My boyfriend says I get "too wet" down there?

When my boyfriend and I have sex,he says I get too wet and that it's nasty and a turnoff? Is it really a turnoff to most men?
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Um,i guess I could go the gyno and talk to her about it.I mean,i didn't know guys thought it was a turnoff or that it affected how it feels
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm really thinking your guy is just inexperienced. Hun you're just fine normal is all relative... Like a couple of the girl said to 70-80% of guys it would be a HUGE TURN ON! The other 20-30% are inexperienced or just ignorant.

    One thing you could try is just have a towel or wash rag close possibly even under you while you're having sex so you two can both wipe up a bit.

    My guess is that he's just immature and inexperienced possibly both.

    You're fine and should feel blessed ;-)

  • No, it is not a turnoff or a problem at all. Tell the boyfriend to grow up or you will find a good one.

Most Helpful Girls

  • ive never even heard of this! shame on him for making you feel self conscious. its a HUGE turn on for most guys I know because it means they know what they are doing and you're enjoying it. its pretty much like getting a prize after doing something good, the wetter you are, the more they are pleasuring you so he should be happy.

  • Shouldn't that be a compliment to the guy? I mean, I'd be offended if the guy couldn't maintain an erection around me- it's basically the same thing. I'd lose the guy- he doesn't know what he's talking about. There's nothing wrong with you. At least you know you're not in danger of any painful stretching.

  • it may be that it is making it so easy to slide in and out, that there is less friction and thus less pleasure. try taking an antihistamine(like for allergies), because that can help dry you up a little.

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  • my guy loves it. it's a turn on for him. especially when he can make me really wet. it's natural. don't be ashamed.

    it could be worse.

    you could never get wet and always be dry :( eww.

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  • I don't see how that's nasty.

    He should be happy that you're getting off like that.

  • It's a natural process, so to me it's no big deal at all.

  • Tell him to buy a sponge. You're fine.

    • Lmao

  • Nope. It's a good thing. He needs to learn female physiology.

  • He is crazy, the wetter the better in my opinion...

  • Hmmmm there is NO such thing as too wet.

    Find a more considerate boyfriend or tell him his d*ck is on the small side or he doesn't c*m enough.

  • what man who don't like wet p**** I mean come on the wetter the better I say

  • That's kinda mean that he's making you feel uncomfortable about it. It's natural and it's not like you can control it.

    my boyfriend loves it and says that its hot, don't be ashamed about it tho =]

  • The wetter the better

  • No turn off If it really is too wet (that can happen, giving not enough friction, but it's rarely that wet), a tampon in & out and you're too dry-thus don't overdo that.

  • I will say I've never heard of a guy say that. Tho it can be possible it his turn off. A turn off is a turn off.

  • wow. that's new...i have never EVER heard that coming from a guy. seriously in all my years and experience...being wet has always been a HUGE turn on to guys. your boyfriend just is a little different I guess...but he should not be saying it's nasty...or making you feel bad about it, because that is incredibly rude and you should not tolerate it. don't forget that.