Why is my boyfriend always try to show me off and show my nude pictures to his friends?

[Anonymous]

Why would my boyfriend not want to keep my boobs and everything else for himself? He is constantly asking me to wear some shirts that have ridiculous amounts of cleavage so that other guys can look down my shirt. Some of the shirts he asked me to where would be equivalent to the amount of cleavage wearing only a push-up bra would cover for a girl with D cups. Hopefully that make sense to you... Sometimes I will wear things like that for him when we go out to dinner or on a date and sometimes I won't because I get tired of guys staring at my boobs, especially his friends they don't even try to hide it they walk up to me to give me a hug and look right down my shirt. My boyfriend and I were at the beach on Friday we found a secluded spot where nobody was I took my bikini off for him and let him take pictures of me posing on the beach and in the water completely naked. We took pictures for about 30 minutes and then saw someone walking down the beach so I quickly put my bikini back on. Yesterday my boyfriend had some friends over for football, I was going to stop by later after work to just pop in and say hi I wasn't going to stay because it was mainly just 4 guys watching football. I got there about two hours after everyone else when I came in my boyfriend had all of the pictures he had taken of me at the beach on a slideshow on his computer which wasn't plain sight of everyone. I asked him why my pictures were displaying on his computer while his friends were over, he said he didn't think it was that big of a deal. I asked him how long it had been on it he told me all day. Some of the pictures I took for him for very revealing( well they were all naked but some were closeups) i.e. bending over with my legs spread and me using my fingers inside of me while posing for him. I was embarrassed I told him to turn it off so he did. I hung out with them for about an hour and then I left I told him not to turn those pictures back on. I don't know if you did or not after I left but I guess it's in the past now. I did not get mad at him I just didn't understand why he would want to show those pictures to his friends. Do you guys get something out of showing off their girlfriends?

[shhhitsasecret]

I'm sure all guys like to show off their girlfriends to a certain extent. But the fact that he lets his friends see nude pictures of you is disrespectful. Those pictures should be for his eyes only. And if he really cared about you, he'd respect your privacy. I would've been furious with my boyfriend if he let his friends see nude pics of me. But most guys, at lest guys I know, wouldn't want their friends seeing that much of their girlfriend

[FairEnough]

Damn.. I would not be able to be with someone like that. I hope he asked you first if you would mind him showing your nude body to others. I'd dump him if I were you.

[Fireman456]

I personally like showing my friends pictures of the girl I'm dating but, those pictures are nothing like the ones your boyfriend has shown others. It appears to me this man doesn't respect you like he should. I would suggest you evaluate your expectations in the relationship and have a talk with him. If he is unable to respect the boundaries you set then you should go from there.

His behavior is disrespectful and shameful.

[thomasmore]

you should make sure all pics of you are deleted (computer, notebook, cell phone, tablet etc), then delete him from your life.

you don't want these pics to show up on his friends smartphones or even worse, the internet.

he doesn't respect you and your privacy,

[yopyopyop]

The answer is quite easy : your boyfriend is a complete jerk. Dump him.

[Cromartie]

"Do you guys get something out of showing off their girlfriends?" - > Yeah. Just not to that extent.

[Blueeyes300]

It's one thing to be proud of how pretty your girlfriend is and brag about her looks to your friends. It's disrespectful to you and your relationship to show his friends nude intimate pictures of you without your permission. If the relationship is worth saving the next step is you have to lay down the law and enforce no more sharing intimate pictures and no more wearing blouses showing your boobs.

[HungryJones]

Nope I think it's f***ed up to expose someone like that to other people, especially someone you "care" about, but I guess some people including your boyfriend get a kick out of it and will keep doing it.

[Anonymous]

Big boobs are like a trophy for guys. So he's proud of you and showing you off.

[queen-b]

Shut up ( sorry ). But if he loves her he wouldn't show any one her boobs. He would keep thm for himself... Stupid guys. All you care about is body. F***ing hate that. Ur not men. And srry again