Is it normal to be really horny after first having sex?

I lost my virginity 3 weeks ago. I had a bit of a rough start, but after a few times it really grew on me. Now schools out, I only work 2 days a week, so I have a lot of time. And all I can do in my free time is thinking about sex. I can't wait until my boyfriend gets home from work every night, so we can have sex. It's ridicoulous. And I don't want to be too pushy, I know he wants some quiet time after work, so I don't ask for sex every night, but it's killing me. Will sex get a bit more boring with time?
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  • You're normal, QA. It shouldn't get boring in time if the relationship is strong, you're not stressed, you try new things you're both comfortable with, etc.

    Don't listen to people who try to force views of non-monogamy on you. If you only want to have sex with your boyfriend, that is perfectly okay and normal for you. I would say the same for people who are into sleeping around. It has to do with genetics and other factors. Just because you are horny doesn't mean the mailman is likely to get some-- that's one of the biggest fallacies regarding cheating and attitudes toward monogamy.

    • Btw continue to ask if he doesn't say anything... He might want you to initiate sometimes.

  • It's normal. Who doesn't crave for sex? Especially when you are that young. Sex is addicting. I won't be able to go a day without having sex. You are not being pushy or anything. He needs to dedicate some of his time to please you even when he is stressed out. Sex won't get boring unless you spice up things once in a while. Try massaging him after work. He will be relaxed and most of the time it ends up with sex.

    • You're very smart :)

    • Yes, I am. :)

  • Yes,it will. And yes,it's normal to continue to be horny after sex. That happens when the guy cums too quickly. It's happened to me..

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  • I and my wife had our first ever sex after marriage only. It was a very special thing for both of us and it was very much according to our Indian cultural beliefs. After having it for the first time, we had it two more times the same day, and almost everyday more than two times for several months. I was not using condom, she was on pill and we were enjoying direct contact very much. Sex is never boring for us as we love each other more than anything. It is designed by nature and it is very powerful force - attraction. The only thing is - you should respect and trust your partner.

  • We used to call this the newlywed syndrome = as normal as can be

    Adage: in the first year of marriage (or whatever you've got), put a quarter into the sex jar every time you do it together. Thereafter, take a quarter OUT every time ... some say, the jar is never emptied.

    It's OK to take some pressure off him during the day with masterbation - ever tried the WeVibe II ?

    • interesting, I think it's impossible for people to have more sex in the first year than in the next 30 -40 years together though

    • It isn't true, but it makes people more comfortable. Of course, if you never get married, you end up with a heck of a lot of jars filled with quarters :)

    • I thought it a joke as well at your age BUT although it's mostly a tongue-in-cheek observation ... if you were to add a year or two to the deposits in some cases, this formula just might work. You'll see - life, kids, work interfere & most times seem more important than even sex with your lover. SIGH

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  • depends on how predictable your life get's, as predictability is often paired with being boring.

  • I think it is a fairly normal feeling.

  • All of this sounds typical.

  • I guess it's only a matter of time before the mailman gets lucky :)

    It's hormones, and the confusion of sex/pleasure with love. Enjoy it.

    • lol. But no, oddly I'm never turned on by other men. I wouldn't imagine that to be pleasant at all, so the mailman is safe

    • Oh, so it's more the emotional attachment to the boyfriend. The problem is, when you're young, you haven't had a lot of time to get experience. So you don't know all the things you can do. When you get bored, and you're ready to experiment, I bet you find yourself looking differently at the mailman (or the guy at the mall, or a teacher or ?)

    • Not everyone thinks like you.

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  • Once you pop, you can't stop

  • It's normal.

  • I would imagine so

  • It's quite normal

  • Yeah, I feel sexier when I'm getting sex.

    Just ask for more sex.

    Read about different sex techniques. That's what I do.

  • No not at all, you only learn to control the urges by riding them through, but once you have a high sex drive that's not satisfied, it becomes hard to control. I would just go with it, wait until your fella says no more, let him set the pace, but continue your way regardless, you need these urges to get stimulated otherwise sex will become boring as in not enough of it,x

  • Yes,it's normal. You're just after discovering this incredibly fun source of pleasure. Of course you want it, again and again.

    It's like when you were a kid and discovered how to bring yourself to orgasm.

    • I actually didn't feel like that when I first brought myself to climax at all