Why has my boyfriend been showing naked pictures of me to his friends?

[Anonymous]

I recently found out through a girlfriend of mine that my boyfriend has been showing his friends naked pictures of me. We have been dating for almost 2 years now and I love him very much I don't want to break up with him. I know my boyfriend enjoys it when I wear shirts that showed a lot of cleavage because it kind of turns him on and because my breast pretty large for a small girl so I do it for him quite often. do You think that it turns him on when other guys see me naked and maybe that's why he is showing his friends my pictures. I feel like I am so good to him and faithful I don't know why you would do these things I'm very nice to him respectable to him I give him sex and other oral pleasures pretty much anytime he wants it. I let him take nude pictures and other more sexually intense pictures of me because I trusted him, I thought that this was a guy that I could possibly marry someday. My girlfriend found this out through her boyfriend he said my boyfriend was showing some of his friends pictures of my boobs and a video of me masturbating in bed, also a video of me taking a shower. Like I said I really love my boyfriend do you think this is grounds for breaking up or maybe I could just talk to him about why he did it? On another note when we first started dating I heard rumor that he was putting pictures of my boobs on a website that is for rating girls boobs. He denied that he did it and we eventually on from that but now I'm thinking that maybe some of my pictures are on the Internet that's very scary to know. what do I do

[madhatters4]

do you think this is grounds for breaking up or maybe I could just talk to him about why he did it?

I 100% think it's grounds for breaking up. Its a sign of lack of respect for you. I guess you could be flattered that he thinks your hot and shows his friends but at the same time now everyone knows what you look like naked, masturbating and doing other very private things... You should feel very violated

I'd also be very concerned that your pics are on the web and he may have put more stuff on the web. I'd do what I could to get a hold of all material he has and then break up with him... Unless of course you are OK with his behavior, but me personally would be pretty disgusted, feel violated, and definitely a lack of trust for him which are all kind of relationship deal breakers

[madhatters4]

i'd do what you can to get the videos and pics back or deleted. it is illegal to violate someone's privacy in this way without their consent... good luck, what a sh*tty guy

[crosshatch55]

he is doing it because he thinks u are sexy and is like trying to make his friends a bit jealous kind of thing but i dont think its in a bad way that he is doing it me and my friends do it ourselves, when i do it its not cause i dont respect my girlfriend its like to show my mates how lucky i am, its a turn on for a lot of guys. i also like my girlfriend to wear revealing clothes, i love when she wears sheer tops without a bra it turns me on that everyone can see her and it turns her on that it turns me on:)

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend used to do this to me. He did this because he was so happy that he got a girl like me. He felt flattered and loved hearing and seeing other men drooling over his woman. It's more of a ego thing.

I think you should tell him to stop and you feel disrespected.

If you find out that he is still doing that even after you spoke with him then

delete all the explicit pictures he has of you.

[Anonymous]

Get all the pictures and delete them! After you've done that be sure to confront him, ask him why the hell he did it in the first place. Do NOT be all sweet, you should be furious. He disrespected your privacy! How do you feel knowing that other guys than your boyfriend have seen you naked and masturbating all because of your boyfriend?

[Asker]

I feel terrible knowing they saw the naked pictures of me and the video of me masturbating. The video was supposed to be something I did special for my boyfriend that he could watch while I'm gone at work or his home alone. It is very explicit it shows all of my body parts and even shows me having an orgasm. I feel violated

[Opinion Owner]

exactly. you don't deserve this :( he violated your privacy.

[stero-kurd]

wow tell him you trust him and why he did that?... I mean really how he accept other guys see you nacked wow I don't call this love

[dirtyharry]

You are doing the right thing. Violation of basic trust is unforgivable.

[HungryJones]

That's bogus as hell honestly, you do what he wants and he just takes it and shows the world. Who knows where those pics could end up. If you don't wanna break up with him then don't. I'd stop letting him take all these videos and pics of you though if he's gonna go show a bunch of people.

[stero-kurd]

uh dear.i know how you feel,

[RebeccaSJ]

Hubby nd I have an understanding about mine.

[JennieF]

Maybe.

[Anonymous]

know the guy better next time before doing that

[Anonymous]

Good for you! You deserve better babe

[Anonymous]

he likes showing you off or he doesn't respect you

[Anonymous]

He's happy to show you off. He wants to show off who he has, because your worth a lot to him. Be happy. I mean yeah it's a little wtv but you really care that much if his friends see you naked.

[Anonymous]

i would jsut talk to him about it, he just wants to seme like the man with all his frined the reasons can't be bad.

[Anonymous]

Not only is that wrong on so many levels (broken trust), it is also illegal.

If you are sure he did it, I would get rid of him now. Just my personal take on the situation.