I'm nervous about showering with my boyfriend. What can I expect?

My boyfriend are close. I practically live at his house. Though we've never showered together. He wants to and I'm nervous. I feel like my flaws and things I'm insecure about on my body will be more visible. I'm worried what will be going through his mind. Guys, when you're showering with your girl, what exactly is going through your mind? Girls, how did you get over being nervous (If you were)?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • My ex and I asked to shower all the time it was one of my favorite things to do to get closer. We would hug and it kiss it was really nice. I have always been very insecure but if he is with you then I am sure that he will love it. You guys should try sex in the shower too. You should wash each other that can be really fun and get sexy. My ex before we showered together we were sleeping together so he already saw my body before that so I got over it I guess but I know just what you are talking about it is hard to be confident when you see so many flaws in your own body.

  • He'll only be thinking about the fact that you're in the shower with him. Everyone has flaws. You're his girlfriend, you live together, I'm sure he's seen you naked already. If you constantly worry about your body and insecurities then you're not going to enjoy the experience and more than likely he won't care about your "flaws" anyway.

  • Don't worry. Guys don't look at our bodies like we do. :) He won't be nitpicking at your flaws; he'll just be thinking how lucky he is to be showering with his girlfriend.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well you should expect him to be naked and want you to do the same. You can expect some warm water running from the shower head down onto your bodies. You can probably expect some soap or body wash to be on the side of the tub along with some shampoo. Also, I'd recommend having 2 towels ready and left outside the shower in order to dry off when you are done. I assume he only wants to shower with you to ensure that you clean yourself properly.

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  • He is your boyfriend. He thinks whatever perceived flaws you are insecure about are hot and sexy. Just don't hog all the hot water in the shower and don't jerk him off with soap.

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  • Don't be nervous. Its a great experience especially when you wash each other

  • Dont worry-it will be OK. I was nervous too then when I did it it was no big deal.

  • You guys are together and he already loves the way you look. Yo can expect a lot of hot steamy sexy times in that shower!

  • Have you two ever had sex or has he seen you naked?

    I don't think he'll be worried about your "flaws" he is going to more focused on what is going on at the time.

  • If you and your boyfriend love each other he isn't going to care about your "flaws" and "imperfections" no body is perfect physically or mentally so don't be nervous

  • I just recently started showering with my boyfriend. I wasn't ever nervous, it came natural for us. But it's normal to be nervous about putting yourself out there like that for him to see. But he's your boyfriend and he thinks your perfect.

  • well I am right there with the feeling insecure, what I do is that I set a romantic theme to it. I usually agree to it at night time and I turn candles on with the lights off and romantic music, bring in some good smelling body wash and big body sponges to lather each other with . That way there is till light but it is candle light and bubbles take care of the rest.

  • If he wants to shower with you, then you shouldn't be nervous. It's obvious he finds you attractive.