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Why do some men like to watch girls pee?

There's a park near where I live, that doesn't have a public bathroom, so when in the summer people picnic or barbecua and need to pee, they'd just hide behind several "favorite" bushes and pee there. One day, one of my girlfriends noticed several men lurking near that particular spot. When she got back, she asked the other girls, and they've noticed the same thing too, same thing happened the year before. This baffles me. There are also some p*rn videos on women peeing. Guys, help me understand the psychology behind this, okay? WHY do some men (not all) like to watch girls pee? What could be the reason? Or if you like watching a girl pee, what is your reason? Is it sexually arousing? Why? Is the squatting position a turn-on?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Curiosity is something innate to all of us. We all want to understand the world around us.
    What makes a person have an interest in science or anatomy or biology or music or art? It's because they're all interesting in some ways to some people but not all people.
    I have an interest in anatomy, science, mechanical engineering, acoustics... That's just me.
    I was four years old when I first heard a woman peeing (in the same room), and the hissy sound wasn't something that I could explain, to it roused my curiosity. Some women hiss, and some don't. Another interesting observation is what happens when people need to pee without restrooms. Men all just stand and pee the same as always, but women come up with some 17 different solutions. It's not that women are simply different from men, with mutual curiosity about each other's plumbing, its also that women vary a lot, and they don't often compare notes. Another curiosity. Also, men don't self wet. Some women don't either, but some pee everywhere all over their bum and accept this as normal. If they're content, then it doesn't matter, but you have to wonder why. Some women have come up with a nifty solution to the self-wetting issue, by parting their lips to prevent the stream from being disturbed, and some women try to educate others about this, but it's not something that women talk about much (who'd tell their friend how messy they are in the bathroom?), hence a lot of variety. Some women pee on the ground between their feet and spash their shoes, and accept this as normal. Some who know the spread lip technique solve this problem by projecting the stream away from them. it's a technique that should be taught at girl scouts!
    My curiosity is more about anthropology than p*rn. It's the lack of information/discussion about it that makes it a novelty to see a woman pee in public, and interesting to observe her own solution. Those who are happy to talk about it often learn something new about their anatomy!

  • My guess:

    - Some legitimately have a pee fetish, and they enjoy watching women pee, meaning urination is a sexual turn-on for them.

    - Some are voyeurs in general, meaning they like to watch naked women. The fact that it's in public, or that she doesn't know she's being watched, or that she's in a compromising position, may be additional factors for some of them. Some "spice" on the "meat" that is watching naked women, if you will

    - Some may be attracted to the vulnerability of a woman being exposed in public, and in a squatting position, unable to defend herself even from being seen taking care of "intimate business." Some guys get off on that helplessness.

    - And many just want to see some new ass or pvssy, and this just happens to be one way to do so. For them, the peeing is irrelevant, except as a pretence to take their naughty parts out in public where they might be seen.

    It's impossible to say which of these categories any particular guy falls into without asking him, but the majority would be in one or more of these.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Urolagnia (also urophilia, undinism, golden shower and watersports) is a form of salirophilia (which is a form of paraphilia) in which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or thought of urine or urination.

    What the guys are probably getting off on is the voyeuristic part of it which would be seeing another urinate without the person's knowledge either through video taping by a hidden camera, or by lurking in locations where people are urinating or are likely to have an urge to urinate.

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    I mean, there's not way to really explain the actual psychology behind any fetish. I guess, the best thing you can do, is talk to somebody and try to see about getting even a portapotty (not sure if that's what it's called) brought in, or something. Or, see about getting bathrooms built in. Because, a part from alerting the police (and they probably are aware of it. But, unless they're there all the time, nothing they can do about it), there's unfortunately nothing you can do. :/

    • They also had a suspect on an episode of Law and Order: SVU whom had the same fetish.

    • Wow. Complicated. Maybe some men just like to watch women pee.

    • Yeah, it really is. But, I was just trying to give the person an explanation as to why the guys might be into it, and give a little bit of info into what it was. I mean, at the end of the day, it's a fetish, and like all fetishes you can't really explain why one person is into that, whilst another isn't.

  • My boyfriend said is because we have a stronger pee stream that's what turn them on what ever that means.

    • Can I watch you per

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  • Don't know exactly, could be many things... They could like the idea of the girl not knowing they're watching, or the idea of getting caught watching. They could be doing it just to see a girls vagina, they could relate the imagery to that of squirting. Maybe they do like the squatting thing, or maybe they're just into girls peeing.

  • - Although I am a man, I pee like a woman. Most women congratulate me for peeing sitting up like them

    Why do some men like to watch girls pee?

    • women watch men pee

  • Its not my thing, but I'd guess because vagina.

  • Because we do it differently.

    • can I lick all the pe e out of your pretty sexy pussy

  • It's a voyeuristic thing watching a woman's vagina doing SOMETHING. When I was a kid, sometimes us boys would pee out in the woods, but the girls would never do that, which made it even more of a mystery of what girls had and how they did it.

  • regardless of men liking or not to see girls peeing I think a girl shudn't pee in public because if guys are trying to ogle the whole act they might well record it on their phones and post it on the internet or share it with their friends which is really degrading and a mental setback for the girl if she finds out that she is on the internet...

    please do take care as once you are been recorded and on the internet there is no way of wiping it out...it remain there forever and you may hav to deal with it all your life...

  • There is another aspect to this male behavior that is rarely understood outside of scientific circles. Humans react to pheromones just like any other animal, although we go a long way to hide our odors with deodorants and clothing. In addition to the highly erotic view, for most men, of seeing a woman's intimate area exposed-- the urination process also, unlike in men, tends to spray some urine on the inner and outer labia and between the buttocks. Even if wiped, the scent remains as an attractant. Many men may say they wouldn't want to watch a woman pee, but they really would find it highly stimulating. Men are, after all, just animals with a bigger (and often useless) brain.

