How would you react if your girlfriend sent nude pics of herself?

[mangue]

Me and my sort of boyfriend have this long distant relationship, and our conversations are sometimes veeerrry sexual. Now he asked me to send him some nude pics and I honestly don't bother, it's just that I'm afraid that I'll come across as slutty to him so that he won't see me as the girl he used to like/love, but a girl he just wants to f***. So guys, what are your opinions? How would you react if your girlfriend did that to you? Would you change your opinion about her? And I don't want this "you're a slut, you have low self esteem and no class" bullsh*t. I love sex and I love showing off my body to my BOYFRIEND, there is noting wrong with that. Sex is natural and amazing.

[HandsomeRaj]

Sending nude pics is not a very bright thing unless you ABSOLUTELY trust him and the way he handles his online stuff (it could leak out by accident)

If you do want to send him something then send it without a face (and explain to him that you do trust him but just in case of an accident better to be safe) and don't keep it nude. Keep some parts of clothing covering vital areas and those areas which have tell tale tattoos or birthmarks or moles + remove any jewelry that you wear regularly.

The above was an answer not actually asked by you but I thought advising you on prudence is a priority.

NOW your question :D

If my girl were to send me suggestive or nude pics of herself then I doubt the next day the relationship will be long distance :D ;) I'd have reached where she is and the rest is your imagination.

And NO WAY that I'd think low of her for that, I'd think she loves me which is why she did that for me in addition to which I'd love and respect her more (apart from being more horny for her :D )

[madhatters4]

I'm not sure I understand why you are worried about appearing like a slut but then saying don't tell me I'm a slut...but anyway

if he requests it then what's your concern. there is an amount of objectification even in a relationship. I see my girlfriend as a beautiful sexual object it doesn't mean that I don't respect her for all her other non-sexual qualities. My girlfriend sends me a sexy pic via text every once and a while and it doesn't make me think negatively at all, it just means that she is adventurous and very comfortable and trusting of me

[mangue]

What in trying to say is that many people say that girls who send nude pics are sluts with no self respect, which isn't true , maybe in some cases but definitely not mine. This is purely sexual pleasure. What I'm concerned about tho is that my boyfriend only will see me in a sexual way and not in a romantic as before

[madhatters4]

right. I'm letting you know that my girlfriend sends me some sexy shots too, and it's just playful, fun and sexy. It doesn't change how I view her as a person overall

[Anonymous]

Men will like it and you're not going to look like a slut for doing something fun with your boyfriend. Its not like you're sending them around to any guy. But please remember that once you send a picture of yourself out there isn't anything you can do about it. Like if things went badly and he wanted to be spiteful you cannot control who he shares these pictures with so make sure you fully trust the person you are sending these kinds of pictures to. If you ever make a video, make sure you keep it.

[Account]

Just DON'T put your face on. What if you have a bad break-up and he decides to put them online or show them to his friends? If you want to do it, then go for it, just don't put your face on because if something bad happens you will regret it.

[NavyblueTacos]

ask him if he would like if you did that, BUT never ever put your face in the pictures, no matter how much you trust him, you don't want them to get out

[clashcity22]

My Girlfriend does that for me already, but only if I send some in return which is extremely awkward for me since I'm not as comfortable doing it

[Mrwulfy]

Yeah if you guys love eachother or have a good connection i dont think it would change his view of "who" you are. If the connection is a true one he will love you all the same... And ya the pics would most likely give um a rock hard sword! As a guy though, i think being able to get your man up is a great and healthy thing if your a woman... Confidence for alllll! :)

[gonyr]

He asked for them so why would he think lowly of you?

Every time my girlfriend has sent me a nude pic or so, it tends to be e highlight of my day

[kheserthorpe]

I'd be happy if she sent, and sad she hadn't done so.

That said I wouldn't advise including face + body in same photo set.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I like it, but just remember that pics you send are on the internet forever.

[mattiee]

its how but use the app called snap chat, which has a

timer on the pictures so say 2 seconds and they can't save

it and if they screen shoot it, it will tell you but if you set

it for 2 seconds its to short to take a screen shot...

[Segador]

If ur a genius u would know that Snapchat doesn't show certain screen recording apps such as Mobizen. My girlfriend sent me lots of pics on snap and I simply screen recorded to save it. She trusts me 1000% and I trust her and we keep our pics saved to ourselves and no one else. We both have access to each other social media accounts and emails which gives extra trust. I keep all her sexy photos and videos in a vault app. I've also backed each one to my backup drive so just in case my phone goes missing I can wipe it clean without losing those pics. I also have my apps and all data backed up so if I get a new device I'll still have everything from the previous device. I've set up a automatic backup every 24hrs

[front2back]

I would be like: "Wait...I have a girlfriend?"

In all seriousness though: I would like them, but I wouldn't like them. What I mean by that is I would get turned on and want to see pics of her nude, but my mind wants her to "cover up" until we are together and doing stuff, to keep the mystery. Also, like you said I wouldn't view her as a slut but I would view her in a more sexual light instead of a romantic one. So I probably wouldn't want nude pics. BUT THIS IS JUST ME.

[RebeccaSJ]

My now-hubby loved it.

[SaltandVinegar]

My girlfriend sent me nude pics and no it did not change my opinion of her, I love her.

[Zarya_]

As a bisexual I would send ones myself. Most likely they would even feature me fingering myself.

[Anonymous]

Flattered and aroused. Not only does she expose herself physically by getting naked for you, she is also exposing herself emotionally, it's a major sign of trust giving nude pictures to a guy, because it shows that you trust him enough that you believe he won't show the pictures to others or put them on the internet. I would never betray that trust.

[Anonymous]

Snap chat him nudes if you want. and I think he would greatly appreciate them.

[mattiee]

yeaa snapp chatttttttt

[Mprajapat]

Hi beby

[Anonymous]

Just don't put your face

[Anonymous]

a girl I used to know, sent me topless photos of herself but we weren't dating. we've since stopped talking and I deleted them...don't ask, I'd rather not talk about it