Why would a guy apologize after he "finishes" and there's a lot?

I almost always swallow. So when my boyfriend and I haven't seen each other in a week or two, when we first have sex of course when he finishes, he comes quite a bit. After we're done and I've already swallowed, he'll ask if he came a lot and if I tell him yeah, he apologizes. I don't get it.
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  • Sounds like he probably assumes that you don't like the act swallowing in the first place. A lot of guys know that women don't like to swallow, and a previous girl may have made him feel bad about 'too much semen'.

    There is also the wild possibility that he secretly likes asking you whether or not it was a lot and is only apologizing not to seem creepy about it. The point is, we can only speculate.

    If you're afraid that he may truly be apologetic, there's a way to make him feel secure about having you swallow all of that cum. Make sure you act like it's the tastiest thing you've ever had. They know it probably doesn't taste like ice cream, but they love when we act like it does. Are you making funny faces at the end? Is it obvious that you're trying to gag down a lot of it? Consider the facial expressions you're giving off at that moment and determine whether or not you're doing something to cause him to feel the need to apologize. Otherwise, just ask.

  • Some girls hate when a guy cums a lot.

    They think its gross and disgusting.

    You need to let him know you love it,

    and you're not only swallowing for his pleasure.

    If he knows how you feel about it, he most certainly won't apologize ;)

  • Ya just agreeing with what others said already. Not everyone likes *alot*, esp. if they really don't like it in the first place. He prob is used to that, so that's prob why he is apologizing (I have friends like this, so that is my educated guess!) :o)

Most Helpful Guys

  • He forgot to mention the part where he laced his semen with strychnine, there is no antidote I'm afraid.

  • he thinks allot means it took you allot of effort to swallow.

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  • He is somewhat embarrased and that the amount of come is overwhelming for you to swallow.

  • agree with many others here.. tel him "yeah and I loved it"

  • does he come like a p*rnstar?

    • no lol

  • well he might just think you didn't want to swallow that much

  • well he might think it was hard or weird for you to swallow a lot.

  • he is self concious about it