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Can your butt be too big for doggy style

I haven't had sex with a lot of people, only a few. Out of those few, I've only tried to do doggy style with 2 of them. For some reason we can do it in that position. I"m not fat, but I do have a big butt. The last person I had sex with, we tried it, but he said he couldn't put it in. So I just thought it was because of the angle. We were both standing up. So we tried again days later, but I was bent over on my knees. He still couldn't get it in. So it dawned on me, that maybe my butt might be too butt for doggy style. Like is it possible? Its it a way to work around it? Is there another way we can do this? I know he isn't problem. This is a serious question btw.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First of all, I love women with a nice big ass, I believe it makes positions like doggy so much better! That being said, trust me I know there's no such thing as your butt being too big. You should be happy you have a big butt! If the guy couldn't get it in, he's really just not that bright.

    • You can also help him by spreading it for him, and either on your knees or laying down are some of the easy positions.

    • It's not that he didn't know how. he could definitely find my opening, but he can only get the tip in. So I felt that my butt got in the way :/

    • NoNo! He'll get it in. Just relax and help another. Make sure your very relaxed and comfortable. Another tip is to have him get it wet with licking etc also to make it more pleasurable for you. and like I said I think women give a big butt are great at sex. They know how to use it

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  • Try getting on all fours at the very edge of the bed. Have him standing. That gives a good angle many times. But you said some thing interesting. With a girl with a big butt? I always find anal easier in doggy. So if you are good at that -- get GREAT at that. Most guys will be happy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Try arching your back so that your entrance is pointing more upwards. You can spread your legs a bit and that should spread you out more. I guess it could possibly get in the way for anal, but you'd have to have a HUGE butt paired with a tiny penis to have problems.

    • See that's what I never understood. We could do anal in that position but not doggy style vaginally.

    • It may have been that you just had your hips angled wrong. Just arch your back more. Try going down on your forearms rather than your hands.

    • Okay, will definitely try. thanks!

  • Bigger butts won't hinder doggy style even if the guy's penis is shorter. I have a big butt and did it many times doggy with my ex who is a bit under-endowed.

    • Have you ever had any problems doing it in the beginning? Like when ever you first started doing doggy style?

    • Wassup I gotchu

  • No, maybe you aren't loosened up enough and more lube should be used.

    If obsess women are able to have sex in this position so are you.

    • Also, try laying flat (on stomach) and have him get inside of you . Then bring it up doggy style (should be a bit easier).

    • I'm definitely going to try that next time :)

    • Don't think I'm bragging when I'm say this. Do you think it could be that I'm too tight? That's what I just thought when reading your comment. When I said I haven't had sex with many people, I also haven't had sex a lot. I can count on 2 hands for every time I have.

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  • No.

  • Probably your butt is not too big but his d*** too small!

    • He's like 6.5" inches

    • You were both standing up? Try this - face down, ass up - no way to fail!

    • I'm a guy and 6" length. I have had this problem before too. I honestly think it come down to being just a little too small :( Guess I need a girl with a tiny butt to make it work.

  • It could be a possibility depending on his length and how big your butt is.

    Thats to bad because I'm sure he loves the view =D

    But try going on more of an angle pushing your ass up more.

  • stick your butt up higher and spread your legs wider that might help

  • How could it not fit?

  • I appreciate responses given to you but I always appreciate honesty. I love a woman with a gorgeous round ass but when it comes to 2 people and sex if the ass is too big or the male member is not long enough you can't get by physics and some positions might not work.

  • Well if the guy is long enough then a girl's butt can never be too big to get in the way, but if he's short down there...there might be a problem. Only thing you can really do is try to stick your butt up in the air more when he's behind you. If that doesn't work then maybe your butt and his length just aren't a good match.

  • Yes. My total reach is less than 5 inches and big cheeks leave me barely knocking at the door.

  • I think it could happen, but only if you are too fat.

    • but I'm not fat...

    • I didn't say you were. I was just saying that there is somebody out there in the world whos butt is way to big for doggy style.

    • okay, gotcha

  • No, maybe you're not in the right position or you're too tight.

    • I think its the latter

  • I don't think that's how that works. haha

    • What do you mean?

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