I have a butt fetish

[Anonymous]

So I'm a girl and I have a huge butt fetish. I just LOVE stroking, squeezing and rub my boyfriends butt. It's so LOVELY and I get so aroused by doing it! He doesn't really like it though, because he probably don't want me to put a finger up there cause he thinks its gay. I won't penetrate his butt hole if he don't want to but I just wanna play with it and squeeze it hard and finger/rub it. What can I do to make him less intimidate about it? I know you shouldn't push someone into doing things theyre not comfortable with but it's not like I will shove up my fingers there, just touch it, and besides, guys that have tried it ALL love it. So, what can I do to loosen him up a bit?

[Anonymous]

Well, if he thinks it's gay to have a "someone" play with his butt. Then it sounbds like he is religious. Get the Bible, turn to LEVITICUS 18:22 where it say's "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind". Then tell him that since your a woman, and I play with your butt, weather I stick a finger inside you or not, it is still not gay because only you lying with a man makes you gay. But if a woman does it, it's fine.

How is he going to feel in the future when he has to get prostate exams? He will grow out of it when he becomes a man. I wish my wife would play more with me back there.

[madhatters4]

try to find out if you can compromise. like you can rub and squeeze but perhaps certain things are off limits. it doesn't really matter what other guys like in terms of anal stimulation you obviously, and it seems you are aware of it, need to respect his own personal boundaries as you'd want him to respect yours.

i think if you explain what you are hoping for and then see what he is OK with then at least he would be comfortable with whatever is done as he knows there are boundaries you will not cross.

[StevenJohn]

good point.

[madhatters4]

like stevejohn said, remind him that there isn't anything gay about it. gay isn't about anal stimulation it's about sexual orientation. just because I (hypothetically) like pink shirts or like bette milder music doesn't make me gay... that said don't push too far with your desire as it will eventually turn him off

[Anonymous]

LOL booty fetishes are totally normal.

But don't go past his threshold . You might wan't to talk about it with him first. Suprise penetration isn't exactly hot.

[Anonymous]

i think you should just find somebody that does like it

[jlb03]

I would let you do most of what your saying. I love when a girl grabs my ass and pulls me into them while I'm on top or pulls my pants down and grabs my ass while they are giving me head. The fingering part is a hit or miss. Start by just touching the rim and then see how he reacts. As you guys get more into the sex just ease it in and see what happens. He may warm up it to it if you take your time and don't force the issue.

[StevenJohn]

Anyone that hasn't tried it is going to be a little intimidated by it. just remind him that you think its hot and there's nothing gay about a hot girl stimulating his prostate. It'll be the best orgasm he ever has if he can just loosen up and get rid of the macho "thats gay" bullsh*t.

[ladsin]

still gay though

[StevenJohn]

Whatever you say bro. Your opinion is just that, an opinion.

[Asker]

Are you serious ladsin? How does getting your ass touched by a girl/woman makes you attracted to men and penises? You are a f***ing idiot, just grow up.

[StevenJohn]

Lol thank you Anonymous Girl

[ladsin]

i didn't say if you like a girl touching your but it's gay. I posted above saying otherwise, he was talking about anal penetration (by a female) and I don't think it is literally homosexual but it is close (imo)

[Asker]

So you're basically saying that preforming anal sex on a girl also is homosexual because that's what homosexuals do?

[AustinMan]

Find you a butt man. We love out butts played with all kinds of ways.

[Stache]

Find some p*rn that shows what you'd like to do and show it to him while you're fooling around.

[ladsin]

lol a lot of girls grab my ass when I'm thrusting... I think it is pretty sexy but yeah I guess just start out slow like only grab back there a bit and then slowly start to do so more and more... (acclimation)

[yaddayaddayadda02]

play back there while you are blowing him. Give him a couple of drinks beforehand.

[Blueeyes300]

First, you need to get him to understand that playing with his anus, tonguing his anus or sticking your finger up his anus will not turn him from straight to gay. I would say to mix your ass play with play in other areas. While you are stroking his c*ck, work you way around to stroking his balls, then fondle his ass. Mix this with him fondling your breasts and moving on to your p*ssy. If he still has strong anxieties about it, you may have a tough decision ahead of you.

[lordaccess]

Only thing that touches my a**hole is a girl's tongue. On the general area around I don't mind whatever.