I need help I keep beating my penis ( jerking off to p*rn)

[Anonymous]

I need help I keep beating my penis (jerking off to p*rn) I can't last no more then a day cause I have a high sex drive. I usually will beat it like 2 to 3 days a day. I have bad luck with it because sometimes I would meet a girl and well in bed I can't get hard because I jerk off to much. But when I don't jerk off the ladies never come. I just want to stop watching p*rn all together what are good ways

[Olivia9]

Just stop, maybe first by thinking of p*rn when you do your business, rather than actually watching it. After you are just thinking about old p*rn that will get boring so you can think of actual people you know, like girls you are interested in and all the naughty stuff they would do to you etc. You are not alone it's a really big problem for guys, because real women aren't entertainers or in the circus so real life isn't going to be p*rn. Good luck buddy.

[Anonymous]

Focus your energy on something else. Try running or working out or anything that will diverge your focus from p*rn. Changing a habit is never easy so you need to mentally prepare yourself too. I think just keeping yourself occupied with a hobby that you enjoy is a great way to try and break a former habit.

[Asker]

well am on break for the summer and I look at p*rn at night. I run 2 miles a day and workout 5 days a week and it still doesn't change my habit. I feel sometimes when I workout it makes me wanna have sex when am done

[Opinion Owner]

Hahah wow that really is a struggle then. When I wanted to stop going on Facebook, I put a parental control lock on it and changed my password to something I would only remember long enough to type in once more. It helped me practice self control since the password recovery was a long process and by then I was able to change my mind. Stumbleupon, movies and reading at night also helped the process. I painted too. It's all about will power and reminder. Mind over matter (:

[Asker]

Well I stoped using Facebook to I deleted my account because I rarely talk to the people on there,

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, I was bringing up Facebook because of the parental control thing that I did. Basically, I'm saying to try and put a lock on the sites so it reminds you to do something else.

[Asker]

i see so yea are you done with Facebook for good

[Opinion Owner]

haha 99% done. I do have one that I have absolutely no friends or anything on but I use it in case of a concert or a contest.

[Asker]

how do you use it for concert and contest

[Opinion Owner]

For some sweepstakes and concert contest, you need a Facebook entry (unfortunately).

[Asker]

oh so you throw your own concerts

[Opinion Owner]

lol ha ha no. There are concert websites that give away free tickets sometimes but you need a Facebook entry.

[ladsin]

if you have a high sex drive you should be able to get it up, I used to beat it 7-8 times a day everyday, now I'm more like 1-3 times a day. anyway to quit? just sack up and quit, there's no other way thatn to get some willpower

[Asker]

7 to 8 times is crazy surprised you didn't start shooting out blood. But yea what rank are you in the army

[ladsin]

im not in army. I'm at a military school, but people from my school can go any branch, I'm thinking about going natty guard because its pretty easy

[Asker]

what school and national guard is some what of a weekend warrior

[ladsin]

im at the citadel. and yeah I'm not saying natty guard is badass or anything, their just easy and give a good amt. for school. still theyre better than chair force imo

[Asker]

National guard deploys more tho so how is they better

[ladsin]

because theyre deployed more, and they aren't all just braniacs... I have 2 friends who got air force contracts. and theyre both just geniuses.

[Asker]

whats wrong with just being an geniuses cause I mean being commission these days aren't easy to come by

[ladsin]

commissions are easiest to get for army, and air force the hardest... I just hate when air force people try to act tough because I know the only reason they were picked was because of their grades...

[Asker]

No commissions are hard if you go to the officer board, But if you are at an academy or university for rotc then its easier

[ladsin]

ya for officer, getting a commission is easier than scholarships tho

[Asker]

ehh scholarship

[Anonymous]

It means that you have too much time on your hands. Get out of your house.

[Asker]

Thats no the problem

[baby_girl_1999]

Well probably if you're out you won't do it of course

[johnRD11]

Sounds like you masturbate quite often- make sure you're moisturized below the belt by applying a penis health creme daily. It can help preserve and maintain hydration. Cheers.

[Anonymous]

moderation is key.

[Asker]

no clue what that means

[Anonymous]

Get a f*ck buddy

[Asker]

I had one but she wanted a relationship after the first time we had sex so she cut me out. My other f*** buddy who I haven't f*** yet I met online. I can tell she wants to have sex cause she brought up that fact that when a guy fingers her she wants the nails cut. So that's means she down but anyway her phone is off so that's a no goo

[Anonymous]

Get a girlfriend. If she's not a slut, she's not going to put out right away anyway, so you'll have plenty of time to slow down before having sex, which you know will come.