Girls' views on "femdom"? Female domination

[weewillie17cm]

Personally I like it both ways so in BDSM language I'm a "switch" When I was at school certain girls loved to dominate guys and I had experiences where I was the submissive one Since then I have only been in one relationship where we practiced BDSM and we sometimes roleplayed and explored our limits. It was fun and very fullfilling Since then I find most girls put off by such suggestions and through a search online I only seem to find professional Mistresses seeking payment for services. Something I could never agree to. For me it has to be mutual Most girls I talk to prefer to be submissive towards guys. I would like to meet a girl who enjoy such experience without financial reward. Does she exist?

[Buckwheat250]

I don't understand the need for the cruelty of femdom. Inflicting pain by whipping, "cock and ball" torture, forced chastity, humiliation, cuckolding and so on. In my view we need to call this what it really is - a getting together of sadists with masochists. These kinds of activities clearly do not belong in a loving female led relationship in any universe I inhabit yet these things are part of what many practitioners label as loving female led relationships. Now, it can be said that if both parties agree to the exchange, it could be seen as loving. Ok, I'll accept that. But whenever I look at this subject, virtually all of the literature and information tells me I have to be whipped and abused in a female led or D&S relationship. I absolutely reject that as a bunch of hooey. That said, I have no problem with the concept of an FLR. I was in one for two years - no spanking, no paddling, no humiliation, bondage or other such things, but she controlled the bedroom action and the finances. I worked, had stuff to do out of the home. I cleared it with her. I kept my clothes on. Did not have to crawl around and lick boots. Why does it seem that I have to accept abuse in order to have such a relationship in so many people's eyes? I don't get it.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is also into that. He got me into it a long time ago and I do not like being submissive one bit. Gets me angry, but I do it for him from time to time. I am a bit of a sadist by nature so I really enjoy it when he is submissive.

[subbihus]

My girl is like you :-)

[justbanANNAz]

yeh I agree with you lol, switching up the domination is hot:P

having one person dominate is just stupid, it should be about give and take so yeh a good mix up would b kool=]

[Bethany94]

I'm submissive with my boyfriend but if I got into another relationship with a guy who liked being submissive I would be on that.

[RoshRon]

Would you be interested?

[nothingtosee]

Interesting. I would love to hear your thoughts/fantasies on the subject. Meaning, what all would you make a guy do when you are calling the shots? Email if you want. I'm at yahoo dot com.

[anaspie]

Nothing sexier than than a dominant women

[nothingtosee]

I agree. Especially if she likes kinky sex.

[Anonymous]

I think I'm the same way, "a switch". Sometimes I think to be my boyfriend's bitch, and other times I like for him to take complete control of me. Sometimes I like it rough, other times gentle. I think a good variety is key.

[fun-weird-guy]

That is how me and my girlfriend are.