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My friend slept with a guy I liked, should I forget her?

A girl who was my friend slept with a guy I liked and she also wants to start relationship with him. She told me that she is really sorry but he loves her not me, and I should understand it.. Maybe I understand but this situation really hurt me and I would like to forget this what happened and to forget her. I would like to throw all things which make me remember her and delete her from Facebook, and just live like she never existed in my life. Do you think that I should do it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well this is entirely up to you. she betrayed your friendship. Which really sucks. But if he didn't like you that way, he was never going to like you that way despite your feelings.

    I've had it happen to me. I also know a girl who this happened to as well. We both forgave our friends. In this girl's case, her ex boyfriend started dating her roommate in college and very good friend. It was hard for her to forgive them, but she did. As it turns out, her ex boyfriend introduced her to me. We've been together 17 years, married for 14 of them.

    • yeah I know he wouldn't like me anyway.. it's not like I think she is a bitch but I feel hurt, and I just don't want to see her anymore, I don't like her anymore, I feel like I want to forget her completely , not because I am angry but more because I want to forget this situation completely and move.

    • That's your choice.

  • She broke the ho's before bro's code. It's a different story if she didn't know you liked him, but she knew.

    You NEVER break the ho's before bro's code. Kick her to the curb.

    • Granted, that's not to say she couldn't approach him at all, but there are special considerations and permissions depending on the circumstance that you must adhere to when following the ho's before bro's code. Granted, she didn't follow any of these, she just straight up broke em.

    • She had right to do it I can understand. But : - she knew that I like him and slept with him behind my back, I mean she could tell me before " I like him too..", so it wouldn't be so much shocking for me - now she talks about it like my feelings don't matter " you are unlucky with boys so try with girls" , " he prefers me , you should understand it" blah blah..

    • Friends don't slink behind each others' back like snakes. Dump her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Now here's the question, who met him first? and did you like him before she did? How do they know each other? If they know each other through you then yes it's messed up, but you have to remember you can't control who he likes and at least she told you that she has feelings for him and that he likes her to, but if it really hurts I would say keep a distance.

  • I had a friend once do this but I looked the other way, figuring that he wasn't worth it.

    She continued doing similar things until I finally dumped her as a friend.

    She's toxic, remove her from your life and never look back. :)

  • Don't be bitter and angry about it, but keep her at a distance at least for the time being. Go ahead and delete her from your life, but don't harbor any ill feelings for her for long.

    • I don't want to hate anyone or to have ill feelings, I just wanted to delete her from my life and forget her that's all.

    • And despite what the other answerers are telling you, there's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing petty about that at all. Everyone here is so stupid.

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  • To be honest they're both single and entitled to go for whoever they like, at the same time she sounded bitchy by essentially saying 'I'm great, he loves me...blah blah blah'.

    • Yeah she said that and she didn't seem sorry for me or anything, she also said that if I am unlucky with boys I should try with girls ( I am bisexual) I think it was kinda rude of her..

    • Yeah she is being rude, in a way she doesn't really have to be sorry... But she doesn't have to brag about it and put you down. I mean it's OK for me to sleep with someone, but to then go and tell someone I'm better than them and they should go for the opposite gender instead is just me being a d***.

  • it's up to you. you have to decide if losing a crush is really worth losing a friend. so I guess I'd weigh how good of a friend she is and that would bear a lot of importance as to whether or not you keep her as a friend.

    I can say deleting her number and fb friendship are 100% NOT going to make you forget her. I think your friend made a bad move but the bigger move is to forgive and move on. tell her you appreciate her being up front about it and then you tell her that you don't know how you feel about being her friend because you feel betrayed

  • That's what I'd do, but not before leaving a few words for them to soak in.

  • forgive and forget, but keep her at a slight distance

  • this is why women need to stop sitting on their asses and make men make all the moves, the smart women are not sitting around...they go for what they want.

    just because you like someone, does not mean you got em. you sat, you waited, you didn't make a move...your loss. its not your freinds fault you were chicken

    • Couldn't have said it better myself.

  • don;t be such a baby.

  • Maybe she liked him too, it's not their fault of they like each other

  • Go talk to the guy and tell him how you feel. If she knew you liked him then she shouldve backed off. and the whole he loves her not you thing sounds like she went after him on purpose. as for if you should forgive her, go with how you feel

  • I would she sounds toxic, dump her and never look back.

  • If she did it to hurt you, then stop being her friend.

    If she did it because she genuinely likes him, then you should continue being her friend. If you stop being her friend, you're basically saying that somehow you 'deserve' him and she doesn't. The fact is, he chose to be with her. You can't reserve a guy. He isn't a seat in a restaurant. He's a human being. And even if she never got with him, you don't know whether he would have wanted you. Isn't it better that two out of you three are happy than that none of you is happy?

    Take it as a lesson for the future. If you like a guy, TELL HIM, before some other girl gets him.

  • She disrespected the hunter's mark clearly displayed on the center of his forehead, letting all other females know to not have sex with this man until the female who put the mark there made up her mind as to whether she would have sex with this man - a mark of sexual castration if you will (put there solely upon the mere liking of this man by this female).

    Oh, that b*tch didn't? She did what? She disrespected the mark? Your first dibs? Your God-given right of first refusal? Oh, f*ck her! She's violated female law, the punishment is social castration and exile!

    As a side note, this totally reminds me of those attorney for children cartoons from the New Yorker.

  • If you didn't CLAIM him,meaning talk about him to her...then I don't think she is at fault.But of you DID,then kick her to the curb.

    • she knew that I liked him, I told her

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