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Why does my boyfriend never want to finish in my mouth?

My boyfriend and I are both 25 and we moved in together right after college. We have been dating about two years now and are both very sexually active with one another. Our whole relationship he knows that he is allowed to finish inside of my mouth but never chooses to do so, I know with past boyfriends it was like their most favorite thing to do and did all of the time. My boyfriend now never even asked me to do it there has been a few times where I have just made him do it in situations like when he cannot pull out because he is sitting down or like the 69 position. Even when he tells me to pull out and let him go on my boobs or butt I just make him finishing my mouth anyway. When he doesn't he acts like he really enjoys it and that's why I can't figure out why he never asked me to do it. Whenever I leave him in control he always finishes on my boobs or on my butt but never asked to put it in my mouth. I really do enjoy it and I wish he would more often but I guess it's not that big of deal I just don't understand his reasoning behind it, I've always been told I do a good job with the oral sex department and I don't use my teeth or anything I guess it's just not a fantasy of his like it was with my exes. Does anyone know why he would not want to I thought most guys really enjoyed that? I don't know maybe he has had a bad experience with it once before. I even offer to let him give me facials and he has a couple of times but not very often at all. Does anybody have any clues?
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  • perhaps he prefers ejaculating on your body. perhaps it's a respect thing. I remember reading a story about a 1st generation italian mobster (which I then heard in a few mob movies) that they won't finish in their wives mouths because that is teh same mouth that kisses their children.

    i frankly would just ask him. you could say, "where do you want to _______?" and then mention taht you thought most guys like to finish in a girls mouth. I doubt he'd be offended if you asked and since it seems to be something you think about I don't think it could hurt to bring it up

  • A few things can be going on...

    1. he respects you..

    2. He may like to kiss you after but is afraid he may taste his own.

    3. he may have tasted his own on purpose and did not like it and does not want to subject you to that.. a bad memory..

    4. one of his exes may have told him he tastes so bad and does not want to come in your mouth.. Ask him

    • Any one of these could very well be the reason. It could also be that he just enjoys what he normally does more. Different people like different things...

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  • Probably just likes shooting his load on your body, but maybe cumming on your face is a bit too degrading for him.

    Ever wonder why every single p*rno ever finishes with a cumshot?

  • He's just vanilla. Plain and simple

  • i have no idea. coming in a woman's mouth is the BEST feeling in the world, better than sex IMHO

  • It's simply not his thing, as it isn't mine I'd rather come inside her butt, on it or on her breasts.

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