My boyfriend won't drink my female ejaculation but he wants me to swallow his cum.

Question

My boyfriend has an issue with drinking/swallowing my juices when I squirt but he wants me to swallow his semen. He likes to see me do it but he wouldn't dream of ingesting it. I don't care for him actually doing it but rather that it's a part of me and he makes it seem like it grosses him out to think about drinking it. Iv'e heard it doesn't taste bad and his isn't vanilla ice cream either. Basically, is it worth trying to explain to him or should I just leave? Or should I just ignore it and let it go?

Ingrid422 · Accepted Answer

Pff he's such a boy. Don't guys know that their sperm doesn't taste the best? My bf's certainly doesn't. You know what? When I first swallowed his, he was disgusted by it. Yeah, I'm not kidding. He's kinda digusted by his own fluid, so you bet I understand that your boyfriend isn't too keen to swallow yours. I'd stop swallowing him, if I were you. If he wants you to do it again, tell him it's a 2 way street and explain to him what you just wrote here. Female juices (when she's clean, obviously) taste way better than cum, IMO, so he shouldn't be a p**** about it. You say "Iv'e heard it doesn't taste bad and his isn't vanilla ice cream either". Female juices taste salty. I often taste it slightly when kissing my boyfriend after he gives me oral. It's not bitter and thick like come is, I promise you.

Oh and don't worry about thinking your fluids gross him out. I totally relate. I felt the same way all along when my boyfriend refused to give me oral, in the first months (if not first year, I think). I always threw a fit once about it, like "Look, I'm blowing you since months, I've swallowed you completely before and you're not even willing to try to lick me down there? I feel like I gross you out and it really hurts my feelings. I'd really like you to make an effort". Yeah, I told him that. He told me he wasn't grossed out and that he was just not ready. Things have changed over time, so don't lose hope. Things don't change overnight.

"is it worth trying to explain to him or should I just leave? Or should I just ignore it and let it go?"

Nah, don't leave for that. I now it really grates on the nerves and ruins a femine ego real good, but you should let him a chance if he assures you that he'll make an effort to make baby steps in that direction, in a near future. If he categorically refuses and tells you it'll never happen, then dump him. He's selfish. And ignoring it? Not a good plan for you. Us gals suffer more than guys from the double standard there is oral-wise. Don't let it go. Make him see your point. Make him work for your swallowing and oral. Otherwise, he's just pushing his luck too far.

holly916 · Accepted Answer

I think people are answering this in a very immature way, relationships aren't supposed to be a war were both sides withhold things from the other. Either he accepts that you may not do things that he wants to do and you accept that he accepts that you may not be willing to do everything he wants, not necessarily tit for tat but simply doing what you're both comfortable with. or you both make compromise and both do things that you may not be completely comfortable with.

SavageGirl101 · Accepted Answer

Doesn't he know how sex works? You willingly swallow his cum for him so why is he so grossed out about swallowing ur juices?,... I would stop swallowing him for weeks... and after a blow job spit it out... Make it clear to him that u want him to at least try ur ejac... Or if not refuse to swallow his..😋Good luck!😜

blackkid2 · Accepted Answer

If it upsets you and you've expressed this to him and you don't like his ejaculate tell him you won't make yourself unhappy if he's willing to behave like this. This isn't a vindictive action but rather there's no reason for you to suffer and for him to be scott-free. That's just silly.

ATuairiscean · Accepted Answer

Yeah it is probably good to explain your feelings about oral sex both giving and receiving , figure out what you are both comfortable maybe urge him to at least try it

guilly18butnot · Answer

Your boyfriend has some serious issues on how sex actually works.

harveykinkle · Answer

Don't do something for him that he's not willing to do for you!

Heatherheels · Answer

if he wants you to swallow so should he. but same in reverse if he swallows you should be willing and swallow for him.

jpinka · Answer

dont sallow if he dnt sallow.  tell him how you feel and tell him you won't sallow anymore. I dnt think you need to break up over it though

MtnDewMan · Answer

i would drink yours anytime sweet heart he doesn't deserve you! it tastes really good and if I want it done to me why wouldn't I do it for you? get rid of him he doesn't realize what he has in you

lauramor · Answer

Tlak to him, say you refuse to do it if he finds yours disgusting. its obviously a double standard

unighted · Answer

stop doing swallowing his, it is totally unfair to you

lv4lv · Answer

Has he tried? Do you wash properly?

Mickbert · Answer

Swallowing ejaculate is WICKED sexy regardless of who it’s from. If you’re with someone… be completely with them!

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i made a comment on my answer about this when people started putting me down when I said I don't swallow. did you happen to see it? this is exactly what I mean.

scooogy · Answer

If only he knew what he misses out on

dommage · Answer

talk to him about it, don't let it go if you are uncomfrotable with it.

Anonymous · Answer

Can we be friends?

Anonymous · Answer

It's worth trying to explain to him.

Anonymous · Answer

Dump him

Anonymous · Answer

Break up with him, not because he doesn't do it, But because him not wanting to do it and wanting you to do it for him, shows him to be an unsavory person.