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Do you find certain features attractive or are you attracted to them at all?

I'm black and I do not find MOST (I didn't say all) black men attractive. I don't like the way their faces look and the way they're shaped. I'm only attracted to NON-black men but with certain features. I like a man with small facial features such as: 1. Thin nose 2. Thin lips 3. Good bone structure 4. Green, blue, light brown or hazel eyes 5. Light skin and slightly tanned skin 6. Soft curly, wavy silky pretty hair I STRONGLY HATE: 1. Big, flat, and wide noses (they make me wanna throw up just by looking at them). 2. Big humongous lips 3. Cat eyes 4. Dark skin (it looks nasty and dirty to me) no offense but I just don't find it attractive 5. Kinky nappy hair And that goes for any man, I do not find any of those features I just listed as unattractive on ANY guy. But I'm just not into black men like that, they are not my type and it's kinda embarrassing to date one and I have my reasons to feel this way. The only black men I'm attracted to is multiracial black men and biracial black men (who look more like the race they're mixed with or if not, if he only looks like the race they're mixed with. Or a fully black man who COMPLETELY looks like another race. But what kind of features do you find attractive on a guy?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm half black. When I was 12 I used to feel this way too. Then I got older and realized looks don't matter. All I want is an intelligent and polite guy who loves me as much as I love him. I have that now and I'm very happy.

    Even features I don't find attractive I would never say "look nasty" or "dirty" or "make me wanna throw up" that is a very immature and rude way of saying what could simply be said with the word "I don't find that attractive". Saying that you "strongly hate" something brings hate into the equation where it shouldn't belong. Just because you're not attracted to something doesn't mean you should HATE it.

    If you had not used the word hate, I wouldn't see racism in this but because you did use that word and other similar words than I know you are racist and yes it is possible for black people to be racist against other blacks.

    You are entitled to be attracted and not attracted to whatever features you find attractive or not attractive...but to HATE features (and want to "throw up", say they look "dirty" and "nasty", etc) just because you aren't attracted to to them is just plain immature and wrong.

    So keep your hatred to yourself. Be attracted to whoever you're attracted to but keep the hatred of what you're not attracted to to yourself. For god's sake!

    • Very well said.

  • Everyone like different things in there 'partners' I'm half pakistani half irish so I have mixed features. so I like mixed race/black guys mostly however I'm not particular, because I don't have any specific features in a guy I like but there will be something that stands out in the guy such as ( eyes or something that.

  • pretty eyes, chiseled petite nose, small mouth with pouty lips, fair complexion, pronounced yet delicate jawline, long wavy or straight hair

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Most Helpful Guys

  • You had a valid point until you soiled it with immature rhetoric.
    But, to answer your question, it's fine to be attracted to certain things and not others. I prefer women with long hair, big, beautiful eyes, and nice, heart-melting smiles. I also tend to be more attracted to white, Asian, and Hispanic women, though I would never turn down a fellow African American if they are exactly what I'm looking for.

  • If that's your preference, how can you be wrong? I, certainly, have mine and people will criticize me for it, but who cares what other people think?

    • Exactly.

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  • Ironic, that's what white men dislike about black women

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    Nice bone structure and height are attractive

  • I think they are all attractive, it just depends on the person.

  • I find most things on a guy attractive but that's just me, I have an attractive friend and I personally like his eyes, hands, hair and arms :)

  • Personality is what I like in a person.

  • Lady you are delusional

  • "dark skin looks dirty to me"

    "it's embarrassing to date one"

    "a black man that looks like another race"

    woah...

    • Woah?...what are you saying?

    • Yeah, there's some... Problematic wordplay there.

  • Personality is what I like in a person.

  • I keep hearing about black girls not being attracted to black guys, poor black guys.

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