My boyfriend sent me a picture of his penis! What does that mean...?

[Anonymous]

He knows and respects that I don't want to have sex till marriage.A few days ago he asked me to send him some sexy pictures,which I did but not nude.When we were chating the other day I jokingly mentioned that I would want to see his d*** and he actually laughed and said why would he show me when I couldn't even show my breast in the pictures I had sent him.Then today he sent me the pictures after we had been chating when he was in the shower.Can this mean anything negative like he doesn't respect me or about his personality or he is suggesting he wants sex?.Guys why would you send your girlfriend a picture of your penis?Girls would you want that and how would you react?I don't hate that he sent me but I just want opinions on this behavior ...

[blackkid2]

So your life is nothing short of soap opera drama... Well, I figured that, good luck in the future. Just so you know Kurt did it and Annie isn't really his kid but Jason is in the shipyard in a container being held by Kurt's thugs until a better time arises. And no, Marissa, your best friend you didn't know you had, will never stop searching for Jason so stop trying to convince her he's just flown the coop.

[Asker]

Ow yeah drama...Am hurt but there is nothing I can do now and I see why people say f*** long distance relationships because the ex lives in the same town with him and its like he really loves that chick but the worst is this has been communicated via statuses for me to just see he is back with the chick and happy...

[blackkid2]

Status breakups are the worst. I bet he was in the "What won't you accept" thread, because I think someone did post something about photos.

[kheserthorpe]

Because he wants you to look and be aroused -by- him.

Because you gave him a green light to do so and suggested you'd like it.

Because maybe (I don't know) he wants to be more sexual then you are, and that though he is willing to ignore his desires to try to make you comfortable and happy, that doesn't mean he -likes- being celibate.

[Asker]

I feel sorry for him,i feel like I confuse him at times so I agree with you.

[kheserthorpe]

Yes, I suspect you should consider breaking up. Not because he's a jerk or you're anything good or bad, I think you are just in different places and want different things. That's fine.

[Asker]

Yeah,although its one thing I had never wanted to admit that we want different things I guess its important for longterm satisfaction.

[KJT6989]

If you have to ask what does he mean you need to brush up on social skills and grow up a bit. You asked and he showed you if you didn't want to see then don't tell a man I want to see your **** because a man will show you.

[Asker]

Lol,yeah I guess I kinda mad him do it

[KJT6989]

Yes a man will always be a man. And men love showing off their package if they know its a good one.

[MikeK]

Here here!

[lauramor]

He sent it because you asked for it, he obviously want to have sex but you already made a decision together. I would just think if I were you that I'm just playing with him since I don't want to have sex

[Anonymous]

All guys want sex. Any guy who says otherwise is lying.

You asked for it. He gave it.

And yes, I want to see my boyfriend's. But he won't let me. He just enjoys torturing me.

[HughR]

Hey. Unfair! All guys don't always want to have sex! Sometimes, we want dinner, or a foot rub. And then we'll want sex again.

[Opinion Owner]

Ha! If the choice was bacon or sex, any guy would choose sex. >_> At least..I would hope.

[blackkid2]

lol, "What does that mean?"

I like that. Oh that's rich.

[HughR]

Send him a link to a p*rn website - maybe he'll get the message.

[HughR]

LOL - so, you asked him for something, he gave it to you, and now you're wondering why? It's because you have him wrapped around your little finger, of course.

Were you impressed?

[Asker]

To be honest I had a mixture of feelings,happy and worried.I love this guy so much.

[HughR]

Now that you've seen it, are you tempted to ask for a chance to hold it?

[Asker]

I have but just through clothes.I don't think I would want to hold it though because am trying to stay a virgin lol

[HughR]

Holding it (in your hand or even in your mouth) doesn't stop you from being a virgin.

[Asker]

Lol yeah,but wouldn't that just arouse him more...

[HughR]

Of course it would arouse him more. It should arouse you, too. But that doesn't mean you stop being a virgin :)

[Belgie]

You ASKED to see his d***.

He showed you.

What does this mean? Only that he's dumb enough to try and give a girl what she asks for.

[Asker]

He is not dumb!...

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Of course he wants sex. But you said you wanted to see it and he obliged. Dont' get upset when you get what you asked for.

[Asker]

Am not upset but I just got overwhelmed by the way he must really trust me...or maybe its not that big deal to you guys?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Not a big deal. I'm sure at least half of the answerers on this question would send you pictures of their d***s.

[Asker]

Lol,yeah I agree some guys boast about their packages

[abw121290]

He sent it because he wants you to be aroused by him. You asked for it.. he sent it to you.

[Kabluie]

Ask and you shalt receive! He probably should have done in-person privately with you, haha. Penis via picture mail is just...awkward xD

[MikeK]

Everybody is right here...

You asked - you got. WTF is the problem?

[tiredofwaiting]

Well you asked to see his d*** and he showed you.Don't joke about things if you aren't serious.

[anonymous010101]

He could've hight that you changed your mind and wanted sex

[Asker]

Yeah I understand that I might have given the wrong idea.

[anonymous010101]

Yeah , BA?

[Asker]

Mmmmm 80%

[anonymous010101]

Come on ;) haha

[Asker]

U are anonymous...come out 1st haha...

[anonymous010101]

Haha OK , but I'm still going to be anonymous .

[Asker]

Hahaha yeah,whats with anon so much lol

[anonymous010101]

Ahhh , I'm a big fan of anonymous ( hacking group ) I'm not a nerd tho or one of these computer geeks guys ha ha . But wanna see my penis ? ( JK lol ) are we gojg. To keep talking ? Haha because it seems like we're commenting back and forth . Just add me lol

[anonymous010101]

Oh your long distance ? Well if you don't want to send your he should understand

[Asker]

Yeah and am beginning to doubt if this relationship is going anywhere because really...getting into lockdown because I won't send a pic of my p****...Am gona add you-:)

[anonymous010101]

Hahah OK .

[anonymous010101]

It's your Pussy tho lol , you can do whatever you want

[Anonymous]

It means he wants you to be ready

[Asker]

Lol yeah I guess,thanks.-:)

[Anonymous]

LOL

[Anonymous]

He is a d*** - Cut you losses and dump him now, it's time to move on.

[kheserthorpe]

She says she wants to see it, he sends it ... this makes him a d***?

[Asker]

I don't think he is a d***.I love him and I guess he felt obliged to send the pic and might have taken me serious,i realize that now.

[Opinion Owner]

Now he wants a picture of your vagina and you don?t feel comfortable sending him one Wow we never saw this coming. Who would ever guessed that this might happen? Most gifts of this nature come with strings attached. And thanks for downgrading me for telling you to - Cut your losses and dump him now, it's time to move on.

[Asker]

I never saw it coming you are right,initially I thought he was just sending in exchange of the pics I had sent him but nope.You are right gifts of that nature come with strings attached.