not a lot out of billions doesn't mean not alot. it just means not a majority. I've never met a guy who valued a relationship not just the sex would wouldn't be patient if he knew sex was going to happen.
guys who won't be patient just won't be patient. not just sex. they want things togo the way they want and the minute it doesn't they drop it. you don't want that kind of guy. a patient person is a patient person regardless of what the patience is regarding.
i don't believe you can truly respect a person if you can nit be patient with them. soid never have a relationship with a guy who wasn't patient.
if you were with a why and I took him a year to feel comfortable hugging you would you dump him? if no then you should expect the same treatment from whoever you're with. if yes then you will be too understanding f guts not being understanding of u,and itll be had to feel good about your relationships, imo.
if yo really think you drserve time-u do- then d have to appreciate that in others.
anyways everyone deserves to come to things in there own time. so don't date a guy you think is even remotely impatient. you'll need a lot of patience. most guys on gag are sex starved.so don't worry if most say they won't wait.
kissing is no big deal. if you're genuinely attracted to the person its a cinch. you don't need to do anything special. just go with the flow. whoever doesn't know how just follows the other persons lead. you learn how to kiss after you do it once. that's it. way easier than learning to ride a bike. ;-)
I know I'm not a guy and you probably don't want to hear this answer, but I think that most guys won't be patient.
I'm a virgin and I also never kissed a guy . I know it's going to be super hard and almost impossible to find a guy who's willing to wait until I'm comfortable with sex.
It's sad, but it's the truth.
I know this is pretty much what I expect. it's so easy for a guy to get it from somewhere else. but we should stay hopeful, I hope we both find guys that will be patient.
Yes, when it comes to sex, their life is easier. I hope too, even though it's really hard.
You may never know if are able to find a guy who truly cares Im not willing to have sex with my boyfriend because of my values in life and I was brought up to think that you shouldn't have sex until marriage so far things are going good he is patient and we don't really bring it up but I tell people about my situation and they tell me no guy would wait for you now in days. What I believe is that if he isn't willing to wait then he is not worth my while.
It's normal for a guy to want things to keep progressing in a relationship but rushing you and making you feel bad about your experience is a red flag. There are a lot of "boys" out there that just enjoy the hunt and want a trophy. Any man worth your time though knows that even women that arnt virgins take longer than men to get revved up ;) if a guy can't be considerate with your first time then what makes you think he is going to treat you better once he has what he wants? Chances are the sex won't even be good anyways if he is in such a hurry (not that your first time will be perfect anyways) but you want someone who will care how you feel and be attentive enough to pick up on what you like. If he is just focused on himself, what feels good for him, and going at his pace then you are pretty much a hole to stick it in. People attach words like "I love you" "you were amazing" "beautiful" and all kinds of crap to the moment. If politicians have taught me anything though then its this: judge a person by their ACTIONS and not by their words. I'd wait as long as she needed if I really loved her.
Agreed.
Well most guys I know won't be too patient. Experienced guys who are up to speed may find it to be a drag taking things slow.
But if I found a girl that I liked and feel happy with, then I'll give her all the time she needs be it 2 months or 20 years.
so what if she doesn't how to kiss, would that put you off?
If she doesn't know but qshe's trying too hard to live up to some idea of kissing and it ain't working then yeah its a put off. if she doesn't know how but is smooth, simple, and genuine, then it'll actually be an interesting and beautiful experience in finding her sweet spot and rhythm.
when you say trying to hard, do you mean like making it a bigger deal than it is?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!So far I feel like I'm really patient with things like that. I'd even say 'patient' is a wrong word. If I feel the girl is worth my time, it means it's not just sex. Longest I did wait was ~7 months(not because I couldn't any longer, cause she was ready). Still, there were things before that. But was taking it slowly. 2 weeks before first kiss i.e.
I think it's not just me, and there are more guys like that, but 'we' are mainly sticking to our own small worlds, so might be hard to find ; )
Hard to find? lol try close to impossible. well hearing this has given me more hope so thank you for that :)
I just wouldn't commit until sex happened. I have dated without sex before and it was not a happy experience for me because the girls I meet who don't have sex with me always end up being way too insecure for me to date.
so sex before being in a relationship or dating?
That's how I have been approaching it. I basically just prefer to be friends and if it happens then I consider it. This why I'm not locked into being with someone who I am not compatible with. Plus it weeds out all the girl who are "afraid of being whores." I don't like those.
Personally I'd be very patient since I don't have sex high on my priority list... I know a lot of guys wouldn't be patient, but who cares what they think if that's what they truly care about.
I would be as patient as she wants, guiding her slowly. I get most satisfaction from seeing a satisfied girl
What is your age?
I'm 21
I'm 25, I recently lost my virginity 2 months ago at this age but I kinda still feel like a virgin because I didn't feel any physical pleasure really, well that's because I kept losing my erection, probably due to anxiety, it was with a friend with benefits
First time I'd expect to be nervous, so it's definitely not your fault.
It would be fine as long as she's cool with doing other things.
i would wait until she gets into the mood. Because if you really love her rushing for sex and get what you want might not be the best thing to do if she doesn't have an interest yet. I would be patient as long as she wants if I feel that she is the one for me and if I feel that she is not faking it
Depends. If she's being a virgin for moral or religious reasons, fine. If she's being a virgin because she's afraid of sex or immature and not wanting to be labeled, it'll be short lived.
what if it's for religious reasons and she's nervous about being intimate in general?
Sex is very important in relationships and I can't live with a bland sex life for eternity. I would respect her wishes and work to compromise as best I could with her
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