  • Curiosity? A little erotic? Seeing something taboo.

    • Cricket can I watch you pee

  • In my case, I'm sexually aroused to see a girl peeing. In general, it happens with any fluid from her body, but pee is for me a real turn on, because sometimes I can see the girl's ass while she peed and that fluid comes very closed from her vagina.

  • it's the only time it's acceptable for women to be naked. this really sexualizes it

  • Yes, i love it. I see girls pee every day cause of my job

  • I don't get it either Daph. I have seen woman pee, and it's never turned me on. But to each his own.

  • I liked to watch my ex pee, and she’d let me. But mostly probably because I’d get a closeup of her pussy. I’d shave the same girl. Loved that. Any closeup and personal pussy time is great.

  • Some might, or some might be trying to catch a peek of it lol.

  • Because they might think its cute but i find it weird

  • men just love anything to do with women

  • I would love to see a women pee. I also would love to lick the pee out of her pretty pussy all she can give me.

    • same

  • A guy can't just see a girl pee in a casual sense, it has to be by Special Invitation. It's something RARE to behold because of that.
    It has an air of mystery about it.
    Whereas a guy can get his penis out just about anywhere, and sometimes girls see a guy peeing accidentally , if they cross the entrance to an alleyway or walk passed a tree the guy is urinating against., No mystery there BUT a girl urinating IS a mystery.

  • Just seeing the girls pee come out is very arousing

  • As a man whom has this particular fetish, and isn't afraid or ashamed to let it be known, I can provide my own, personal perspective and what I've learned from studying fetishism in-general over the past ~5 years.

    First, I want to preface my comment by stating outright that even though I've had this particular fetish for at least 13+ years, I haven't engaged in this with every woman I've been intimate with, nor even every one I've been in an official relationship with. For me, it's a very intimate aspect of my sexual repertoire. Only a few women that I've been with have ever learned of this proclivity, and all four of them were surprisingly quite accepting... all but one actually ended up getting into it themselves, especially once I explained why it turned me on so much.

    Personally, I find the act of watching a beautiful woman whom I'm desperately attracted to pee for me (physically and otherwise - I reserved this special treat only for the few with whom I saw long-term relationship potential / possible marriage). I also enjoy having my cock peed on, especially in the later stages of foreplay / during intercourse. I've had a squirt fetish since I was a teenage boy... I can remember clearly being ~15/16, and learning about excessively wet female orgasms. So, it's fair to say that my pee fetish evolved from my proclivity for squirters / "creamers." I didn't develop a pee fetish until ~23-24 years of age; I'm currently 38. I first experienced watching a woman pee (in a sex-type way, that is) around age 23, and it was because my ex-wife wasn't a squirter. Well, more like I hadn't perfected my technique as of yet. These days, I'm a firm believer that the overwhelming majority of (healthy) women are capable of squirting - it's really all about technique and ensuring you've done your job and gotten them properly aroused via foreplay / teasing prior to trying. Anyway, I digress...

    My ex-wife and I had a very wild sex life. We both were very sexual people, enjoyed sex multiple times daily for years and even experimented with threesomes with other women. I think it was as simple as having tried everything else at that point (minus 💩, which is where I draw the line. That and vomit - no thanks, but to each their own I guess lol), and one night I asked her if she'd pee on my cock while having sex in the shower. She shot me a grin that said "you're DIRTY, and I love it!" - she didn't have a fetish for it of her own, but the fact I was wildly turned on by it definitely added to her level of excitement - plus, seeing me so turned on by her doing that to me made her feel really sexy and highly desired. That was her fetish - pleasing me and feeling like the sexiest woman on earth.

    It's honestly been the exact same story with my current wife. She's not particularly "turned on" by peeing on me / for me, but the fact it turns me on so much... that REALLY gets her blood boiling, and her juices flowing! Lucky for me, she IS a squirter... and she squirts A LOT. She also gets super creamy, which is just terrific. I get to enjoy the clear, slick precum during foreplay, cream / "froth" during oral and when using toys / having sex AND she rewards all my hard work and dedication by soaking me - like being hit with a Super Soaker lol! Thank God for waterproof mattress covers!

    In closing, I truly believe it comes down to this: it's highly taboo / naughty AND the intimacy factor is very high for such an act to occur and both parties to get something out of it. For me, it's knowing I'm the only person to experience such a pleasure with the woman I love more than any other, mixed with it being soooo kinky / taboo / "wrong." Plus, it feels good! Now, she does ensure she's properly hydrated - if she's not peeing clear, or damn close, we may decide to skip it until she's better hydrated. That's for her to feel secure in the act - I would never want her to feel insecure when it comes to anything sexual. As her husband / partner, it's on me to ensure she's 100% comfortable and feeling into X act... if she's not that night, we just skip certain things. It's not an every time kinda thing, nor would I want it to be.
    On her end, it's 80% about seeing how hot and hard it gets me, 10% about the domination factor of peeing on my most treasured body part and 10% because I make her feel so sexy when it's occurring. I'll just pipe her up the whole time, telling her how fucking gorgeous she is, how I've never been so turned on in my life, how I'm the luckiest man I know - just to be allowed / blessed to have her perfect little Asian box bringing me to the heights of sexual pleasure... I'm 100% in to her when we're being intimate.

    Communication is key when engaging in any type of kink. You have to really know your partner, and be willing to bare yourselves entirely to one another. I think that's another aspect of the appeal for many - you truly feel "naked" - and not just in the physical sense. It's a highly intimate act... if you've never tried it, all I can say is "don't knock it til you do!" Who knows - you might find your new, favorite kink!

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