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Would this be considered exhibitionist sex

My boyfriend and I are both 25 years old we have been dating for about a year now and was looking for ways to spice up our sex life. We stayed at a bed and breakfast out in the country Wednesday night just to get away for a little while and out of the city. It was kind of a small bed-and-breakfast and there was only one other couple there that night that had a room right next to ours, like 10 feet outside our window, we didn't really talk to the other couple but I would guess they were in their late 20s early 30s. Late into the night we happened to look out our window and could see straight into the other couples window and we saw the girl walking around in some black leather bra and thongs. It was dark outside and their lights were on and curtains were wide open my boyfriend and I had the lights off in our room and they could not see us, we watched them for just a minute just out of humor. We saw them start kissing and her lingerie came off. About this time I said okay that's enough for my boyfriend to see and we shut our curtains. My boyfriend and I were pretty tipsy off of drinking some wine we were both kind of turned on by what we saw and we started with some oral foreplay and then started having sex on our bed. About 10 minutes into having sex I turned the lamps on beside the bed and got on top of my boyfriend, the string for the curtains was right next to the bed my boyfriend grabbed it and started to open the curtains I started to say no and then for some reason I just kept my mouth shut and let him open the curtains. I looked over into their room and I could see that it was completely dark in there and their curtains were still open. I didn't really know what to think so I kind of laid down on top of him to try and hide my boobs but then I started really getting into it and just set back up and rode my boyfriend. There I was completely naked boobs bouncing riding my boyfriend right in front of our window with our lights on and for some reason I was really turned on. We had sex for about 30 more minutes and then went to bed. I don't know what they were doing in their room or if they were watching us or not I think that's why I was so horny. The next morning I walk to the car and I bumped in to the guy that was in the other room and he just said hello to me and asked me if we had a good time last night I just smiled and yes we did. This was the first and only time my boyfriend and I have ever done something like this would you consider this to be exhibitionist?
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  • You probably would enjoy having sex with another couple nearby, where each of you could see the other. You got aroused seeing them, then you got aroused making yourselves visible to them. So doing it while seeing each other at the same time would probably be very arousing for all of you.

    There are places where people go to have sex in the open (forests, remote beaches, etc.) and are not bothered when others of similar feelings are near them. Or you could find among your friends a couple that seem to have less inhibitions and see about having a shared weekend or vacation. Try intimate touching in their presence and if they seem okay with it or do the same, try advancing it a bit.

    Don't know (or really care) what to call this behavior, but if you have found you enjoy it and it adds to your sexual pleasure, then enjoy it. Obviously, you and your boyfriend are both okay with what you did (actually more than okay), and the other couple seemed to be doing it intentionally, so, no harm, no foul.

  • well by the definitions of exhibiitionist, like by the word it means

    1. The act or practice of deliberately behaving so as to attract attention

    i don't know if you were necessarily trying to attract attention but you certainly were getting something out of the idea taht you could be being watched. So perhaps by definition no but I would certainly consider what you and your boyfriend did as exhibitionary

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  • I would say that it would be exhibitionist, and I also think it sounds very hot and exciting. I wouldn't mind trying that with my girl Lol.

    • I'm not normally a type of girl that would do this but I did think it was very hot and I am open to doing this again. I think it would be a good idea for you to try it with your girlfriend. She may have some hidden fantasy that you don't know about

    • She's very calm and reserved in public but I'm learning more and more that she has a very interesting side to her that no one knows and the more I learn the more I like lol.

  • Yeah.

  • I am sure it was exhibitionist sex, but I must add it is always great one.

  • Yes, voyeurism and exhibitionism on the part of you and the other couple... you both enjoyed putting on a show and spectating... well done!

  • It's not exhibitionist at all. It just happened.

  • yes it would

  • Sounds fun

    • I'm not going to lie it was very fun and I am open to doing this again in the near future

  • Yeah. You go, girl.

  • Never done anything like that, but sounds fun. Yeah I'd say exhibitionist.

  • you gave someone a free p*rn show viewing

  • yes, you would consider it exhibitionist

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