My boyfriend has a small penis but how can I make him feel good?

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(well I think its small because its smaller than my last bf's, or just smallER). Anyways, I don't want him to feel insecure or whatever so what can I do / say that will make him feel good and make him feel like he has a HUGE penis. like ShouldI just say that he's huge when we are fooling around ? The thing is, he probably knows its not big so would he think I'm lying just to make him feel good. I am very inexperienced so I COULD get away with it :PSo yeah guys what can I do to make him feel well endowed when he really isn't?! :)

Gone_But_Not_Lost · Accepted Answer

I don't mean any offence by this, but you are a virgin, right? How do you really know for sure he's small? How big was your last boyfriend? Did you actually measure it? Does he think it's small, or just you? Any idea how big it actually is? if you can answer these questions for me, I can give you better advice.

In the meantime, I will start by telling you, that as a guy, speaking from experience, I don't like when a girl goes on about how huge my penis is. I don't think my penis is huge. I think it's maybe on the larger side of average, but still a pretty average penis, nonetheless. I'm totally aware of my size.

Now, whenever my girlfriend (any of them, past or present) goes on about how she thinks my "dick is so BIG!" or how my "dick feels HUGE!" it takes me out of the moment. It takes me right out of it, because all of a sudden, I feel like she's pandering to me. Like she's giving me pity, or humouring me. Maybe she thinks she's turning me on, or making me feel good about myself, but no, it totally kills the mood. Sometimes it actually ticks me right off. I hate being lied to. I hate being pitied. I don't need charity. It just bothers the hell out of me.

So I would not recommend lying to him to boost his ego. There's a chance it might go the opposite way, and just turn him off. Nobody wants that. Nobody wants to feel like you're pandering or patronizing. So don't do that. Not worth the risk. It could make him feel worse. Heck, I don't even know if he feels bad yet. It might get him started. Do you want that?

If he feels bad about it at all, don't jump right to "It's so big" or any of that nonsense. Just be average about it. Say it's a good size. Tell him you like his penis. Tell him you like the shape. Tell him about how it turns you on. I don't know. Compliment it, but don't go too in-depth about size. Don't make him feel like it's small, but don't try to make him feel like it's huge either. You don't want to oversell it and clue him in that there might be a problem. Just let him know you like what he has, and avoid size as much as possible.

I think that's the best way to go about this.

(Remember: If you answer my questions, I might be able to give even better advice)

Longshot · Accepted Answer

He knows his size. I am slightly below average or maybe just at average and I wouldn't want anyone to tell me I am huge. I would know they were lying and furthermore it's never made a difference in my sex life.

Telling him how wonderful he is will go a lot further.

toulouse · Accepted Answer

dont lie to him is inaulrting and hell just feel patronized. if its not huge hell know this and you saying its huge will be annoying.

dont mention it just appreciate and enjoy the penis he does have. love the the sex and make sure he feels wanted and like you feel wanted. don't make an issue out of it.

itd be like telling a guy woth acne you love his smooth skin.either you're lying or delusional. neitherisa comfort. but if you show him how attracted to him you are itll make him fee like it doesn't matter.

if you mention he's big hell fixate and continue to think how youd deep din prefer he was big. it won't help it will harm. . he needs to feel wanted for what he is not for what he thinks you wish he was.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He knows his d*** isn't big and if you act like a small thing is king kong he'll know you're lying. That's like if the genders was switched and a guy was asking how can he make his A cup having girlfriend feel like she has big knockers. You can't because they dont. Just make noises and moan and act like you're enjoying it

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

no, if you say it's huge he will think you are full of sh*t. Just play with it a lot and tell him how hot he is and how good he makes you feel. Focus on HIM more than the penis it self.

MrOracle · Answer

Like most people said, don't lie or exaggerate. He knows the relative size of his penis, so you aren't going to fool him by telling him it's huge.

Instead, focus on the positives. Tell him how much you like it, how much you want it, and how good it feels and makes you feel (assuming all of that is true for you). Those are the things that are going to make him feel GOOD, and doesn't have anything to do with size.

Peter0 · Answer

Lots and lots of oral sex. All the way. Lick his balls, if he likes it (and you like it). Tell him you're glad you can give him such pleasure.

