Is 'men are visual creatures' and excuse for why men watch p*rn?

Do you view it as an excuse for why men watch p*rnography? why or why not?
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just so we are clear, I don't agree with this opinion, I just keep seeing it popping up and wanteed to see people's opinions on it
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  • No, it's an excuse for men to be all around pigs and oggle women at the mall, on the t.v, in p*rn, at school etc. It isn't as offensive as the "spread the seed" bs excuse for men to be piggy though, that one is irritating because it's like women have no sexuality, just men. Women are just there for men's enjoyment. I think p*rn is really devastating to sex, I mean actual sexuality. It sets up women to fail because they don't pretend to enjoy being sexually abused as p*rn actresses do. There are a lot of excuses for bad behavior in men, there probably have been since the dawn of time.

    • how is it "abuse" when a grown women uses free choice to perform in p*rnography? isn't choice what feminism is all about?

    • If you don't call beastiality, throat f***ing, etc. sexual abuse than you are disturbed. The most sick and perverse sexual fetishes are now mainstream including cocorophilia and Ephebophilia for one is now the norm. That is a warped argument it's like saying women should be liberated and become prostitutes! YAY FEMINISM..nice try. Human trafficking, prostitution, exploitation and drugging women is not "freedom".Feminist want respect not this, its just another form of oppression.

    • still unless she was forced, it was still her choice to do it.

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  • I don't think it's a valid excuse for anything, and watching p*rn is not a behavior that even warrants an excuse in the first place. It's an individual choice as to whether or not one watches p*rn, be they male or female, in a relationship or single, etc. I don't see it as particularly harmful as long as one does not become addicted to it or allows it to interfere with a relationship. What people choose to do in their private time is no one else's business as long as it not causing harm to that person or others.

  • why would they need an excuse for p*rn? it's more an excuse for why they want to date attractive women-again,doesn't need an excuse since it actually has evolutionary standing but,being shallow and caring whether or not other guys think you did well with your ''conquest'' does warrant an excuse.

Most Helpful Guys

  • men ARE visual creatures ... show us something that turns us on, and you will see ... p*rn is just something that is available at any given time ... if you want to find out where the priorities are: let a guy watch p*rn and approach him naked from behind ...make him notice you and you'll see where his priorities are...

  • Unlike what other people falsely believe, I can tell the difference between p*rn and reality. Women watch p*rn too. Women look at other guys, they are just more sneaky at it. Women cheat just as much as men do. I guess the short answer is, nice try.

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  • Well I don't believe the whole "men are more visual" thing. I get super turned on by the male form and consider myself to be very visual, that's why I prefer the lights on during sex and seeing all the action. In reality, women are just as visual as men are regardless if they want to admit it or not. A LOT of women watch p*rn too, not just men.

  • No, I watch p*rn too, Probably more p*rn than I should, and I have a vagina.

  • No

    Men are sexual creatures. Men have p*rn while women have toys.

    Men AND women are visual and to what extent, is individual.

  • Why do they need an excuse? I don't.

  • Women watch it to. Is just a thing we do. It's exciting, it passes time, it gets you off, it helps you fall asleep. There are plenty of reasons to masturbate with p*rn and who gives a crap if someone else is doing it

  • There is not excuse... Men (and women) watch p*rn because there horny and want to get off. Its not dirty or wrong.

    • Idk why you got 4 down votes for the. Basically sums up this question

  • Everyone watches p*rnography now days

    • The claim is not exactly true.

    • lol oh yes it is

    • Damn it haven't you people heard of Avenue Q's the internet is for p*rn?

  • no, it's a reason. excuses are made up to justify what someone has already decided to do. reasons are facts that explain why they decided to do it.

  • The only excuse for p0rn when taken is if she's not giving enough sex or giving it badly

    Otherwise the is NO excuse! Yes, we are visual but we are not scumbags because of it!

  • So what? Women get turned on by auditory and vocabulary words (I.E. literotica)... and we as men never bust their balls about getting off to it - So don't break our balls when we want to watch p*rn.

  • Today p*rnography is equally watch guys and girls. I personally don't like p*rn, and don't watch.

  • I think it mainly to set the mood

  • all genders watch prn.. and I like if its quailt one..

  • well ist not an excuse. if guys wna tto do it they can if you aren't comfortable with that in a relationship then its up to you to see if he will compromise or not.

  • Frankly, I enjoy p*rn. Don't need an "excuse" for it. It keeps me faithful to my partner, specially when she's not in the mood, and kept me AIDS-free for years. Thank you p*rn!

  • It's not an excuse. Lots and lots of people (including women) watch p0rn. Yeah, we know. There is no need for an excuse.

  • You don't need an excuse to watch p*rn. Women watch it too.

  • It's not an excuse. It's the truth, and it is a factor.

  • Why do people need an excuse to watch p*rn? Haha!

    I watch it because it's sexy sometimes, and I can't always have sex when I'm feeling sexual.

    I'm not really much of a visual creature, as much as the average person I suppose, but I still like p*rn occasionally :-)

  • Porn is dumb. Because then guys expect all that crap in the video that the p*rno chick taught him last night

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