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Why do girls like that p*rnstar James Deen?

I just can't understand it. I guess he's a good looking guy as far as male p*rnstars go, but also looks like the guy nextdoor, if you will. I never get how chicks would like a scrawny guy like him though, kid's probably 5'9, 165. Do you even lift, bro? Lol...but anyway, my issue is more with his performance. This guy degeades the sh-t out of the girls he works with. Just manhandles them. It makes ME uncomfortable. And the way he talks to them is borderline creepy. I can't imagine how a girl would be turned on by that. I'm no stiff in the sack, and I don't mind getting a little aggressive, maybe pulling her hair and giving her a spank in doggystyle. But I don't get why either party would want choking and slapping. If he did that in an argument you'd have him locked up, but in bed it's a turn-on? Makes ZERO sense. These are probably the same girls who set gender equality back 100 years and say "Chris Brown is FINE! I'd let him kick my ass" on twitter and whatnot. I just don't get women sometimes...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe if you ever listened to the pre-interviews from the girls, you'd know that they usually took the job because they WANTED that type of treatment (either just "to try it once" or because they are into it), and that they often specifically ask for certain specific things, like being held down, thrown around, choked, slapped, etc.

    If you watch any of the Kink.com family of videos, they interview the girls before and after the scene. A recent one I saw was with Riley Reid for Sex And Submission. She told James Deen what she wanted, and after the first part of the scene, she stopped him and said "no, I want MORE. Smack me harder, tie me tighter, be rougher!"

    Not every girl likes rough sex, but a LOT of girls do, at least sometimes, and he fulfills that fantasy that a lot of women have. It's the same reason that 50 Shades Of Grey was a bestseller: tons of women want, or have fantasies about, rough sex.

    • Sorry, I usually skip the interviews, lol. I just don't understand violent sex, I guess. My girl read 50 Shades and she was like "uhhhh, girls are ret@rded. The sex scenes are just like every other trashy romance novel, just with domination. The only thing about the book that interested me was finding out why he was so f-cked up psychologically."

    • That's fine. It's not for you, or your GF, and that's no problem. But a lot of girls ARE into it, and not just because their guy likes it. Different strokes for different folks.

  • A midget that manhandles women the way they wish in their fantasies that's rich and has a guy next door charm?

    And you're not understanding why this works? That's how most p*rnstars work.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I ended up googling him way back, when girls on here mentioned him as their favorite p*rn star and I have to agree with them. He is not like the typical gross-porn guys who are either unappealing besides their penis or so juiced up it's amazing how they don't explode from orgasms. He's just a skinny jewish guy who happens to have sex with women for a living. What I also like is that he seems to genuinely like pleasuring girls (whether it be BDSM, or just regular sex), to me he is like the average guy.

  • I really like him...he's not gentle but some people are into that. He is a real turn on to me because he is a lot more attractive than the typical horrendously gross male p*rn stars that are usually in p*rn. Also just because a woman likes to have rough sex doesn't mean she stands for domestic abuse! I hate Chris Brown haha

    • Yeah, I figure he's an Adonis by comparison to most of the male talent, lol. But getting rough and straight choking out a girl are two different things in my mind. Whatever gets you off I guess, none of my business, but I sure wouldn't want that done to me! Dated a girl briefly in college who liked that, but it just felt so wrong to me. I was so uncomfortable with it, goes against everything I believe in.

  • I'm and girl and I also don't get why many girls like him, he is alittle creepy on his videos at least the ones I've seen.

    • That's what I'm saying. Just the way he gives instructions to girls is straight up CREEPY, lol.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • i don't even know who the guy is.

  • No.
    Guy was insane and creepy. He gets to go to prison in my book.
    You and I see eye to eye on this.

  • Girls like to be dominated but want to be dominant when it's convenient for them.

    Can't say that though, it's sexist!

  • Well I'm a girl and I can tell you that I don't like him at all.

  • James Dean is hot. His eyes. I just watch him for Him, not the sex. Then Again, his pens is not Huge, yet he can make every woman orgasm. Lol

  • Gee, I wonder why women like James Deen and Chris Brown. Is it that difficult to figure out? Women are mostly the same in their preferences.

  • They are paid to speak be spoken to like that. I promise they aren't happy about being handled like that but they literally suck it up and get paid.

  • Some girls are into rough sex.

  • Jealous ?

  • It must be that its their fantasy. As far as his looks go, he might be 5'9" and 165 but he has a nice cock.

  • googled and he's not my type but what's wrong with 5'9/165?

    • I don't know, I thought most girls like bigger guys. Looks like he's never seen the inside of a gym.

  • I don't get either. The guy has been with everyone girl in the world. Ugh.

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