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I am thinking about having sex for money?

I am 20 years old girl without money, I worked in KFC but salary is not enough for paying for a flat, food, studies.. And there is no other job for me. My parents live in village and they don't have money, I have 4 siblings also, so they won't help me with money! I am thinking about having sex for money. I gave ad in internet and already men interested in sex wrote to me, I expected they will propose more money... so I wouldn't have to do it many times to earn what I want, but still doing if few times I will earn a lot.. I know you are going to tell me to not do it, but you have never been in situation like me, I am sure you have better situation, parents support.. I am desperated, I want to go to university and I badly need money , and I want to use protection of course Is here someone who did it? How was it? can you give me any advice?
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Thank you for all opinions, I decided that I won't do it.. I will sell something or strip on webcam, I hope that way I will get money I need, I will try
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Try a free site like this link

    Even then don't just go for the first offer or just any man. Make sure they are trustworthy, make sure they have the money, and make sure you feel comfortable with doing this. I can't stress enough how important that is. I'd hate for anything to happen to you over this. There are sick people out there. Especially if they are going to pay for sex. At least with a sugar daddy you have a chance at meeting someone who is just too busy for a relationship and they may actually have the money.

    I have not done this but I know people who have through the site I linked.

    If I were in your situation I would consider this. Honestly.

    Just be safe, use protection, and again make sure you are 100% up for it. You don't want regrets down the road.

  • Do ou have a webcam? You could try being a cam dominatrix and have submissive guys send money to you. You can seriousky rake in the cash especially if you're good and the same guys keep coming back to you. The best part is that it is all online and you don't have to have sex with anyone. They just send money orders to you and whatnot. Also no STD's and no risk of being with a crazy a**hole.

  • Do not jump into it - think not twice - hundred times before doing this for money. Try to find out something from your community or school for scholarships, financial aide, or low interest student loans. Sex for money is never considered a good idea and it will never be a good thing for a girl.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would not have supported live prostitution because of its many dangers. However Interactive play in front of a webcam has its possibilities. You would want to make yourself as attractive as possible and concern yourself with a high resolution cam, lighting and setting. I would suggest that you go into the internet and look at amateur female solo video. This will help you to see and know what men like and how to make it look as appealing as possible. We will like zoom-in closeups, fluids and body reactions. You would want to have a broader menu than amateurs on Omegle including a variety of toys, peeing, sounding, Kegel-gaping, ansl insertions and other kinks. Set yourself up to take requests and be coached by text and, of course, find a guaranteed way to get paid.

  • Selling yourself for money is said Prostitution. It is never considered a good job, psychologist suggest to visit prostitute occasionally as a part of treatment. Your financial situations are driving you for it. When you are compelled to do it - you are victim of circumstances. Do it to fulfill your actual needs - use all possible protections and never trust who is coming to purchase sex from you. Do not allow yourself enjoying earning easy money, and expecting varieties of man for sexual desires only. Keep in mind that no body will behave nice with you for this, most people will dislike you knowing you are in this business. you may regret doing this in future - might be because you have chosen this for unknown reasons.

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  • Thank you for changing your mind. This is a good news from this site for the first time for me.

  • Ask yourself if money is worth the stds, degradation, possible violence from johns and pimps.

    No one can tell you what to do.

    But wouldn't it be better to give up studies until you can afford them?

  • There are auditions to do P*rn with James Deen . I think that if you are going to have sex for money they should at least be hot, and James Deen is really hot and knows what he is doing

  • Would you be interested in a Online sugar daddy im willing to give cash, buy gifts or pay bills for you.

  • My advice is, don't be a whore because you'll regret it later more than you will being a little broke

  • You could be a cam girl and that way you do not have to actually have sex. There are different websites you can join. The guys will pay you money for taking your clothes off on webcam and playing with yourself.

  • If you're gonna go that route, why not strip on webcams where its safe or do p*rn where the actors are tested for STDs

  • lets be friends so we can message

    • So do you work on porn site or you are web cam user?

  • Gurl get a sugar daddy

    • this is the best answer so far

    • your right... its the same but instead of 4 men a day your just having to pleasure one and I will say that 98% of men have seriously considered called a escort on one of those lonely nights, but like I did was have the "Balls" to call then once she's out at my place in lingerie expecting me to ravage her I couldn't... wasted $250 to talk to some chick that had zero respect for herself, umm I would not marry a former escort... sure most men would agree

    • There is more to life than marriage

  • you can't enter to p*rn movies, for amateurs

  • go for it. it's your body, and it's a quick way to get easy money

  • You can still do it, don't let jealous bitches tell you its degrading. I also have a sh*tty job, and wish I could make money that easy

    as long as you screen people, if you are OK looking

  • I don't know if stripping on webcam is a good idea guys might be disrespectful to you.

  • I have no direct experience but I can tell you a few things. First: you'll hate it, it will be very very unpleasant and you'll feel disgusted with yourself the first few times. I'm telling you this because if you feel like it's not enough already, regardless the amount of money afterward it will feel like it wasn't enough. So, don't let them set the price, you ask for what you want. Also, set the ground rules before hand. A guy who pays, let say, $300 for having sex with you, will expect having the kind of sex he wants. I.e.: anal sex, unprotected oral sex, maybe cumming in your mouth, and he'll want you to "look OK with it". No ugly faces nor complains. Also, some guys can get violent if they don't get what they think they paid for, so you better set ground rules.

    Say, $300 for this and this and nothing else. Don't take anyone who doesn't agree to your ground rules (and pays) beforehand. Even if that means less clients, it's not worth it.

    • well I did it, and I will never ever do again.. I really regret. I was very lucky anyway, I got a man who paid me 300 $ because I decided to follow your advice, and I didn't have to do anal sex, even I didn't have to do oral, we didn't kiss on lips and anything.. it was just normal sex , he lasted few minutes only luckily.. and he behaved nice, wasn't rude or anything.. I'm sure he could see that I am stressed and that I don't like it anyway..

    • He touched me a lot anyway, and after coming home I took very long bath. but still I feel dirty.. I didn't think it will be so bad experience , really how lucky I was that he didn't force me to oral sex, I feel really bad with this what happened and I am sure I'll never do it again..

    • I'm really sorry. Now you now, there's no such thing as easy money. You'all feel better after a while, don't beat yourself over it. I hope you figure out a way out of your situation. My sympathies.

  • If you are thinking of doing this, and you think you have problems now, wait for the problems your going to get if you go through with it is all I have to say.

  • You are sitting on a Gold Mine – Always use protection

  • Try some strip clubs. no STD. One of my friend she worked in a club so that she was able to pay her tution fee.

  • Nobody becomes a prostitute because they want to. It is always desparate financial situations that drive women to these things. When you feel compelled to do it, and not because you want to or because you enjoy it, that makes you a victim. Yep, a victim of economics, but a victim none the less.

    Do not allow yourself to become a victim. This isn't good for you. You should have sex on your terms, not because you need to eat. You are better off doing nude photography, which pays well and does not require any sexual acts. You can think of it is as paid modeling. But if it requires sexual acts, it is no longer art or modeling, and enters the realm of p*rn and prostitution; stay away from this. Do not even work with anyone who asks you to.

    There are good studios that will shoot you without any of that kind of preassure and pay well. Hopefully you can get a job and avoid both, but don't stoop to sex.

    Good luck.

  • Look for scholarships, grants, financial aide, and student loans. That's what most people do.

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