How do I get my girlfriend to like the taste of my cum/be able to swallow?

[Anonymous]

I feel terrible, or kind of broken. My girlfriend consistently tries to let me come in her mouth and swallow after blowjobs and sex, but she always seems to gag and spit it out. She says that I come a LOT and the texture gets to her. She says it does not taste bad, but it does not taste good. I thought that maybe if there was a way to get the taste to improve it may help with the texture as well. Please do say eat more fruit, because I have a pretty good diet for the average person and I have improved it even more recently. I am the only guy she has ever let come in her mouth and tried to swallow for, so this is newer for her as well. What can I do or help her with to help her succeed at swallowing? She wants to be able to do this just as much as I want her to, so what can we do?

[UnderDriven]

Does she want to do it for herself, or because *you* want her to do it? It's likely that she wants to make you happy and do something you feel is important. However, instead of thinking of yourself why not take the pressure off of her? Whether a girl spits or swallows is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. Some girls find swallowing easy to do (and may actually enjoy it), while others are never comfortable with it. My advice is to let her do what she finds comfortable right now. Perhaps over time she will find it more palatable, but making a big deal of it may take away some of her enjoyment of sex...

[Asker]

I already stated very clearly that she wants to do it because she wants to. I am sure part of it has to do with pleasing me, but I never told her she has to swallow. This is why I said I guess it is a goal for both of us pretty much. I never force anything on her when having sex.

[UnderDriven]

Okay, my apologies--I know that you said "she wants to be able to do this just as much as I want her to," but sometimes people say things like that without really knowing the true motivation of the other person. My other point was that it shouldn't be a big deal for either of you. I felt as you do when I was in college, but later on I realized it just doesn't matter (if the girl finds it unpleasant)...

[Asker]

No, she does not find it unpleasant. It is just something I think she wants to be able to do for me and is having difficulty executing. I believe it turns her on and the fact that it turns me on makes it even more exciting to her. She is the first the girl to do this for me and I had no idea I would even like it. The first time, she sucked it right out of me like Gogurt and it absolutely blew my mind! LoL, she just has a hard time getting it down for some reason and I don't know what to do.

[Asker]

Or what advice to give her. I just do not like seeing her struggle with it.

[UnderDriven]

As I said before, I would just let her know that it isn't a big deal if she prefers to spit it out. For all you know, she may have read somewhere that swallowing is super important to guys. As long as she knows that you like her whether she spits or swallows, she can decide what she wants to do. Unfortunately, I have no advice to give her on how to make the experience better. Sorry...

[Asker]

Oh I have. I told her that I love that she wants to do it for me and then she will say she also wants to accomplish it so it is not such a big thing. It is not a big deal to either of us where it does right now as long as it is not inside her. It just kind of one of those things that she can say to herself and feel pride in I guess. Regardless I have no complaints, I am just trying to get any info I can to make it easier. Again, she likes the act of doing it but my stuff is not agreeing with her.

[madhatters4]

eat sweeter foods. fruits sugary stuff. stay away from veggies right before you are going to do stuff with her or foods that lead to a acrid or bitter tastes. Essentially consider what tastes best when you burp and then you'll get an idea of what typically makes c*m taste better.

I've read specifically pineapple, cantelope, and melons help the tastes best.

I've heard from women that they try and have thep*nis as far in their mouth as possible so it bypasses most of the taste buds and straight down the hatch

[KimmyB]

Lots of people on here say pineapple juice improves the taste, but I've never really noticed that, so I won't say it! The only thing that helped me was getting used to it and mentally telling myself it's not that bad, because I figured if I kept thinking to myself how horrible it was, that would just make it worse, in my opinion. That, and swallowing right away instead of holding it all in my mouth. That helps too, esp. if the guy cums a lot like you said you do- easier to swallow not a lot a few times rather than an entire mouthful at once :o)

[Anonymous]

maybe ask your girlfriend to try deep throating you when you're ready to come that way she won't really taste it as much on her tongue when she tries to swallow it. hope this helps.

ps. and having a small glass of water or whatever for her to drink after might help her too. not to mention having a few tissues handy in the event.

[Asker]

I will let her know about the deep throat suggestion, thank you! And we do the whole tissue and water thing already, but thank you!

[ferma]

Did you ever think she does it because of you? I mean she does it to make you happier? Bc i myself never swallow the cum and i know lots of women who dont like this and you are saying she is new to it too.

[qwer1234]

C_m on her sandwich and then tell her to eat it.

[Asker]

LoL, I wonder if she would even notice?! lol no, I would never do that. Haha

[HungryJones]

I know you don't wanna hear eat fruit but...Eat a sh*t ton of pineapples or drink pineapple juice. If it's the texture she doesn't like then she can't help it and you can't really change it lol...cum is cum.

[Asker]

That is why I was hoping to change the taste. Looks like I will be drinking a lot of pineapple juice lol.

[HungryJones]

It works lol

[Whiterecluse]

You shouldn’t try.

[Anonymous]

Try to add some flavoring to it like strawberries or something apparently studies show that what men eat its flavour goes to the sperm

[Anonymous]

Eat a diet that promotes better tasting cum, Not everyone like the taste and texture of cum. Personally I consider it a waste to give a guy a Blow Job and not swallow his cum.

[Anonymous]

Do you drink alcohol? Even if its the odd beer? If yes then stop. It changes the taste dramatically.

[Asker]

Nope, I am not really much of a drinker...maybe 20 or 30 beers a year. Absolutely nothing consistently.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah. Well I don't know then. She just needs to get used to the taste.