Tell him you love the feel of him inside you when you're having sex.

Offer to try anal sex.

But don't try and lie to him. Just don't bring up size! (or if he does, tell him you're glad it fits in your mouth)

sexyasianboi26 · Answer

How small is his penis?

Give us a ball park, can you grab it fully with your hands? or can you grab it with your hands and its half way full because that's too small imo.

I suggest you buy him toys to use it on you :).

Arrowdynamics · Answer

It sounds like it's more of a problem to you than him.  Has he ever mentioned his penis size as an issue to you? How do you know he insecure. He doesn't know how big your last boy's d*** is unless you brought it up. If he hasn't mentioned his d*** size to you why would you mention his d*** size to him. If I got a big d*** I know it, if he has a small d*** he know it. If you plan on sticking with him don't mention his size  to him, or fake moan, or squirm or any of that other silly shyt. I can either except it for what it is or go find another guy.

Cromartie · Answer

Okay, don't. Lying is the dumbest sh*t you can do to boost an ego. Just don't.

"Good intentions, Greater Cruelty" is all that comes to mind; this isn't a child and in the case of a child telling them that they are amazingly strong because they can hold their bowl steady is really quite demeaning. He knows about his own penis.

Faking pain. Trying to cloud the subject. Falsified Ego boosting. Those are just primary ways to make something bad, worse.

jdfarmer · Answer

SIZE IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER!  Years ago my former girlfriend thought  I was on the smaller end of size, I'm 8" long and 6  1/4" in girth,  obviously her former boyfriend was larger than me. it wasn't until my next relationship, that my girlfriend thought I was on the larger end of size. I've always thought I was average, so it's really in the eyes of the beholder.  My guess is your current boyfriend is close to my size and your former boyfriend is on the large end of size. if you have A verbally open relationship, you can discuss the size, as long as you both understand its in the eyes of the beholder. Besides its what a man can do with that counts. If you don't have an verbally open relationship than you both need to work on that before you ever discuss penis size. Hope that helps you out!

1inmillion · Answer

I would just smile and moan a lot and squirm around.

Tellme · Answer

I suggest you don't say anything about his size. Rather say what you like in his penis and what you find amazing about it. Does he have a protruding mushroom head? Does he get very hard? Is his skin very smooth down there? Something like that. :)

texflyer · Answer

To make him feel like he has a huge penis.. let him stick in your anus

Anonymous · Answer

Don't lie or exaggerate to him, because he will notice. Just tell him how good his d*** feels when it's inside of you, or when you're giving him a blowjob, kind of gag a little bit so he'll think he's pretty big lol.

Anonymous · Answer

How can you make him feel good?  Suck on it!

Anonymous · Answer

If it is long enough to penetrate and do not slip out during movements - you or he need not to worry. Ultimately it is togetherness an enjoyment you are getting through it. Do not compare with your previous experience and do not ask him about how he was doing with his past Girlfriend - if any. You can apply some herbal oils and stimulate him to enlarge to some extent.

Anonymous · Answer

nothing just fake it and try to do a good job with the lie say you still enjoy it but don't go into the size issue

Anonymous · Answer

It's best you find a new guy. You're never going to be satisfied knowing that you could be more satisfied by a bigger guy out there. The thought will forever be in the back of your mind. It's one thing if your ex was bigger than average. It's another thing if the new guy is much smaller than average.

Anonymous · Answer

my best advice is don't discuss it at all. If you discuss his penis its going to reflect on your having had a lot of prior experience which no guy wants to hear even if its true. if you can have satisfying sex with him and you want to stay with him just do that and don't talk about it. If you are giving him oral however you can say "I love your penis!" That doesn't talk about how big it is  It just talks about how you like it.

Anonymous · Answer

You are a good woman with a big heart.  I wish more were like you! Tell him to go slow when he first puts it in because it hurts. ;)

Anonymous · Answer

ugh...He's probably average too and gets this kind of question about him. Don't go on about how huge it is. He'll probably see through that. Just pop it in your mouth.

Anonymous · Answer

He will know you're lying, say something like '' You have a nice penis.''

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