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I found out my male roommate has a girlfriend after we had already been fooling around do I get rid of him?

I have had a male roommate for about a month now we recently started talking and hanging out a lot at the house. We have gotten very comfortable around each other sometimes I even walk around the house and my underwear and so does he. On Monday night we were sitting on the couch and being very flirtatious we got very deep in conversation starting to ask each other about each others' sex lives. I was already getting ready for bed before we started talking so I was just sitting on the couch and some spandex shorts and just my bra. While we were asking each other about each others' sex lives he asked me how many guys have given a blowjob I told him the answer and then went on to tell him that I have no gag reflex and my ex-boyfriend's love my blowjobs because I could go all the way down on them. He seems very intrigued by this and told me that he's never had a girlfriend that could go all the way down. After some more flirting and talking I could tell he was wanting something I offered to demonstrate my blowjob skills on him. Not shockingly he accepted I got on my knees beside the couch I started kissing on his chest and down his stomach and pulled his boxers down and began giving him a blow job, he took my bra off and started squeezing my boobs and rubbing his hands all over them, I could tell he really enjoyed me going all the way down on him so I continued to do it until he finished. He did not tell me he was about to finish and I got a nice surprise but not being inexperienced to this I just let him continue finishing in my mouth, he asked me to swallow it so I obliged he told me this was his first time ever finishing a girls mouth and how much he enjoyed it. It did not bother me to do this we are both mature adults and sex is a normal thing for adults. Every night this week I gave him the same favor before he went to bed I figured he wouldn't have to make himself get off and I really enjoyed doing it for him. This morning I was telling a friend of mine about what I did for him and that I was enjoying it. She asked me didn't I know he had a girlfriend I was going to college in another state. I have no idea of this and he did not bother to tell me before I was walking around in my bra and underwear and giving him blow jobs. I have not talked to him yet but I'm thinking about confronting him and making him move out. I would never want to break up someone's relationship or even have his girlfriend think that this is my fault. Do you think it would be best to kick them out of my apartment
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  • Wow, what an a**hole. I definitely think you should confront him about it. That's just wrong, I feel so bad for his girlfriend though I understand it wasn't your fault, I mean, you didn't know.

    All you can do is to make sure you don't do anything like that with him again and honestly, if it was me, I would want him to move out. I respect other people's relationships and I would feel awful if a guy didn't tell me and we did stuff like that.

    Obviously, this guy is a jerk so it's up to you to do something about it. Just tell him that you know he has a girlfriend and that you don't appreciate him failing to tell you that beforehand.

    • ^I agree he's using the both of you

    • This is a mutual boo boo. Same on him for not telling you and also to a degree on you for not asking either. HONEYBEE here is right in her opinion.

    • Exactly, he's trying to have his cake and eat it too and that's not right in my opinion. He's treating both of them wrong.

  • well, he saw the opportunity and you are giving it to him for free, so he just took it. I would say you have to talk to him in regards on his girlfriend. A BJ doesn´t make you a couple, but if you have a good sex chemistry you might want to be honest with him and tell him that you started to like him. Don´t be immature and kick him out of your house, you never asked him if he had a girlfriend and he never bothered to tell so just take it and talk to him.

  • stop playing around with him and then it all depends on how you rented the place together but my guess it is it not going to be asy

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  • Every night this week you gave him the same favor. What are you getting in return? This kind of sounds like you feel a need to suck guys and you have a willing guy living with you. If it something different it might make more sense.

    If you are ever going to meet her it is going to be very awkward! And even if you don't, if you continue this behavior it will be very weird.

    If you both like this and want to continue, he should break off with the GF.

  • Maybe.

    Talk to him because your hearing this second hand and you don't know the relationship he shares with this girl.

    If from living with him you didn't find out he had a girl friend maybe there not that serious... You would hear them on phone calls, see pictures or even see on his FB that he had someone in his life.

    Get the full story first.

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  • No. If he pays rent you just cease the behaviors. If he tries to involve his supposed girlfriend in getting into your face you just remind him who is the bitch in this situation and that his girlfriend won't house him and if he continues to be belligerent neither will you. He'll behave. He can act as a source of income if he has no morals; it's better to make use of him.

    Then again if it will "bug you" then by all means do what is best for your mental health.

  • don't kick him out. It sounds like the two of you have something good. You like going down on him, and he likes getting head from you. Escalate the relationship, start having sex with him and steal him away from his girlfriend , if you reallly like him.

  • wow that story is incredibly hot. except the cheating part. any update on this?

  • Suck it up and deal with it - that's what you get when you're "fooling around"

  • #1 if he's on the lease, you can't

    #2 you can him head and swallowed every night, and he didn't have to do anything in return? this guy has it made. he should dump the Girlfriend and just take the free blow jobs from you

    #3 hot story

  • Stop having those benefits with him. It's clear that you're not his priority.

  • just don't pay attention to him, and see if you can't get rid of him somehow

  • How many guy have you blown already?

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