Is blond some kind of fetish or do guys view blond as sexual?

Is blond considered more sexual than other colors or do guys have a blond fetish or something? I was a blond child and as I got older my hair turned mousy light brown/dirty blondish so recently I colored it light blond with highlights. I have a good stylist and it came out well. Anyhow since I am blond guys always make comments. I definitely get more male attention. I also get guys who "love blondes" now, like some guys will say "I am very into blondes" or tell me they like it that I am blond because where I live not that many girls are blonde. It almost seems fetishized or something..is blond viewed as sexual or a fetish compared to other hair colors? I love my hair and it suits me. All my friends and family also love my new hair, but it's weird that it gets me so much attention, I didn't expect that.
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For clarity, are blondes seen as more sexual than other hair colors?
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  • Blonde girls are often seen as "the most attractive" or "the most sexy" by a lot of people. Tons of actresses "go blonde" when moving to LA to try to get work. Tons of p*rn stars are blond (far, FAR higher than ratio of blondes in the general population). So, yes, there is definitely some of that perception at work.

    Marilyn Monroe didn't get "famous" until she went blond. Madonna is another famous bottle blond, and was blond at the height of her career. I'm sure I could list many other examples, but, yes, there is definitely that stereotype.

    And even more, if you're a "thin blond with big boobs", then you have that "air-headed sexpot" thing working, ala Courtney Stodden.

    Personally, blond hair never made a lot of difference to me, but I know a lot of guys who go gaga over blond hair.

  • There is nothing about it being sexual. It's just a preference for some people, just like eye color, skin color, clothing style etc.

    I agree it seems that almost every guy likes blonds. I'm not really sure why. Maybe it has something to do with blond being a very feminine trait. The light color maybe has this softness, pure, and feminine quality about it that turns many men on. I don't know, that's just a guess. Maybe I'm wrong entirely and quite a few guys don't like blonds.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It probably compliments your face and skin more. Men are simple beings and like anything pretty with two legs. Don't over think it

  • i read somewhere on a dna discussion forum that blond women are/were more fertile because of the recessive gene thing ...

  • No the stereotype is that redheads are seen as more sexual

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  • It could be there's a blond fetish because there's a fetish for red heads or you just look really great as a blonde

  • No. Blond hair isn't a sexual fetish, but a preference.

  • Maybe you're getting attention because you've made a subtle style adjustment which really works for you. Maybe some guys really do have a fetish for a particular hair color -- nothing wrong with that -- but it's got to be pretty small I think. The "I love blondes" comment sounds more like Hollywood 1950's stuff to me.

  • Fetish

  • I usually find them more attractive as long as they aren't the bimbo looking ones. It's not particularly sexual. I just find them attractive.

  • "Is blond some kind of fetish or do guys view blond as sexual?"

    I thought all fetishes were sexual.

  • Most guys actually seem to prefer brunettes.

    But the guys who do prefer blondes seem to go crazier over blondes than guys who prefer brunettes go over brunettes. Yeah, I think it's something like a fetish in many cases.