As visual creatures, we get turned on by seeing things. Like, if a woman's face is hot to a man, it's even hotter to him with his come on it. We like seeing women get excited by our orgasm, and therefore, the messy result of orgasm. It's very much a turn-on when a woman enjoys the product of orgasm, smearing it on her face, licking it up, etc.
Sure, there's an element of p*rnography in it, but I think that it turns up in p*rnography because men like it, not the other way around (although many of us wouldn't be so obsessed with it if it wasn't in so many of the "films" we watch). There's also the dominance-submission factor, which may be more powerful for some.
I would like having the option to do it with a woman without necessarily exercising it. I'd just be very stimulated to see her enjoy me like that... the ejaculate is like a part of me, so it's just as fun and exciting as when she goes crazy over my c*ck. To see her with a load of me on her face definitely shows that she's "mine," that she's super into all of me, and that she's willing to put up with the inconvenience of washing her face and possibly hair to witness my ecstasy. It's like putting her in the front row, center seat for a personal fireworks display. Depending on the guy, it may be more of a domineering thing, while others are just having that much more powerful of an experience because they see their girl waiting for it, almost begging for it, watching it, accepting it... takes a great deal of trust and intimacy on her part, and the savvy guys will respect that.
It's degrading if you're comparing your bedroom activities to that of a paid sex worker, sure. But then, most intimate activities could be seen that way. I think it's much different with someone (in "real" life) that you trust.
It's fascinating and attractive to see a woman let her inhibitions go one by one, ultimately yielding to her man completely and utterly. Her body becomes his possession, and he can have his way with her. I'm not saying all guys want this, and there's positively room for the woman to be aggressive in bed while also being totally his. But, at the risk of straying away from the question, I think that women like to see their man bring down emotional barriers and "let her in" to his psyche, while still maintaining the independence and creativity that attracted her in the first place. The sexual acquiescence thing is just the male equivalent of that same drive.
I have never understood the attraction to that activity that many men do. If she wants to see the ejaculate spurting out, then I would enjoy doing it for a visual experience for her. But my preference has always been to come inside her. If she gives oral but does not want a man cumming in her mouth, that would be a time to pull out, but then it goes where she wants it to go.
personally I will never allow it.. I just find it degrading that he should just find another girlfriend if he is into that stuff. I mean I'm game to things that can make our sex life exciting or more pleasurable like different sex positions etc but I have my own limits.
It doesn't turn me on, but I don't think it's a big deal either so I let my guy do it. He clearly loves it. I guess I could consider it degrading, but he doesn't treat me badly in any way so I think the right way to think of it is naughty or something like that.
I don't think you should feel degraded about that. It's just super kinky and guys like kinky stuffs. I haven't done it yet because I'm still a virgin but I'm looking forward to it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I personally don't get the fascination really...probably the fact that it's very submissive for the woman and makes him feel dominant...
poor women having to get that sh*t out of their hair...
That's my reasons not to do it XD lmfao I don't want that sh*t in my hair!
Its a territorial mark. All dominant animals in this world do that. It basically means "by marking my essence on you, you are mine now"
Ever seen a dog pee at a random place? Like those big wooden poles that hold up the street wires? Yah they mark their territory. Lions do this too.
Sounds like your husband used to watch a lot of p*rn.
I don't think I would ever allow a guy to do it
I see how someone would think it's degrading. He probably wants to do it because that's where most p*rn stars tend to finish.
i think it is degrading hahah I wouldn't let anybody do that to me
Who cares what they like about it. The point is that they like it.. I don't see it as degrading... I don't see why anyone would say no
It's because of fantasy. A lot of guys want it as well.
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