My boyfriend is more experienced than me, any advice?

[Anonymous]

I'm currently in a relationship and have been for the past 3 months. My boyfriend is deployed right now, so we haven't seen each other in a while. We haven't had sex, but I know it'll happen when he gets home. I've only been with one guy, my ex. My current boyfriend has been with numerous partners so he's very experienced. I'm worried that I'm not going to be good enough for him in bed. I don't want to disappoint him, but his sexual count really intimidates me. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

What the other annony girl said. If you get around you're likely to have the same type of sex (doggy, missionary or cowgirl) and it's ussually very meaningless. When you're in a relationship you experiment and you're a lot better at sex than someone who's just been around. As for being worried, if he's a good boyfriend your first time together he should focus on you and getting you off and making it feel special, so your experience shouldn't matter at all. If he just goes off pounding you on the first time... well, you might as well find a new boyfriend cause this one's all about himself.

[Opinion Owner]

thanks, have fun

[Anonymous]

People who've had lots of sex in relationships are generally better in bed than those who've been with a ton of people. Don't be worried. Even if he is loads more experienced you can always learn from him. Which can be fun. Even when sex is bad it's great.

[Asker]

Yeah, that's a good point. Thanks!

[1inmillion]

You can gain a lot of "experience" with me.