If your boyfriend gave you a STD, would you dump him?

My boyfriend says he was tested for stds, and that he hasn't been with anyone else since we first met. I was tested for everything on Monday, and they called and told me I tested positive for chlamydia. Should I dump him? It's obvious he's lying. There's no way to prove it, but I already have trust issues. His ex wife treated him badly, and his mission in life could just be to screw people's lives up. I'm 26, and I've never had a STD until now. My friend doesn't believe him and thinks I should jut end it. He says he's sorry, it's his fault, we'll get through it together, he having a bad day, etc. I don't know if I should feel bad and believe him, or leave him. I get tested with every new partner. My last partner was last year. I've been tested since then, an it was negative. I got it from him plain and simple.
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  • First off, good for you for being proactive and taking control of your sexual health. That's awesome.

    Secondly, I'm sorry to hear about your positive test. There's no away around it, so I'll just say...that blows.

    As for the guy, I'd dump him right away. He either lied about his sexual health when you guys entered the relationship, or he cheated during the relationship, contracted chlamydia, and spread it to you. That's 100% unforgivable and can't be tolerated.

    And again, sorry to hear about your positive test. I guess the silver lining was that you were proactive about it, and who knows what else you could have been subjected to if you didn't take action.

  • Yeah, if he gave you an STD, then it's really good idea to kick his ass to the curb, yes. Also I would advise spreading the word (covertly), so that others don't get infected. It's for the best. On the bright side, at least this one was just chlamydia. Which according to the internet, is easily cured, and you'll be alright. Nobody need be the wiser if you don't want them to be. So at least there's that.

    But yeah, you should dump him.

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  • wait! wait! wait! chlamydia is a silent decease. how long u've been together? bcoz this decease will show up after 2-3 years. you can't see any symptoms. but once its getting worst you can tell to your body that there is something wrong. you went to the doctor did they explain everything about this? as in everything. or you just listen and never ask.

    • i know STD is really not good for anyone, and I can't say your boyfriend cheated on you bcoz I wasn't in his shoe. and I know your freaking out about this matter. but before you dump him. try to research about this decease. you said your last relationship was last yr.so you been with your boyfriend not that long. he might telling you the truth.he got it without knowing his carrying it.

    • He told me he was tested about a month before we met. If that's true, and he hasn't slept with anyone else, then how else could he have gotten it?

    • hmmmm.. it could possible he did went to the doctor and didn't found out.. but male, they have a chances that they can't see it straight away.compare to female. even to u.. when you tested it could possible they won't see it till it worst. ask him which clinic did he went, then see for yourself ask the record.

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  • the f*** would you stay with him for? you already know the answer! you can do better. you're lucky he didn't give you HIV. this you can get rid of, stay with him and the next time you might not be so lucky. get out now!

  • That's pretty disgusting how someone can transfer a lifelong disease to you knowingly and just not give a f***. Hell yeah I'd dump him!

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  • yes you should dump him!

  • No Duh

  • girl dump that a**hole ! NOW

  • If he admits and apologize,then forgive him & be more careful and take a treatment for the std..but if he doesn't,then it seems that he probably doesn't care about how you feel,which means you should dump him...

  • Tots dump him. That's what you get for f*** ing trailer trash losers LMFAO!

    • Gee thanks! He really does live in a trailer

  • Dump his sorry a$$

  • STD is never good news

  • Dump him.