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Why do some young virgin girls complain about not ever having a boyfriend?

They was the one who've turn down guys in their past, so they really missed their opportunity. Is it more like even though they rejected some guys, have they also been rejected by guys too? And that goes for virgin women who choose to be virgins that's not complaining about being alone. Do shy virgins like that also had crushes on some guys but got turned down? You'll never about virgin guys complaining about not ever having a girlfriend and he was the one who have turn down some girls, but if I'm wrong then tell me.
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  • Well, I've turned down men because A. I wasn't attracted to them and didn't think it would be right to lead them on or have them think otherwise and take advantage of them. Or B. they have wanted very different relationships than I have. I've been propositioned for purely sexual relationships, rather than a caring intimate relationship and I've rejected those guys as well. I'm not complaining about being alone, I just wish that I could have what I wanted, which is a caring guy that is also attractive and wants a real relationship, I don't think that is too much to ask for. I would much rather be alone than be with a person I don't care for or love, or regret being with someone when I knew beforehand that it was just sex, nothing more. I think our options are really limited when it comes to dating tbh. There are guys that just want sex and then there are guys that want relationships but won't bother to ask you or even attempt to court you. I think a lot of us complain because we thought men would be more or better than they actually are in our own experience.

  • Okay, "WomenSuck", lets pretend for a second that you don't already have a problem with women in general. What is your expectation? That virgins should give up their virginity to whomever asks them for it? Because here's what I think: I think most virgins who are also women would like for their first time to be special, with a special person. And if the chemistry isn't right or whatever, then they don't give it up. And I think that's okay. I also think it's okay for them to be looking for that right guy with the right chemistry and to be a little forlorn when they haven't run up on him yet.

    Yes, yes, WomenSuck- I know what that means. It means they are all superficial, shallow whores. Only not because whores have sex. And they haven't. So feel free to use some other epithet on them. Maybe "frigid" because clearly any woman who won't have sex with any guy just because he wants to is harboring many psychological problems, not the least of which is frigidity. Riiiiight.

  • "You'll never about virgin guys complaining about not ever having a girlfriend"

    ...Have you seen the questions on this site? I've seen plenty of guys complain about never having a girlfriend. It doesn't matter what sex you are if there's something you want that you've never had, you're probably gonna complain about it at some point.

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  • In what society do you live where young men who haven't had sex, let alone a girlfriend, don't complain about this? I'm dead serious that's a first. It's a major topic here on these forums.

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  • I don't complain about being alone but I would want to have a boyfriend. But I think I'm still a virgin because I have been rejected but also have rejected.

  • yeah, they have obviously been rejected by guys they like and theyve obviously wanted to date somebody or lose their virginities to a guy they like. As a girl I think its right for girls to wait for a guy they really like to lose their virginities to, not just the first guy that comes up and asks to give it a go.

  • because women have needs and it can be very frustrating not getting action!

  • I guess for the same reason young men complain about it. They want a partner, or sex.

    Not every woman rejects every guy they meet.

    Before I lost weight, I had never once rejected a guy, because I'd never been asked. In 24 years.

    And this notion that men never reject women, it's ridiculous. Even virgin men reject women sometimes. We ALL face rejection at some point. And we ALL complain about being lonely when we feel lonely. We're flawed creatures, indeed.

  • Personally I don't complain about never having a boyfriend, it's just I don't have much hope for ever finding one. I've had crushes on guys but I'm too shy to approach them anyways.

    • The guys you've had crushes on, do you think they also felt the same way about you, or did they only thought of you as a friend? And I'm not saying that to be mean, just curious.

    • Only as a friend, other guys don't know I exist.

  • Um, bitter virgin dudes complain WAY more than girls that are virgins. What planet are you living on? Because it sure as f*ck isn't earth.

    • But if guys complain way more, is that something for you to brag about like girls are more superior than guys? I also did say "why do SOME virgin girls complain about never having a boyfriend", read it carefully.

  • Bitter much?

    • Who say's I was, plus what's wrong with my question?

    • The few virgin girls that complain are the one's that sound bitter.

  • I barely understood your question,

    • If a girl complains about not having a boyfriend, she missed her opportunity by turn down some guys.

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