Girls: Have you ever denied your boyfriend sex because you were sleeping with another man?

[Special11]

Girls, do you come up with excuses not to sleep with your boyfriend because you are getting it elsewhere? How often do you think of previous lovers while having sex? At what point in a relationship do you compare your boyfriend with previous partners? What are signs a woman is comparing a man with someoneone else? How does a man know when a woman is judging him? Do girls sometimes say hurtful things to nice guys just to see how they will react, then make fun of them for continuing to be nice even though they are acting like a bitch on purpose?

[MaskofInsanity]

Girls, do you come up with excuses not to sleep with your boyfriend because you are getting it elsewhere?

No. I've never cheated on a partner.

How often do you think of previous lovers while having sex?

Never?

At what point in a relationship do you compare your boyfriend with previous partners?

After we have sex. It's hard not to compare partners, though it's not done maliciously.

What are signs a woman is comparing a man with someoneone else? How does a man know when a woman is judging him?

Generally it's just something we might think about. We don't act on it or say anything about it. It's not a big deal.

Do girls sometimes say hurtful things to nice guys just to see how they will react, then make fun of them for continuing to be nice even though they are acting like a bitch on purpose?

Not normal, nice/good girls. That's cruel and immature.

[G_GTom]

"After we have sex. It's hard not to compare partners, though it's not done maliciously." Though it's not done kindly either :)

[Special11]

Well played Tom.

[MaskofInsanity]

It just is. It's like when you buy ice cream and you compare it to other ice cream you've had.

[Anonymous]

I deny my boyfriend sex because we are both virgins and I want to wait until marriage.

So no, I have not denied him because I'm sleeping with someone else

I do not have previous lovers (or boyfriends for that matter) so when we're kissing I have no one else to think of

I will never compare him to anyone as there has been no one else

She'll uses phrases like, "My ex used to do that too."

I don't know, I'm not a man.

No. Only a bitch would do that. Most girls are not bitches.

[Anonymous]

well I would never do that to begin with so that would not be possible, but yeha I would ocme with excuses to avoid STDs or something like that.

[BoobMan]

Girls may come up with excuses to avoid sex, but it's unlike it's BECAUSE they're sleeping with someone else. That's really a separate issue.

Everyone thinks of previous lovers while having sex. And celebrities. And friends and acquaintances. And random hot people they saw that day.

The time to compare to previous partners is pretty much right away. Again, that applies to EVERYONE. After all, at first you've had a LOT more sex with previous partners than the new one.

What are the signs of comparison? That you just had sex for the first time with the person.

And yes--that last one is a sh*t-test. Women do this consciously and unconsciously. She wants to know how strong a man you are.

[G_GTom]

Yeah, men should start giving women sh*t-test. We also need to see how strong they are.

[BoobMan]

We do G_GTom. It's called checking out her mom to see if she's likely to chunk out later in life. Thanks for Best Answer, QA!

[G_GTom]

I don't think a woman will deny you sex because they are having sex with another man. They'll have sex with both of you. Since over 50% of women cheat, you have reasonable chance of that happening.

How do you know a woman is comparing you? When she looks at you. Let's put it this way, women judge men more than men judge women. It's just that women keep their judgements to themselves where men tend to be more vocal about them. It's because men are vocal, men seem to be more judgmental.

How often do they of past exes? Depends on how you're lacking.