Virgin girls: what did you make of sexual intercourse after the first time?

- Did you enjoy it straight away or did it take you a few times to really enjoy it and come well? - Did you get really horny and have sex every day after your first time or did you build your sex life more gradually? I'm a virgin so this is obviously referring to your first sexual relationship! :)
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  • The first was quite average. Thinking about it, it was almost funny because we were fumbling and all sorts :P

    The second time, that's when it started getting good and improved from there as I became more confident and experienced with what was going on. As things improved, so did my sex drive. Its fairly common sense really. If its only average you don't get all the hormones to make it feel great so won't be in a hurry to do it again. As you get better at it (I make it sound like a skill and in a way, it kinda is because it doesn't just happen) then you feel better during and really its along the lines of an addiction to these hormones that create the sex drive.

    The first time doing anything is always awkward and fumbly. My first kiss was the same but again, second time was way better! As long as you care for the person your with and trust and respect each other then you have nothing to worry about. Relax, go with the flow and get past the "unknowing" stage.

    Hope that helps!

  • It took me a few times to enjoy it. It didn't hurt too bad for me the first time but I just had to get the hang of it. I was in a long distance thing with my now ex so we did not have sex all the time only when we saw each other. Sometimes ide see him every other week other times ide go three months without seeing him. That's one reason he cheated because I am very busy and he never wanted to come to Connecticut and I had trouble getting to New York. My best advice is be careful who you have sex with especially the first time cause guys will do anything to get into your pants.

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  • I enjoyed my first time a lot :) . I came XD more than once, although I can't tell you how many they were (I wasn't trying to count the orgasms I had, was more worried about enjoying them XD )

    The next day we did it 3 more times. They were all awesome.

    First time I rode him. The other day, we did it missionary, against a wall and above a desk XDD . I am enjoying my sexual life ever since I started playing under the covers of my bed with my boyfriend without actually doing sex XD

    We're still together and it's been over a year of amazing sex :) .

    Find a person who is right for you, find the right moment to try it out... and enjoy :D !

    Don't worry, you'll like it as long as you're doing something you want to do, with someone you want to do it with and you're feeling safe and comfortable, you'll be able to discover how amazing sex can be, how close you will feel to him and how satisfied you'll end up XD.

  • I was very fortunate. My first time was very good. It was my boyfriend and I won't lie, we were both nervous. He was patient and got me really wet. It hurt a bit but subsided as we went on. The good thing was he never really pounded into me hard. I did not orgasm but it was a good experience. I took a few times before I actually started to get into it and enjoy it myself. After that, I could not get enough. I wanted it every time we were together. We spent a fortune in condoms that year.

  • For me it was WOW I really liked that, it felt great, had fun, and hoped it would continue. It did continue; imagine that! :)

  • I was like wow that was lame .

  • It didn't hurt for me, I guess that would depend if you still have your hymen or not. I found it average I was nervous. I gradually increased my sex life, but only with the same person my boyfriend, now husband.

  • It took a few tries to get his d*** in me completely because it hurt so much. But once it was in, I got really wet and it felt better. It lasted for at least 30 minutes, and my boyfriend didn't come (he was also a virgin) I didn't come on the first time either. But we both really enjoyed it, and it was a positive experience.

  • I loved it. I couldn't wait to do it again. (That happened the next morning.)

  • It was nice and didn't hurt at all. But I had lost my hymen due to sports and had used tampons for several years. We had it all planned out in advance. It was a bit strange to have him on top of me and pumping in and out.

  • haha funny virgin girls?. OK I'm virgin oh it was awsome and was nightmare haha:D

  • What an odd question! You're asking virgin girls how they liked sex for the first time.

  • I really enjoyed it right away! I was preparing my self for it to hurt and be uncomfortable but then I realized its all about comfort. I was so comfortable with my guy and I loved it the very first time.

    I felt incredibly horny the day after... the thing is I wanted more with him not just the actual act ofsex. He was the reason I wanted more . We live pretty far apart so haven't had it again yet but if he did live close I'd def want more with him! :)

    I totally agree you have to be careful who you sleep with if sex is important to u. I waited till I was 24...not because I'm ugly or can't get men but because I wanted to have close connection and comfort with that man. I will never regret my first time because I did it in a way that was right for me. Don't let men or women tell you all virgins get clingy and fall in love with there first. I'm not clingy to him and sex has not made me fall in love.

  • I did like it right away, but the first couple times were so interesting...I didn't realize how "physical" sex was until I tried it. I was really horny and very much enjoyed it, but more because I wanted to feel closer to the person who took my virginity, not because the actual sex was mind-blowing.