i don't think there is very many female "virgins" on campus anymore , most girls have allready had sex by high school and even more after first year or so of college . I think your placing too much importance on the virgin thing , honeslty its not something I'd worry about if I was interested in the girl as long is she hasn't been with more than a couple guys and doesn't have any STD's .
plus how awkward is it going to be to ask these girls if they have had sex yet or not ? that's not a question I'm going to feel comfortable asking a girl I just meet and its not like you can check her Facebook page to find out if she's sexually active or not . some girls fb looks totally innocent yet the same girl is out on weekends getting drunk / partying and no doubt meeting guys and having sex with some of them
my mind is made up on the only dating virgin part. but I agree with you on the last part.
well your just going to have to be more selective in terms of the girls you'd consider dating , your going to have to try and identify ones who haven't had bf's yet or don't appear to be sexually active . there still is girls that age out there who haven't had sex yet I was just saying a large % of them have had sex but some haven't
yeah I hear ya. I'm only gonna be a sophomore and I'm pretty young for my age... I just turned 19.
well meet as many young women as possible. I read that something like 80% of women that go to college are virgins when they get there so meet the freshmen.
I am the exact same way. And believe me, you're going to get mocked about it and lose some friends over it, but if you stick to your guns, it'll be good. It flat out pisses guys off when they're hitting on me and they ask what kind of guys I date and I say, "Virgins." Sorry, I don't want a used d*** in me. Is that so hard to ask? Apparently so.
I don't judge them for their sexual experience; I just won't date them. They can be my friends and tell me about all the sex they get. That's fine. But I won't date them.
So...I commend you.
I am speaking personally as a virgin myself, however I feel it is important to be open minded about this! 21st century my man! Think about it. Say you meet a freakishly amazing girl, but she is not a virgin. It doesn't make her a slut or anything, it just means, well, she could probably be funner in bed with you. I just think people (no offense) read into that kinda stuff too much. Just live without reservations, and look at it as an advantage if you are put it such a situation. Don't determine your future based on someone else's past :)
yeah I already knew everything you said, but this is just one of those things for me idk. My mind will not change T_T
Well, alright, I can respect that, wholeheartedly. What was it that you needed advice on then? Or was this just like a 'get my thoughts out there to see if I identify with any other people" sort of post?
maybe, it was basically wondering if other people had the same intentions and me or if people that had the same intentions as me followed through with it and to them I would ask whether its worth it or not.
maybe as soon as it's clear to both of you that your intentions are not platonic, before you go any further reveal to her that you're a virgin and value virginity. I think that way she'll then let you know whether she's a virgin or not.
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psychological... I'm not relgious so nothing like that
well go for younger girls.
i am a virgin too!
I totally understand. I'm a virgin, and what attracted me to my boyfriend is that he's a virgin too, so it makes for less stress.
I can understand why you'd feel this way but you have to understand not all people that aren't virgins didn't choose that. They couldve been drunk at a party and someone took advantage of them or raped. Or the guy couldve just pressured them into it and it wasn't what they wanted and they could have regrets about it. I think you should just be a little more open minded about this.
yeah I hear you I would definitely have to be empathetic to that
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