Why Do Guys Always Want Nude Pics?

I just started seeing this guy and he wants me to send him nude pictures of myself, or ones in my underwear. I really don't want to do it, and I stood firm on that. I mean we've only been on one date. If he was a serious boyfriend I probably wouldn't mind. I know I probably seem like a prude but I really don't care. So I guess I want to know why guys always want nude pics, especially if they get to see you naked in person anyway. I just find it weird, it makes me think he wants to show off to his friends and compare girlfriends. I really don't get it.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys like seeing girls nude, and having pictures means he can see you nude when he wants.

    That much is simple and nothing really strange about that. Some guys will ask for nude pictures without really being close to the girl. I find that a bit strange, but it apparently happens a lot. If he asks just once and does not keep bringing it up, I would say he just tried to see if he could get them but is not obsessed or something like that.

    If a guy gets nude pictures, he can show them to friends or post them on the internet. Once you have given them you have no control over them. And once they get posted, they have a life of their own: even if he takes them down, someone else will have copied them and reposted them.

    You say you "started" seeing this guy. That suggests you will keep seeing him. you can judge him on whether he has dropped the subject or tries pressuring you. If the latter, dump him.

  • Do NOT give him nude pics. Especially digitally.

    When a pic is out there on the internet, you pretty much screw up your reputation. Once that pic is on the internet, you cannot delete it as someone will simply hit "Save as" and you're done. This includes cell phone sharing.

    Honestly, guys who ask for nude pics are immature and just annoying little kid perverts. Not surprised to see that in your age range although we probably have just as many elderly perverts wanting pics of younger 20's girls.

Most Helpful Girls

  • why would a guy want to see a naked girl?

    and yeah they usually do show their friends. I would never give a guy that kind of power over me, where he could potentially ruin my life like that, or if his phone gets stolen/hacked. guys who ask for naked pics that early do not want anything but sex anyway. even if I just wanted sex I still wouldn't send him evidence like that where he could potentially show ppl

  • Because he's horny and gets turned on by visuals.

    Of course, haha!

  • to know the girl is interested and because they are horny.

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  • I don't want them. It leaves little to the imagination. Keep your dignity, darling.

  • guys are visual, but it shouldn't translate into 'ok, we had a date now send me some nude pics'. that's pretty scummy imo.

  • Guys maybe visual but no right to ask for pics like that I agree on the statement on how they can be posted. Don't do it!

  • They want to masturbate to it.

  • because they want thing to imagine things better

  • I don't know and don't care, just don't do it. I don't know why guys think they are entitled to nude pictures

    • I can say the same about girls,