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Guys-do you expect sex if you ask a girl to spend the night?

I've been on a few dates with this guy. Last date-date 3 we made out for like 3 hours. He got me topless, but didn't try anything else. So he contacted me, and we're going out to breakfast and a museum for our next date. He invited me over to spend the night, and I accepted since the breakfast place is close to him. Plus I would like to spend the night with him. The problem is I'm on my period. Should I not have accepted the invitation to stay over? I can still give him a BJ if it the topic arises. I'm not stupid-I know generally spending the night means sex, but would you get upset if it couldn't happen because of *cough* bad timing? Thanks
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  • Not at all, I would respect that most women don't like to have sex during a period, so this would not be a problem, and I wouldn't expect sex anycase. My asking you to stay would be to get to know you more, but if sex was to happen, then great. So no, not many guys would expect or allow it to be a problem, so just be up front, just so he is aware of how far he can go,x

  • No it is not problem to have a sex with him but if you are in your peried you must be more careful! You can give him BJ and t*ts-job (laying the penis and masturbating between two boobies and you can contract his penis with your t*ts :) I think it's very nice and enough for now.

    • ...why must I be more careful? It's not like I know when its going to happen. And I don't want period sex, I'm just wondering if it would be upsetting if it didn't happen

Most Helpful Girl

  • If he likes you as he should it will not matter. He will settle for a bit of penis sucking and be happy that he has you to cuddle with throughout the night.

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  • Keeping it short - No I won't get upset if the timing is bad :) periods are a natural cycle so it's OK There are so many other things that can be done :D but yes I'd be concerned about my girl's getting off.

    However, to each his own

  • He should be able to accept the circumstances if he really likes you. Maybe this will be a good test to see what he really thinks about you. If it seems like he only cares about the sex, and gets upset...well, that tells you a lot, I would think?

  • I'd expect to go at least as far as we've gone before, and possibly further.

    If we'd not gone beyond making out, and ended up doing oral, that's definitely not a disappointment. That's even aside from your period. I'm okay with period sex, but I'm also very much okay with alternatives. Period celibacy I don't enjoy as much ...

    Have a good time.

  • i don't think it has to mean sex, but that's just me. making out, possible some oral would be fine with me especially if it were the first sleep over and we hadn't had sex yet... but part of me (before knowing the girl was on her period) would wonder if sex was on the agenda for the sleepover

  • Same as stubbsy

  • Not sex...but perhaps a blowjob

  • Yes they do

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