Guys how do you feel about periods?

[Anonymous]

So basically the guy I'm dating (not relationship status yet) has invited me over tomorrow and suggested that I sleep over seeing as I usually leave his place late anyway. I know his intentions are good, we seldom get time to see each other and I think both of us just want to maximize our time together. But here's the deal, I'm officially starting my period tomorrow and I know we'll probably do our regular make out/dry humping on the bed session. But I'm just afraid that he'll notice I'm on my period seeing as I wear pads. We might do more, who knows, so I'm just freaked out that he might touch me down there and feel my pad. Especially seeing as I'll be wearing my night clothes with isn't exactly thick material and will be sleeping right next to him. We'll cuddle too for sure, this I know. So basically do you think this is inappropriate? What should I do? Guys how would you feel when you notice a girl is on her period while having sexy time with you or cuddling? Thanks a lot for the help.

[Anonymous]

It's natural. I'd be worried if my girlfriend didn't get periods, lol.

My girlfriend's horniest on her period too. We've had sex both with and without a condom. After the initial shock of seeing blood on my penis, it's maybe even better than non-period sex (because of how horny she is). We just make sure to put down some extra towels lol. Heck, I've even given her oral during her period. And of course she gives me oral too.

I'm not saying every guy (or even most guys) would do that. But most guys will at least make out with you when you're on your period. Nothing to worry about.

He might ASSUME you don't want to make out though. So tell him how horny you are!

[byronbuckles]

Guys are better about periods than you might think. So just tell him. In fact, once you are touching each other regularly, it's a good idea to keep him informed of the schedule. I mean, guys expect it. Very few women use the birth control that cuts down the number of periods, so it's usually monthly or pregnancy.

If you are really not comfortable saying it, you could always say, "I't's not a good time for that."

[iqrarizwan]

If you're not having sex and you feel that he'll notice your pad while cuddling.. just use a tampon instead of a pad. If you think he might do more than that then just tell me. Guys are much more comfortable with things like these than we think they are.. You shouldn't be embarrassed about it you're a normal girl and every girl has it.

[Asker]

I don't wear tampons. Never have and I'm not going to try it this time either. Perhaps in the future. But not now already. Do you reckon I must just say "I'm on my period" when we start making out or should I just say that when he starts to touch me down there? I feel like saying it before everything might give off the impression that I don't want to do anything which is not true. I want to! Thanks for your answer.

[Zeathin]

It's just a matter of personal preference I guess. Personally I'd rather know about it from her before hand than finding out half way through the night when things are going down.

[Asker]

So I just should tell him before everything that I'm on my period?

[Zeathin]

Just depends on the person. Do you think he's the kinda guy who's not going to give a damn if you're on your period and go ahead? Or do you think he's the kinda guy who gets grossed out easily. Its a call you kind of have to make on your own since you're the only one who knows everything. Or you can just say screw it and play it by how it goes.

[palek]

I prefer they be left at the ends of sentences.

[Asker]

I prefer when people answer my question instead of typing a useless sentence.

[palek]

You asked me how I feel about periods, and I couldn't have been any more explicit in my response. Sometimes uselessness comes from within

[JohnBelluci]

There is NO problem at all.

She just has to tell me. Hiding it is stupid. I can't guess, I'm not a psychic.

When a girl tells me she has her period, I just wait. I don't try anything sexual before her period is over. There is no shame nor embarassment, I won't put my hands down there or try anything.

That's all. Cuddle and make out, and pretty much anything above the belt is fine.

It's not like I'm gonna die of not having sex for a few days seriously it's no big deal.

[Asker]

See the thing is I want to be busy! I'm at my horniest when I'm on my period.

[SaltandVinegar]

not a problem, its natural

[jerry3au55555]

Personally I don't mind Period Sex,

Girls are MUCH MORE Lubricated at that time.

[Asker]

But let's say it's not sex. I mean we're not going to have sex. It's just going to be making out, touching, cuddling. We're not there yet sexually.