Is it precum and what does it mean if a guy starts cumming inside a girl?

[Anonymous]

Ive been dating this guy for about a month. 2 weeks ago we started having sex and whenever I give him a bj sometimes if he's super horny there's like a tiny puddle of something on the tip of his d***, is that precum? It's there when I start then well bang then he'll come inside me and it's like a good 20-30 min after we've started. I'm also wondering if guys only come inside girls they really like. We use a condom every time but he hasn't started cumming inside me until lately, it might not mean anything but I'm just wondering why he would wait to do so.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's precum.

Unless a guy has been raped, I don't really know how a guy would know whether a girl he doesn't really like could get him to cum. For example: link (good luck mam). I mean, it's medically possible (testosterone injections and transdermals, trazadone, arimadex, Cialis, and L-arginine).

Guys either have sex with girls they like, or they just jerk off. And, generally, both of those girls make them cum. If they're not cumming, it has nothing to do with the girl or p*rn they're watching. Sometimes, stuff just happens in the body or in a guy's brain. His mood will suddenly shift, and he won't be as turned on, completely unrelated to what's going on around him.

I would say your boyfriend is a pro. It's like Dave Chappelle says, "if guys could have a button to make them cum, they would just press that button." Taking 5 minutes to come is 5 minutes too long! lol. Ideally, if a guy wants to cum, he's going to try to come as fast as possible.

If I'm having sex so "I" can enjoy sex, then I come fast. If I'm having sex so "my partner" can enjoy sex, then I slow it down as much as I need to so that "she" can enjoy sex. Otherwise, there's no point to me "personally" to drag out sex for 20-30 mins.

Not for nothing, but my penis gets hot after a while. I think I'd need to run it under cold water after 30 min of sex lol.

[Asker]

Lol we've banged for an hour before and he just keeps going lol. The first night we had like 4 hour long sessions. He said he was so sore the next day he could hardly walk and we do it like that every time. Sometimes not as many times because we can only bang when his room mate is gone and he gets off work late so sometimes we have 4 hours and other times 6-7hours

[HughR]

Guys come when they are stimulated mentally and physically. Before they cum, most guys have some drops of lube that you refer to as precum. I'm told that my pre-cum is like egg whites and not too flavoured where my come is sweet and fruity (that's because I eat the right foods ;)

If he's taking his time to cum, maybe he's being thoughtful and bringing you off first or maybe he's jerking off a lot so he doesn't have the desperate urge to let loose.

Most teenage boys have the opposite problem - too fast - so enjoy your good luck :)

[deannarose]

It's precum. My boyfriend precums even when we're just making out.

[Asker]

Lol that's good. I sorta thought it was pee because I didn't really know what else it could be but then I heard about precum but didn't know that it would come that much before he actually cums. I was kinda grossed out by it but would still just continue on lol. He must be the same as your boyfriend because we always make out first then I give him a bj and it's there

[DanteX160]

I get very emotionally attached (Like serious oneitis) if I come when inside a girl so I only do it with girls I am already seriously committed to.

[Asker]

That's what I wondered like if a guy will just come in any girl or if he waits and only does it with special girls. He waited like 6 times before he started cumming in me.

[DanteX160]

I wouldn't say there's a set time, it's more like waiting for a certain connection to develop. It then deepens that connection.

[Asker]

Ahh I see. He asked me if he could before hand too.

[DanteX160]

That's just common curtsey, plus I only like it when it's something we both want.

[lauramor]

It is.

[angelbaby09]

it is precum

[Nice222]

Yeah that is pre cum. I get it all the time and it starts coming out pretty much as soon as I get hard. If I'm really turned on, a lot will come out and I don't even feel it except the wetness. I love the feeling of cumming inside a girl so I will do it every time I get a chance. I only pull out if she tells me to. It's great you can handle long sex sessions most woman get sore and can't go anymore.

[Anonymous]

That's called precum, and if he come inside you, there's a chance you'll get pregnant.

[Anonymous]

Yes it's precum.