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I am too ticklish to be eaten out?

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, he would always say how he loves to eat a girl out and how he loves it when a girl sits on his face. He would always tell me how badly he wanted to lick my p****. Well I told him I was ticklish down there and he said "that's okay we'll just need to get you to where you're less so, step by step." But he never tried. He went down on me twice and I couldn't stop moving around and laughing...he never tried again after that. He said he doesn't want to get his head kicked --which I can understand. How can I become less ticklish down there? Has this happened to any of you girls? How did you overcome it? I understand that giving head is an important part of foreplay and I feel that when my boyfriend and I have sex, we don't do enough foreplay. I also would like to be able to come from this. I've never come from sex-play with another person before.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Okay, this isn't that uncommon, and as a couple of girls have mentioned, part if it is that it helps if you're more aroused first; you won't be as ticklish that way.

    A couple of things to try:

    - Have him use his hand and spent plenty of time rubbing you there. Get used to having someone else touching you there. Fingering is good too, but rubbing is especially important.

    - Once you can handle rubbing, which may take 30 minutes or 30 sessions (take your time), have him try oral again. As Cun7n1nja says, he may need to use longer, firmer strokes of his tongue (like a cat licking) rather than shorter/faster/lighter strokes like he may be used to. Longer, firmer strokes will be less ticklish. Even if you don't get off that way at first, the goal is to get used to having a tongue there. Over time, he can go a bit lighter and faster, and watching your reactions, he can figure out what you can take.

    I recommend that you are on your back with your knees back for this (you may even want to hold them back). Communicate with him as he does it, and give him direction (faster/slower/harder/softer). Tell him where you are most sensitive, and help him work around it as best you can. Communication is huge in getting you past this. Also, you need to tell him that this is important to you, because if he just thinks you don't really like it, he'll have no motivation to work on it with you.

  • this might be a bit much but if you are both okay with it he can tie your legs and arms apart so you can't kick him while he's licking you. I hear warm water can help prevent someone from being ticklish there might be some lubes but I know very little about that sort of thing.

    • another suggestion is for you to start masturbating first in hopes you won't be ticklish when he does go down on you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, I'm not sure if this will work exactly, but it's worth a shot. He MAY need to hold your legs down at first. He should also maybe try more deliberate strokes, rather than light teasing ones that tend to tickle more. Like some others have suggested, getting more worked up before he actually touches you down there might help too. =] Good luck!

  • I'm ticklish too when first touched. If you just tough it out it will start feeling so good it probably won't tickle anymore. That's how it is with me anyways.

  • lol this is kinda funny

    I get ticklish when a guy kisses me on my neck BECAUSE I'm not turned on enough, so maybe that's your problem too.

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  • do diffenret foreplay and you will be turned on so you won't think its funny anymore and get ticklish

  • If he arouses you by hand first and then starts licking you outside closed lips, you will no longer be ticklish and will want more.

  • i think he just will have to force you while oral so you can get over things

  • i think you need to get in the mood before and hold your legs with something then make him hold them down too for security.

  • A woman's body is one big erogenous zone so don't even think twice about it. Just tell him to hold your legs

  • I'm sorry, but that's just hilarious to picture. Maybe he just needs to figure out how to hold you down better, haha.

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