Girls how long should a guy spend on foreplay?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering how much foreplay you need before your ready. Do you get wet from the get go or does it take some time and what turns you on the most?

[Anonymous]

Foreplay is probably my favorite part of sex. Its the part that determines how much I will like everything. The longer the build up is, the more I like it usually. I am not talking like 5 hours lol, but I would loveee love loveeee 20-30 minutes, and would gladly welcome more! Being teased is such a great feeling. Basically, I don't want penetration until you leave me begging for it!

I would like love if he started with a nice full body massage. He would gradually make it more and more sensual- sexual by kissing/touching certain areas, rubbing my thighs, etc...then maybe slip a finger in and work some magic. Slowly, but surely create that tension...

[G_GTom]

Do you consider oral sex part of sex or foreplay?

[Opinion Owner]

I consider it a part of foreplay! Its all about building up to the penetration. (Fingering can even turn me off if its too soon.) However, If a girl goes around giving random guys oral, I consider that sex. If my boyfriend were to cheat on me by giving/receiving oral he can't say "we didn't have sex". I consider that sex.

[COCOCHANEL]

there is a direct correlation between foreplay and the quality and intensity of my orgasm. the more intense the orgasm the more explosive sex is. for both of us. boys are always shocked. hmmm... 20 min would be nice. I get wet just being next to a boy when there's a spark between us. when I say foreplay I mean I like my neck and breasts to be licked and kissed. that's all.

[juneangel6390]

sometimes I'm just ready to go :) but most of the time I need lots of warming up! I like about ten min of play time. :)

[Gawesome]

I ready in article somewhere that foreplay...funnily enough which made me chuckle...starts with making a romantic dinner or even earlier like when you (or her) comes home from work and you give her that 'welcome home' kiss or foot/neck massage. Essentially think of a exponential curve to gradually turn a woman on, from the small things first...then the food... then the desert...then the seduction...then a shower or more massaging...then the actual foreplay! (longer the better...lol!)...theeeeeen at last...sex.

[blackkid2]

"As long as required" since there is no solid amount and it depends on the mood and everything else.

But because you are looking for a metric answer: 8 mins.

[ketfoen]

I don't think there is a precise time, it differs from person to person and of the moment shared. Depends how turned on you are, if you're very turned on less foreplay will be needed, if you're less in the mood I guess you'll need more foreplay.

[lauramor]

I think you should just let if flow until she wants to do more or you think hts the right time to move to more stuff.

[danik23]

There isn't a prefixed rule! :D

[dommage]

I guess you just know when to finish it, it depends every time.

[Anonymous]

No foreplay is fine if I'm already wet. A lot is fine too but certain things make me need sex, plus if he wants to come in me then obviously we have to start.