind"

    My face sitting on others = a super-short-controlled-hover MINUS any body weight = TOTAL FAIL!!!

    • If you just dont like oral sex, I have to say not everyone likes the same stuff. Its alright! But what I have to Tell you Is that You're been doing it wrong! Nobody LITERALLY Nobody WHO wants to be sat on wants you to hover, 1. Its uncomfortable for you and 2. Its not exiting at all for the guy. If someone Is into facesitting they expect you to sit fullweight, they won't die from that, its really really unrealistisch that they do. they want to feel the Full weight of the Woman pressing on his Face. Also you got to know that facesitting isn't just about the Oral sex, its often used as a prelude, smothering the guy, and controlling when he Is allowed to breath can be very arousing. And dont be like "maybe I can suffocate him" "maybe I should give him air" we always get the air somehow. There Is ALWAYS a way. Even if we get bondaged, we can just turn our Head and we get air. And if the rare case happens that he really doesn't find a way, give him some air but be like "that was unintentional"

    • @Bimbobambo (smiling) Me + face sitting = NOT = "TOTAL FAIL" as stated above. TY for the illumination but in future I'll just say to people "I don't do that" Peace xo

  • Being facesitted by a girl is my number one fetish. I love it so much and i can´t get enough. I want to be kidnapped by several big women, tied and beaten and facesitted by them taking turns as they hump my face forth and back to orgasm on my face or in my mouth.

  • yeah I like it for licking her ass

  • I love it, as long as it's not smothering me.

    Interestingly, a lot of girls are not so comfortable with it. I haven't figured out why.

  • My girlfriend and i 69'd and her sitting right on my face was crazy hot! She liked it too.

  • Being a boy elder girls used to force me quite often.
    It was first of all extremely degrading and very often I was scared because most girls were sitting on my face like on a cushion with their full weight.
    So I had always big problems getting enough air while they had all their fun and the often seemed to forget that they were sitting on my face on not on seat cushion.
    The girls I remember were really greedy to get this kind of sex and in general they were extremely ruthless for getting their climax.
    I think there are not too many adult women into face sitting but girls up to a certain age seem to adore it because it is an extremely easy kind of sex for them without any risk.

  • I really enjoy face sitting guys & gals but there is a difference

    • did u try it?

  • Very exciting as long as her body weight isn't off scale. Something for the petite women, not for the big ones.

  • Don't you feel yyou are suffocating him?lol

    • If you do it wrong, you could suffocate him, but us guys can just hold our breaths, and if we can't hold it for any longer we can always just give you some kind if signal to give us breathing room. I was once down on a girl for half an hour with no problems

  • if I have got it right, facesitting isn't so much about being eaten out

    • Yep, you got it exactly right, it's kinda like depth roaring or throat fucking is for guys, you're in control, unless we're strong enough to lift your whole body weight off us

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