so you want to know how long you cna have your cake and eat it do?
it seems to me when you decide that the guy you are currently seeing is someone you want to really give a shot then out of fairness to you, yourself and your ex you need to put a stop to the casual sex. another question to ask is would the guy you were with be angry if he knew you were having casual sex with someone else?
i guess you could say when you two decide to be exclusive is the point where you should stop... my current girlfriend and I had been on three dates. two dates from that point she would tell me she loved me (I know quick). but after the first three she went on vacation and hooked up with some random dude while in Domincan Republic. she hid it from me but eventually I sort of sniffed it out. I was pretty pissed off. not because we were exclusive but because she felt like she had to hide it.
i think that is the best indication. if you tell the guy you are dating that you are having casual sex how is he going to react.0 0 0 0I don't know what to think but I wouldn't be at all interested in pursuing a relationship with a girl if she was still having sex with her ex boyfriend . that just be a little bit too much for me to deal with and lead me to think she was more into him than me .
if your interested in finding a new relationship with a new guy , you need to drop the ex and move on0 0 0 0
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If your not in a relationship with this guy - then its not cheating, but its not exactly the best way to start a relationship either - unless your being honest with him.
Does he know your having sex with your ex? I guess a more discreet way of putting it is - have you told him that your 'dating' other people? Is he 'dating' other people? Would you be jealous or upset if he is? So long as your being honest with him and he's OK with that then I think it would be fine. But I doubt he'll be OK with that.
Your not committed to each other so no harm no foul, your just having fun, you don't want to be in a committed relationship, which implies you intend to keep having sex with your ex regardless so are you just using the other guy for dates and fun or do you actually like him?
Ultimately its your body and it's your choice who you want to have sex with or not as the case may be so long as your not hurting anyone but you need to be honest and give this guy a chance to make his own choices.0 0 0 0
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0 6Kind of defeats the purpose of breaking up if you're still going to f*** on the regular.
How, exactly, are either of you supposed to move on properly if you're still screwing?0 0 0 0No.
I suspect he'll dump you if he finds out though. You're not a cheater. Its just you're having casual sex with one guy while not being 'ready' to have sex with him.
How many guys have you actually had sex with before?0 0 0 0I've only had sex with three other guys and I am 25 years old. Two of the other guys were boyfriends the third was just a fling that I had with a friend in his pool when we were in high school.
I'm wondering if your ex is so great or the other couple were just not knowing what they were doing.
Not really. You don't have any obligation to be monogamous to this new guy. You do have an obligation to inform him that you are not being monogamous with this new guy when you head closer to the path of having sex.
He should probably know that you're banging your ex while seeing him so he can know that you will likely cheat on him with that ex should he commit to you.1 1 0 0Agreed.
Well if you've not found anybody else and you're still having sex with your ex then you're still in a relationship with your ex quit having sex with your ex and into relationship then you then will be officially broke up but if you keep on having sex with your ex you're technically still with your ex
0 0 0 0Of course it is cheating. how would you feel if he was still having sex with his ex?
0 0 0 0and I was the first girl that would willingly let him finish in my mouth" Oh what a prize! Wow...
Not technically. I mean, the new guy might get a little pissed if he found out. Who knows?
But what a great little story to tell if you ever have a long term relationship with that guy.0 0 0 0Thanks for your answer were you being sarcastic about letting him finish in my mouth? He just really enjoys that so I do it for him pretty much every night
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