Why is he jealous of my "toys"?

I enjoy using sex toys by myself as well as with my boyfriend. I cannot orgasm without the clitoral stimulation that the bullet provides. My boyfriend is cool with using it together but gets jealous when I use them by myself. It is no different than him pleasuring himself ...What is the deal?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • He doesn't like thinking that something else can turn you on. He wants to be the only one. So he is pretty much jealous of you. My ex was the same way. My friends played a joke on me and trashed my room and left vibrators all over and he flipped out, he was so mad at me. I don't get it. It's stupid. Don't ever let him force you to stop doing it though. My ex did. I didn't masturbate for four years. The longer I didn't do it the harder it was for him to make me orgasm.

  • Seeing the comments below, it's fine if he wants to see you use it or you use it together, but whether people want to accept it or not, people do still continue to masturbate on their own even when they are in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with it.

  • He probably thinks that he can't please you as good ass your toys & that's why he is jealous of them.

Most Helpful Guys

  • he probably thinks you are getting more pleasure from you toys than you are getting from him. he's insecure and you should let him know he's better than the toys could ever be...even if that is a COMPLETE lie, you need to support your man and give him confidence!

  • Just some insecurity on his part. He is the one that is insecure, let him deal with it.

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  • Your man is a fool.

  • he's a moron. immature or just not understanding it. so tell him to get over it and ur going to enjoy yourself with or without him. its easy.

  • He wants to please you but he knows he can't please you more than the toys, which would bother anyone that I can think of.

  • its a toy and your saying there's no difference...and he's a human.. your boyfriend... and he also might think you get off better with the toys...and maybe you 2 don't do it a lot and you do it more by your self so he gets jealous about that?

  • Maybe he thinks he isn't good enuff and he is jealous that the sex toys are doing better progress than he was he wants you just for himself maybe he thinks when you use the sex toys he won't be getting any just from a guys point of view.

  • He wants to see you do it... Is there anything that bad about it?

  • He is jealous because the toy pleases you more..than he does...and you should allow yourself to be pleasured by yourself

  • He wants to share the experiences!

  • He's insecure.

    Girls are the same way, most famously about their guys watching porn.