Guys how picky are you about blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend has stated from the beginning that it's really difficult for him to cum. He's been a little demanding/needy about sex positions. IE he can only come doggie style. I've never gotten him to come with a blowjob. However, I love giving blowjobs and EVERY other guy I've been with has told me that I was the best. (And they would say this after we were broken up too). I like sucking penis. I get so excited and will kiss, lick, swallow, and just go to town on that thing. So we can't have sex for a bit right now because I'm on some medication. So he wanted a blow job tonight. I started going down on him and he basically stopped me to instruct me what to do. Which for him was going up and down ONLY and at this very steady pace. I understand that people have their likes and dislikes with sex. Like-I like tongue flicking on the clit, and I don't like vagina licking. But to be that picky-I don't understand. Don't guys like it when a girl is excited to be sucking them. Do you really want to control every bit of it?

[Anonymous]

I have to put in a personal experience.

When an ex used to give me a blow job she would always focus a lot on the tip, licking it. That actually made me have to pee and I couldn't climax because I was clinching my bladder. The one time I decided to relax she got a mouth full of urine... I know.

Another girl I had sex with was able to deep throat which was waaaay better to me. I didn't get that peeing urge and could just relax and orgasm.

Of course I don't expect every girl to just deep throat like a pro so I'm happy with some foreplay blowing and orgasm at another point during sex. But if the next one is a tip licker again I'll have to tell her not to...

Just saying, maybe your guy is protecting you rather than spoiling himself. Good luck with it!

[Anonymous]

Jezzus! Your approach to giving head sounds like HEAVEN! lol! I'd freaking LOVE that! Anyway, I'd say you should do what you want for awhile and as long as he's staying hard, you're fine. Then when you're ready to bring him to a gushing conclusion, switch over to what he likes that makes him blow. By doing it this way, your technique should REALLY ratchet up the pressure in his balls so that they're a giant knot of sexual tension which you then cause to explode by giong into the steady up and down that triggers his orgasm.

[Paullus]

Not picky at all. Weird question :P

[DodgersGM]

I'll take enthusiasm over personalized technique all day, every day. There's just nothing better.

[MeHigh]

Don't you like it when a boy is excited to be licking you ? it seems not, because you want you clit licked , not your vag. The same is with him. Accept that you are not the queen of oral sex yet and get better.

[dolfan13]

Im not picky, I appreciate the whole thing.

[jmurk]

I have requirements for blow jobs. She has to be able to do it with no hands and she has to enjoy swallowing. If not I don't want it.

[xXxAx3LxXx]

Picky? Not at all, I'm just grateful to have a gorgeous girl on her knees pleasuring me. that is more than enough satisfaction to me. Now if she wants to improve her "Technique" I could definitely point out some hints, there's always room for improvement. ;)

[Anonymous]

Stop having any sex including Blow jobs for a few weeks (Cut him off), I guarantee he’ll be more open and appreciative to any sex YOU desire to have with him

That thought of you have to do everything just to please him and you get nothing in return is absurd. Sex is not just for him, it's for your enjoyment too.

[Anonymous]

I can find a lot of oral sex very pleasurable, but only some things can lead me to an orgasm. Licking just the tip? Fantastic feeling. Closer to orgasm? Not at all.

If you love sucking him so much, and he wants you to do this one thing, ask him, "Let me play with you for a bit, and then we'll see about that orgasm." Maybe he'll enjoy that :)

[Anonymous]

I'm going to be honest here. Not all blowjobs feel great. I personally need some hand action before she even starts licking. Only then should she take it in her mouth.

[Anonymous]

Not very picky at all. Obviously I have likes and dislikes, but I'm not going to tell a girl what to do and risk offending her. The only deal-breaker is using your teeth.