Women sexually attracted to older men

I'm not talking geriatric, just older than yourself, if you ladies are, why are you sexually attracted to older men, and if you are, do you let them know? Do you approach them? If so how do you go about it? What do you say to them? Is there a limit to how much older than you they can be?
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  • I am sexually attracted to older men. Older men look "fuller" They normally have a wider jaw and wider shoulders, which I find attractive. Older men are also less likely to be socially inappropriate or awkward. They are seasoned socially, and know how to interact with a variety of people.

    If I am attracted to a man (older or younger) I let him know. I will also approach him. I usually just introduce myself and ask an open ended question. I generally don't have a limit to age. If I am attracted to a man I'm attracted to him. Whether we are compatible sexually/romantically is a completely different story.

    • Thank you for your honest and straight forward answer. You sound very to the point. :-)

  • I have never really guessed why, but I deff am attracted to older men. not extremely old, but something about older men does turn me on, They are more experienced and know how to treat women. They can usually afford to spoil me better than a young guy too lol :) But I usually don't have to go about it in any special way. I mean, most older men would hands down choose a sexy young p**** over anything else. So I just tell them that I love an older experienced man and I'm in :)(more like they are in tho lol) Ask me any other questions if I didn't say enough.

    • Thank you for your honest answer, and I can appreciate where you are coming from, it would seem that younger men just don't know how to slow things down, everything has to be hurry, hurry, hurry. There are just some things that are better done with some patience.

    • exactly, that's a really good way to put it :)

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  • Am not attracted to older men

  • I don't approach them or let them know. I tend to like guys that are from 28-38

    • Fair enough. :-)

  • Yes there is a man that old in my church who I find attractive

  • i am just attracted to them but I act the same way around them as guys my age

  • I'm 21 and my boyfriend will be turning 33 at the end of this year. Before him, the oldest I've ever dated was 27. And my limit was no higher than 30, 29 was pushing it. Then I met him and realized it didn't matter his age. I like older men because they have their lives figured out, less likely to cheat, and to me they're just more attractive than guys my age. I have never been attracted to anyone younger than me, if I was after I found out their age I wasn't attracted to them anymore

    • Thank you for your honest answer I appreciate it

    • You're very welcome :)

  • I'm not very sexually attracted to older men, but I know that I've got to start figuring out how to be. I really prefer a partner of close to my own age, but most guys tend to prefer girls who are younger and with better looks. I guess I would be attractive to a sense of security that he is getting what he wants visually and sexually, so if I can find a way to be at least somewhat sexually attentive to him, he is less likely to leave me than a guy my own age.

    • Thank you for your honest answer, I can appreciate your perspective, it would seem there are many women who also feel similar to the way you do. I can definitely understand how dating guys can be a frustrating proposal, hang in there I'm sure you will find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.