Why do people think the more promiscuous a woman has the looser her vagina?

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You hear the 'size doesn't matter' but you don't hear 'vagina width doesn't matter'. Penises come in all shapes and sizes but the vaginal canal is apparently one size. Do people know every vaginal canal is different? Even guys say that they've f***ed sluts with a really tight p**** and have came across looser virgins. The vagina is made of elastic muscles that return back to it's original shape like a rubber band. Childbirth is what makes a vagina loose and it's easy to see why. Grapefruit sized head through a quarter sized hole, stretching to the extreme. Unless some guy has a defect no male human penis can be that wide. And some guys even accuse their girlfriends of cheating because they feel 'looser' than when they first had sex. This is ridiculous because when a woman gets more comfortable and aroused by her partner her vagina will expand for penetration.  And what I find most interesting that if a woman has sex multiple times with one guy it will be considered still tight. But if a woman has the same amount of sex with different guys she is somehow loose. Any answers of why people are ignorant of this?!

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

No, of course not. Promiscuity has nothing to do with vaginal looseness.

Think about it this way: why would it make any difference if a girl had sex with the same guy every day for 10 years, or if a girl had sex with a different guy every day for 10 years? The amount of sex is the same either way, even though the first girl only had one partner while the second girl had 3,650 partners.

The fact is that vaginas come in different sizes just like every other body part, and it's very possible for a virgin girl to have a big/loose vagina, and for a very experienced girl to have a small/tight one.

As you pointed out, trauma will loosen a vagina, because it will tear the muscles that keep it tight. Childbirth is the obvious example, but inserting large objects (fists, soda cans, huge dildos, etc.) can cause muscle tearing too. But even that has little to do with promiscuity.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well... FWIW, I do know. Also, with age the vagina gets looser. You can exercise the pelvic floor muscles but after 35... there's not much you can do.

If you're worried about the generalized ignorance about anatomy and sexuality, this is not the only topic. Things like smell, labia shapes, the myths about the two types of orgasms, the hymen and virginity... There's a serious lack of sexual education and most people get their knowledge on the subject from what other people say, what did you expect? :-(

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's because the vagina is a muscle and the more you stretch it, the less elastic it becomes.

The idea didn't just come from nowhere. On occassion, you'll find a promiscuous girl with a tight vagina, but usually the more promiscuous you are, the more different sizes of penises you've had in you, the less elastic your vagina becomes. Why do you think women always say "My vagina just isn't the same after childbirth"?

One of my very best friends is extremely promiscuous and she even admitted to me that her vagina has gotten significantly looser. She said it's so loose now that she's developed a preferance for black men because she doesn't want to risk the chance of getting a non-black guy with a smaller penis and not being able to feel it.

confugirl · Accepted Answer

Because they're stupid. Most people still think that vagina is a tube of loose skin. They don't realize that it's a wall of muscles. So they think that once you stretch it, it will only get wider and looser. Never underestimate the power of stupidity. It's the same reason why people, even women, think that a hymen covers the vagina completely.

bubbletrouble · Accepted Answer

I don't know where that ignorant statement came from but women that are in relationships have sex more than women into casual sex. That's obvious. So wouldn't that mean women in relationships have looser vaginas?

I bet some loser that can't get laid made that ignorant statement up.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Every guy I have ever been with couldn't believe how tight I was. I am 47 and a few of these guys were I there 30s. They told me I was the tightest that I had ever been with. Even more than some girls in their 20s. I also do kegal exercises.

rabbit3891 · Answer

Yes that's what I'm always saying. What is the difference in a woman have sex 10 times with one man, and a woman having sex 10 times with a different man each time? For some reason most men have a problem with a woman that has had experience with more men, and women love to talk smack about each other, so I think that's where that stems from.

Paullus · Answer

Because people are stupid.

G_GTom · Answer

I wouldn't say it's more sex she has, but genetics. Some women have more vaginal capacity than others and they need a larger penis than other women to be satisfied. Being an average guy, why on earth would I want such a woman?

So, no, I don't believe they get looser, but, at the same time, I don't want a woman who is genetically built to have that much capacity.

ERB62 · Answer

You can tell the girl your with is a slut or whore if you almost fall in her coo h8ethr first time you have sex with her

Anonymous · Answer

People are stupid. Studies how have shown women in relationships have sex more than women into casual sex. So, if she's screwing the same dude alot, would her p*ssy get big? Of course not. People are stupid.

Anonymous · Answer

guys just say that as a kind of revenge because they're mad because they have been told they have a small penis. so they try to make women feel bad for having a "loose vagina." really its just them being insecure.

Anonymous · Answer

People are just stupid. If a girl is in a sexual relationship she would be having more sex than a promiscuous girl anyway so she would be looser if anything If people went by that stupid theory lol. There will always be stupid people

Anonymous · Answer

'Any answers of why people are ignorant of this?!' You keep wearing the same socks eventually the socks will become looser. You do yoga every day eventually you become more flexible. etc etc

Anonymous · Answer

I have known women that admitted they have seen how small a guys penis is and started laughing in his face before. A guy can't just look down and see that a woman is really loose. So it is more obvious that guys come in different sizes. So anyone can tell, including other guys in the locker room.

Most guys would rather have bad sex than no sex so don't want to bring it up and lose their chance of getting sex with her again. Even if a guy did bring it up, the woman could just accuse the guy of being small, and since most guys are sensitive about that, guys don't want to put themselves in that position. So people just don't bring it up as often.

Why do people think the more promiscuous a woman has the looser her vagina?

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