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After sex, he criticizes my body a little?

So after my boyfriend and I have sex,he sort of criticizes my body a little.I'm 5'2,110lbs,34B cup.He makes comments about how my breasts are too small,or how I should lose like 10lbs cause my thighs giggly a little,or how I should consider breast implants.I have asked him to please stop commenting on my body,and it makes me feel insecure because he does this after sex,when I'm still naked,so it's weird... So I guess my Q is,after guys have sex with their gf/wife or whoever,do most of them think things like this in their head?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you're really 5'2 and 110 I wouldn't worry about the giggly thighs, but yeah the size of titties DO MATTER. I'm a higher status, alpha male who is successful. I prefer at least a C cup (no bigger than Double Ds). Get the surgery it'll make everyone happy (including you).

    I think chics wit small tits ask these questions as a SHIT TEST to see who the quality status alpha males are and who the beta males are. haha. They secretly like when the guy wants bigger tits, because in her mind, that makes him look like he is higher quality alpha male (and when you think about it, it's true). The beta dudes don't really mind (or claim not to mind). Just something I've noticed in the past (I've been with tons of women, of all types, which is how I recognized this).

    No matter how many compliments chics wit small tits get, they'll ALWAYS feel insecure and inferior to chics wit bigger tits, and I hate to be an asshole (okay, maybe not, because my asshole ways do get me laid the most haha), but it's true, guys will always want bigger than a B cup. I'm Tall, hot, successful, big cock and can get pretty much any woman I want, which I usually choose least a C cup.

    It's a 'status' thing, even women want a dude who has some muscles and has a bigger than average cock (women who say size doesn't matter are lying and we ALL know it). It's the same with dudes and tits. The average or below average beta dudes may not mind as much, but higher status alpha males will choose women with bigger breasts. Just the way it is.

    I've even noticed that I'm subconsciously more of a rough prick in the sack wit women who have smaller tits. Ironically, they seem to love that shit though (like a degradation fetish or something). They know subconsciously that I can get a higher status female with bigger breasts, so they try harder to please in the sack and do more of what I want. One plus I'll give here though, it does seem smaller breasted chics have tighter pussies.

    But aside from that, I think most guys if given the choice would definitely choose a woman wit bigger breasts. He may tell you that it doesn't matter, while secretly checkin out the chic at the next table wit big knockers. It's just like if most women were given the choice, they'd choose a dude wit a bigger cock. They may tell their boyfriend or husband size doesn't matter, while secretly having a fantasy of a guy wit a bigger package. SIZE DOES MATTER! But you're welcome to try and change my mind on that. I'm in Northern Califo

    • Please don't take this advice What a DOUCHELORD. Your boyfriend is a prick. Start making remarks about his size.

  • What. An. Asshole.

    Dump him. Dump him now. Anybody who can toy with your insecurity so casually is very bad for you.

    Run away, run away.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Your boyfriend is clearly stupid . Like if he really cares that much about you then he shouldn't be criticizing you. & ur body definitely has nothing wrong with it the way ur explaining it.

    If I were you , I would get rid of him and find someone that actually cared for who I was , and wouldn't criticize me . Ever hear that song on the radio ? " Your Boyfriend is a douche Bag , Yep , He's a douche bag" , well seems like that song applies to him .

    But Yeah , I would definitely get rid of him.

    • Douche*

  • omg definitely not. this guy is NOT WORTH YOUR TIME! what a pig (no offense, but how dare he do that). seriously, hun, you're better off with someone else. I've never even heard of this happening. the guy you are dong it with should respect and love you enough and thank his lucky stars that you slept with him, not act as though you should be thanking him!

  • 'a little' should be enough for red flags to go up about this guy. if you don't love him, I would lose him right away

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  • People think things sure. Is it right to say anything... hell no. I agree with most people on here that you should reevaluate your relationship. I believe he may be trying to make you a little insecure about yourself so he can feel better about himself. No matter what it is not healthy emotionally to subject yourself to someone who will treat you that way.

  • he sounds like a dick.

    drop his ass. you deserve better.

  • Nope. I generally think how lucky I am to have the time to spend with her. I wouldn't keep this guy long term. He has control issues.

  • If he doesn't like your body then do not have sex with him anymore.

    I would SERIOUSLY reevaluate this relationship.

    You are right "it's so weird" & HE is the weirdo!

    You deserve better.

  • No I don't think anything like that in my head, and I definitely have never done that to a girl I was just with. Your boyfriend sounds like a dick.

    BTW if you lost 10 pounds you'd be anorexic looking; my last girlfriend was 5'3" and about 130lbs and she had a SEXY body.

  • No. This guy can seriously f*** off. I have professionally seen A LOT of female bodies and this guy is a loser.

  • Your boyfriend sounds like a huge douche. I recommend breaking up with him.

  • He's a loser. have you dumped him yet?

    • No

  • Sounds like an ass to me ! !

  • Sounds like a douche bag to me. Dump his ass!

  • criticize him c what he does

  • Dump this guy. He's an asshat.

  • Wow what a total asshole he is. How do you stay with a jerk like that? Nooo, guys do NOT think things like that after sex much less say them, except I guess a few do like your own bf. The thoughts I have are completely opposite, and I'd not have the gall to talk to my girlfriend like that after having sex. What your guy is doing it completely over the line... way out of bounds! Just tell him to stop that kind of talk. Like no more.. the end of it! If he does it one more time after that ask him where he ever got the thought that he's so hot, and then tell him to consider himself dumped!

  • WHAT?!?!?!?

    no guy should make rude comments about a girls body after having sex

    and he's just being a douche bag

    you should really talk to him

    and if he still criticizes then break up with him!

  • DUMP the DOUCHE!

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