Why am I extremely attracted to my boyfriend when he is angry?

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I must be crazy... I mean, what the f*** is wrong with me?Every time I start arguing with my boyfriend and I get extremely mad at him, he restrains me and I find it extremely hot.He has never hit me, (if he did, I would break up with him).Today we had a fight and he restrained me and I told him to let me go but I don't think it sounded too convincing because my voice betrayed me and as a result he held me tighter and he bit my neck playfully. Then he calmed down.Why the hell am I extremely attracted to him when he does that? Am I a psycho or something? Is there a way to stop the way I feel?It really bugs me.

indian_empress_91 · Accepted Answer

Cause he's dominating you and he's doing it in a primal way that sexually turns you on. Ur not crazy it's natural.

Like when I get angry or mad or have really serious face on my guy think it's super sexy and wants to jump me. He says he doesn't know why but me being angry turns him on so damn much. I think sometimes he intentionally says or does things to make my face go fromt he usual smiley face to really serious and then he wants to kiss me. He says I look more sexy with a serious face on which is weird cause I thought men liked when women are smiley and happy looking to be more attractive.

It bugs me too but he does let me finish what I have to say cause I use a certain tone in my voice or I'll stop and squint my eyes and look at him hard. Plus he says he likes how my eyes are when I'm angry. So I look away and talk at times so he doesn't get too turned on.

This sh*t happens with all my exes I don't know what I'm doing wrong for them to only kiss me every time I get mad at them.

When he gets mad or get into debating with me, I get turned on too. I guess I get really hyped up or heated in our debates or arguments that the turn on feelings are very close by and I just end up making out with him lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

oh my god I don't know what it is but whenever me and my man get into an argument, I'm so horny afterward. it would be so hot if he pushed you against the wall gently while he was angry and started making out

MorbidPrincess94 · Accepted Answer

Lol No you're not. Believe me that's absolutely normal. I get really horny when my boyfriend gets mad at me. It's like I just want him to f*ck me real hard. Don't feel bad about it.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

It's simple: you enjoy having him dominate you. That's a very, very common feeling for women to have.

If you want to explore that, though, you need to have him learn to dominate you AWAY from times of anger. Domination isn't about anger at all, and mixing the two could potentially be dangerous.

You enjoy being submissive in the bedroom and having him dominate you, restrain you, and take control. That's fine, just make sure you do some research about it and learn the right way and wrong way to go about it.

sovetskii13 · Accepted Answer

That is actually very common. Women just find it erotic when a man is filled with rage. It makes the man look powerful. It means that he can be dominant in the bedroom. And turns out that you have a thing for being dominated. That is totally normal and somewhat commom. It's great that you discovered this because now you know another thing that turns you on. This means better sex in the future.

caligirl3 · Answer

maybe he becomes more manly when he is pissed

Prof_Don · Answer

He is showing signs of aggression and physical power, that why. Its a natural female primal urge to react the way you do.

lv4lv · Answer

It's just instincts.

johnvanjohn · Answer

"crazy" maybe feminine for sure. when a woman starts a fight is usually because she wants to express her feelings and we usually listen to but not hear what women have to say, so if the response from us is positive woman gets what she wanted in the first place, the attention that she seeks from us and deserves.