Sucking his d***? What do you think about this?

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My so called boyfriend took me out to the apple orchard today..and he wanted me to suck his d*** before we went inside...the problem is he hasn't had sex with me in a month...and we only see each other on the weekends. There is a lot of sh*t going on with him and vise versa and I feel like he has given up on us. For certain reasons. He always think I'm cheating on him. That's one and two he hates women. And that's just a few but he always want me to suck his d*** on the weekends. Its not fair to me due to the lack of affection I'm starting to think is he cheating? but my gut and hearts isn't saying that so I'm going to tell you how the convo went and maybe you guys can tell me what you think.He whipped out his d*** and said come on baby I ve been waiting there is a lo of come in her for you to get.Then I told him him well lets eff cause we haven't in a month. how is it fair to me that you get to have your d***ed sucked and I get nothing.he said my mood is about to change I'm feeling finally feeling relaxed and your ruining it.I said you like my blow job more then my pussi he said I like it a tad bit more I said well I'm not feeling anything when it goes in my mouth I need you to f*** me  I don't even think you want me.Are you cheating on me? He got quiet and said no I'm not then I said why don't you f*** me then he said I have a lot of sh*t going on and that's the last thing on my mind> BUT getting his d*** sucked is on his mind.then he said if I always wanted your pussi you would be saying why don't you want my mouth I know women.I told him what are you serious. well I didn't give him what he wanted. And I said why won't you f*** me and he got quiet and I guess turned off. then when we were walking around the orchard he tried again but I just ignored his request.He later told me in the car also another reason why I didn't want to f*** cause its hot. I said well you could have kept the ac on and that would have cooled you balls off. we also have nowhere to hang out so its always in the car and he didn't say anything.He took me home after our outing and he got mad cause I didn't want to leave him cause all we have is the weekend right now. And he said you just spent four hours with me I just want to go home and lay down I'm tired its hot and you know I do enough driving on the job. I have been understanding with him but at this point where is the understanding or regard for me. He snapped on me because I told him that It hurts me because we only get limited time together. And he said and you don't think it hurts me too. And that I'm not going to see him like that so I should just get over it. Which I feel was very mean. And then he was like just get out of the car I told him that I didn't want to leave things like this and I asked him did he even want to be with me anymore and he said if you don't get out I will tell you to leave me alone. Whats up with him

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

hahahaha

You're so into yourself, so needy that you can't give anything to a guy that works all week & is damn hot and wants you, sexually as if in fantasy he's had all week (of course no other gals can break through that weekend fantasy ... that you busted, then offered only arguments and debates, wouldn't even let him alone in peace).

Kudos for offering your p**sy so often BUT really that would come in time AFTER his fantasy about no one but YOU all week.

Your bringing up another gal is real damage to someone that loves you + you just planted a seed in his head = my lover won't do fantasies, so doesn't love me, just tortures me with arguments/debates, so she suggested other gals ... in a way ... mmmmmmm

"We have met the enemy and he is us" applies to what you are doing to this relationship. You are your own worst enemy.

It could have gone another way ...

Poor hard worker bee, I'd be more than happy to fulfill your fantasy because I know you'll love me back sometime this weekend. Now just how DID you dream this would go, sweetie? Do I rough you up, rip your pants off or submissively get on my knees? How DO you like it today, honey? What will get you so hot, I'll remain the ONLY gal in your workday dreams? Even after he blows, he'll still remember that afternoon and it won't take long for ALL of your itches to be well scratched.

Somehow I'm guessing you won't understand all this ... oh, well.

cutiepieguy · Accepted Answer

I actually dated a guy who I thought I was in love with who did this all the time. We started out with having sex, then it just would be he pulls it out and I do what he says. Now I was the more submissive in our relationship but that is just mean if I get nothing for it every time I do it. I understand you.

Olivia9 · Accepted Answer

Wow, he's a total Asshole! Wtf you do know that he is just in this to get his d*** sucked right? I mean clearly he doesn't care, has he EVER given you oral? I mean you said he hates women, that is like me a brown person, dating a KKK member, it makes NO SENSE. Clearly he isn't mature enough for a relationship, I mean who whips out their genitals and then has the nerve to pretty much say "come on bitch, suck it." he couldn't be more disrespectful if he tried. You deserve better than this.