Guys what if a girl just can't ride you?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now, and we've had sex plenty of times, but recently I've been talking to my friends and stuff and they always say how they come from riding their bfs and how the guys love it etc. well the thing is whenever I sit on his d*** it hurts, I just can't grind on it b.c it hurts me a lot and even bouncing hurts. Even when we do the legs on shoulder position it's pretty deep for me and I let him finish but my eyes get watery and it doesn't feel "good" it just hurts more so guys would you care if your girlfriend didn't ride you? It's not like I just lay there I do everything else but riding him I just can't do

[Olivia9]

Does he care that he is hurting you at all? Or does he care more about getting off? I mean your crying from the pain... Anyway you don't have to literally sit on it you can lay on top of him and do the horizontal mambo. It doesn't have to go that deep, look up on Cosmo sex positions for guys that are bigger. It might help, or maybe you should talk to him and say that you are being hurt since he clearly hasn't noticed or doesn't care.

[Asker]

if I bend forward that much won't it hurt his d***? and no he always says it's okay and that I don't have to ride him but I feel like I'm not doing anything...like what girl doesn't ride her man at all

[Olivia9]

Why do you care what other girls do? No it won't hurt when guys are really hard their d***s go towards their stomachs so you just let it in that way. Also why are you willing to be in pain but wouldn't want to just TRY something just because it MIGHT hurt him. You should start to think more of yourself, you matter too, you seem like such a nice girl, too nice. You should treat yourself like your boyfriend, you would be a lot happier.

[Asker]

well thank you I really appreciate that <3

[Olivia9]

No I'm totally honest, think about it, if your boyfriend felt like how you feel right now YOU would feel awful wouldn't you?If he was questioning his manhood because he didn't do something, and if he was being hurt during sex but didn't say anything and the tables were turned.I know a nice girl like you would make him feel amazing about himself and encourage him that he was an awesome person. I think you should talk to him and if he doesn't do the same you should move on you deserve the best. :)

[Olivia9]

Thanks for BA I hoe you and your boyfriend resole this, and if not you deserve nothing but the best you are such a kind and caring person. :)

[Anonymous]

maybe you can work on it and eventually you will be able

[Bethany94]

Most guys don 't want their girlfriends to be in pain :p

[sammysamson84]

it would feel pretty bad if I'd learn that I've had my fun while the girl was in pain ... as soon as you feel uncomfortable, tell him ...

if going in too deep is a problem, get on top, so you can control how deep it gets ... once that works he'll probably know ho deep he may go without hurting you and you can try other positions as well ...

[Sovereign1979]

This sounds like my wife. But she at least can ride me.

For me, I can do with out her riding since it is one of my least favorite positions.

[blackkid2]

I would be fine with it. Her health is far more important.

[Anonymous]

my boyfrined wouldn't mind it as long as he can do more other positions and come

[Anonymous]

well he won't care if he has a good time.